I recently realized there are people in the world that seem to think submissive equates to easy. This came after being berated by a "friend". Among other things, I was accused of being selfish and a liar. From his perspective, I may as well be a "bed hopping" dirty whore and that's exactly how he treated me. You can imagine my confusion when I realized he thought I am or should be a ready/willing fucktoy for all....WTF🤬🤬 so, I'm gonna offer a little PSA for the apparently clueless- I am submissive (mainly in the bedroom) by choice; I enjoy it and there are aspects that mentally sate me. In no way, shape, or form, does this obligate me to "put out" to ANYONE nor does it mean I'm some sex starved slut willing to fuck everyone.
Ironically, it's the complete opposite. You (and anyone else) will have to work twice as hard to get me into bed. My submission is a privilege that has to be earned. A deeply personal piece of myself given as a gift in exchange for the same from my partner. It's not based on looks or income, its acquired via mutual trust and respect. Said person has demonstrated through words and actions a comfortable level of self-control as well as an awareness of my physical and mental needs and how to tend them. They likely possess an authoritative or alpha personality.....they sure as fuck know that a grown ass man having a tantrum over ANYTHING, especially sex, is an instant turn-off. (unless of course you're a little)
I was accused of having a "route" of men😅 and I suppose thats somewhat accurate; I have admirers.I could have a different partner every night of the week if I so chose- but I don't. I love sex, I love QUALITY sex, ideally with one person. I have a high sex drive which I choose to ignore in hopes of holding out for sex that actually satisfies my needs.
So there ya go people- if you know someone that identifies as submissive and is single, IT DOESN'T MEAN THEY ARE DTF!!
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