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i love naming the elephant in the room (porn) in conversation because you're not supposed to do that and people are shocked but then they always agree with me. "teen boys are a menace these days" -> it's because of porn. "that's not normal behaviour" -> it's porn addiction. "does that imagery make anyone else uncomfortable" -> it's inspired by porn. "the way women are characterized" -> it's porn mythology. like ladies we are allowed to stay this stuff out loud

Also, please remember that the average age for porn exposure is 12 years old, and that 28% have seen porn by the time they were 9. Virtually every man and even 68% of women (depending on the study and definition of porn) use it. 92% of television shows and movies contain pornographic images. This is not men's, or women's, fault. There are no willing 9 year old cocaine addicts. It is okay to be gentle about the topic of pornography because the people involved need love not shame.