Happy T

I wrote this for whoever needs to hear this, meaning you must be going through something. If you’re reading this it means I must care about you a lot and I want to save you from yourself. Look, first off I want to say this, things happen for the better or for the worst, but in the end you have to accept that. Now I don’t know what you’re going through, maybe a relationship ended, you lost someone, or maybe your car broke down and you don’t have a way to get to that nice job opportunity, who knows, I’m not psychic. Listen, after everything that happened you still have to move forward. While you’re sitting there dwelling on what went wrong or you’re wondering how you could’ve done better, time is still moving forward and that thing that’s got you so worked up is already going to be yesterday’s history. I know it hurts and it sucks, but ask yourself, what did you learn from it? Did you get anything out of it? Is it going to effect what’s important? Will it linger inside you forever? Who knows, but you need to remember and focus more on what matters. If its one of those things where it changes your life forever, don’t let that affect you in a negative way. Negative things happen all the time and thats just life. I mean look at all the negative things of our human history. So much has happened and all we did as a species was accept,learn, and we moved on. Sure those events changed people lives forever and some changed for the bad. Don’t let bad things steer you away from all the good you’re capable of. Its up to you to evolve and be the best version of yourself. It won’t be easy, but you should give it your all. There are more obstacles ahead of you and you shouldn’t be intimidated by them because look how far you’ve come already. Don’t compare your life to others because its your story, not a race. Believe in yourself more. If you feel like you’re in a low point in your life cut that shit out because we all started at a low point in the first place. Everyone’s stories are different so why does it matter? Some people get envious and angry and want to ruin other’s lives and if you run into those types, treat them with love. Don’t give into the negativity because all that’s going to do is spread more negativity in the world. Be humble, enjoy life, do what makes you genuinely happy. If something bad happens, then shit, it already happened, you’re going to have to move on. At the end of the day, remember to walk forward with your head on your shoulders. The past is the past. The future, well, we all look forward to that, but as for the present, that’s where you build. Use all the tools and knowledge you’ve gained up to this point and remember you’re only human. There’s only so much you can do. So keep going. You’re doing great, believe in yourself and give yourself some more credit! If you fail, try again. We all fail sometimes and our failures are lessons. Nobody’s perfect, that’s why we must continue to move forward and be the best versions of ourselves. You got this. Stay strong, I promise everything is going to get better, so stay positive. Like I said earlier, this is your story and you’re the one with the pen writing it all down. Cherish everything you have now. You are unique and you’re perfectly fine the way you are. So keep going, I’ll support you from afar!

-Theo

I want you to stop what you’re doing and pat yourself on the back for making this far. It doesn’t matter if you’ve made it far or not, be proud of what you’ve witnessed and discovered. All those experiences have made who you are today and I’m pretty sure there are people can vouch for you saying that your doing the best you can. No matter what obstacles you come across, you are going to get through them because that’s what life is all about. It’s all one big obstacle course and sometimes we get help and sometimes we don’t. We wont know how far we can get, but if we keep moving forward we gain knowledge to overcome things life can throw at us. YOU got to the point in life where you can look back and be proud you got through all the obstacles life through at you. So great job and continue to move forward. No one genuinely knows how hard you worked to get where you are and it wouldn’t matter if they did because its not up to their approval. What matters is how you feel when you achieve the success you worked so hard for. You kept trying, and your still going. A bunch of small victories will lead to the big one. Any failure’s will give you more knowledge to overcome anything trying to hold you back. So with all that being said. Just remember to stay proud of everything you do. You are doing your best and if you aren’t, what’s stopping you? It’s hard I know and I also know its easier said than done, but if you gain nothing if you don’t try at all. Keep trying, and give yourself more credit. You’re doing great  and ill support you from afar.

So you failed at something. Go do it again. What? You failed again? Do it again and again. We all fail. Failure is apart of life and you should expect it more than being afraid of it. Being afraid limits ours limit to move forward because we’re so fixated on something bad to happen to us or something that could rate our egos, but forget about all that. If you have a goal, then just go for it. You want it go get it. Failure is just delaying yourself from getting there, because you can try again. being afraid of failure is like convincing yourself to give up and not try at all. Just relax, you got this. Think about the goal, and think about all the lessons to come. You’re about to level up after the experience. Keep moving forward and remember when you fail again, you can still keep going forward and try again. Nobody’s perfect, people learn in different ways, people have their own stories, and you have yours. If you fail don't think your falling behind. It’s not a race. Life goes forward and so do you. Don’t let your failures dwell your thoughts to what will be the past. Stay present motivated to improve your future. You got this Ill support you from afar. 

I want you to look back and think about everything you’ve done so far. Was it everything really difficult? Did the situations not end in your favor? Are you replying everything asking yourself what you could’ve done? Well stop it. Yeah it was probably really difficult, but you made it through and if you did a bad job, well next time you’ll do better. Do you believe that? If not, then you should. It only makes sense that we all adapt to things we aren't comfortable with and they next time you do that thing you were bad at before, you will already remember how to get through it. Sure it could be bad again, but that's not my point right now, my point is that no matter how bad it was before, it will be 10x easier the next time. You are great. Out of everything you’ve gone through, everything that's held you back or what you called a struggle, you did it. Don't label yourself a failure because everyone fails at something, so try again. Your greatness can only be temporary if you give up. I'm writing this because I see the potential to be even greater than yourself. So look back at everything you’ve done so far. I want you to think about everything that makes you great and hold on to those things. Don’t compare yourself to others and their accomplishments. They are not writing the story that is destined for you. So keep at it, Ill support your from afar