Harlette

Cute blog, but when are you going to post some pictures of your own? :P

does it bother you that your husband is really into pissing? i've seen your blog and it doesn't seem like pissing is up there on your top favorite kinky things lol. do you do it with your husband or is it one of those things that just gets blogged about but it doesn't really happen behind your closed doors?

What would be better own by black man or a white man?

Hahah, you got me wrong when I said the thing about pissing him off. I don't and *haven't* done that for the exact reason you pointed out. I was just saying that to show the obnoxious extent it would take-- something I'm not really willing to do. If he's pissed, I'm not in that great of a mood either, in which case either of us would enjoy it and, realistically, he wouldn't want to be having sex then anyways. And I do trust him, he's one of the few people I do completely trust. He's one of the only people I've told about being into this. It's him trusting himself that's the issue. Or is that what your telling me to google, in which case I will kindly remove myself from here and leave you be?

What are some rules your master/husband has set for you? me and my boyfriend just started seriously getting into slave and master(right now not living together its difficult for us to really do much) and are trying to lay down ground rules... Well he is laying out rules for me

So I'm quite the submissive type and I'd do anything to get my guy off-- I *want* him to use me. And the guy I'm dating *can* be quite dominate, I've seen flashes of it, but he almost immediately backs off and regrets back to a "gentler" dominance, if that makes any sense? Putting his hand to my throat, but not really squeezing, pinning me down by my writsts, but I'd still be able to get out of it if I really wanted to, stuff like that. I've talked to him about it, and he says he's afraid of hurting me. I've told him he shouldn't be, that I can take it, but still he holds back. Is there anyway I can make his dominance come out fo lr more than a flash, or should I just leave it be and accept that he probably won't be much rougher unless I piss him off or something before sex?