What’s shaking I came across your post via this old ass blog just here for friendly convo.
What makes you feel like men or the opposite sex will never truly love or cherish women for who they are?
First, we have to define loving and truly cherishing someone. What does that look like? It looks like appreciating your partner, even with all of their flaws. It's a love that goes beyond appearance. Sure, we all start relationships with people we are attracted to, but a deep, true love goes beyond that. If your partner suddenly gained 100 pounds what would your reaction be? If you truly loved this person, you'd probably think "is something wrong? Are they struggling with something? Maybe we can work on this together so they can be healthy. Let's make sure this extra weight isn't hurting them" It's that dreamy, romantic love women and girls dream about daily. Women are entirely capable of expressing this love. Look how quick my gender is to appreciate dad bods, to remind men everyday that we love them even if they're not conventionally attractive. Women search for beauty in men's personalities, in their charisma and other intrinsic parts of themselves. It's why you'll see Bella Hadid, a supermodel whose beauty is celebrated worldwide, dating a man who isn't society's masculine ideal. You'll rarely see the opposite.
I came to this conclusion based on things men themselves have said over and over again. I could go on and on about crime statistics but it's so much easier to use mem's own words. According to men, we women are only good for beauty, youth domestic tasks and childrearing. That is the only thing they want from us. The only "personality" they want is one that closely mirrors their own, but much more submissive and selfless.
Men say we have an expiration date. After 30 we are all hideous, disgusting creatures who shouldn't be allowed to exist in society. If you think I'm lying, look at every male dominated space that discusses women. This obsession with making sure we are married in our most vulnerable, naive state is not a sign of love. When I love someone, I want to see them grow into a capable human being. I don't want to diminish their power. I WANT them to be powerful enough that they can't be taken advantage of. Because that's what's best for them. Men don't want that. They want us powerless, that's why they took away roe v wade, because there is power in being able to decide when children are born.
And you'd think, with all this focus on women being their best when they're beautiful mothers, they'd at least have some appreciation for women who fulfill these patriarchal duties. But they don't! Men(andrew tate, fresh and fit and other HIGHLY popular "alpha/redpill" media) themselves have said that women lose more "value" the more children we have. How could you watch a woman sacrifice her health to bring a child into the world and conclude that she's a less valuable person? When I think of my mother, of all mothers, I get overwhelmed because I'm so in awe of women being able to nourish and create life with our bodies. But men think it ruins us.
Men will reduce women from fully functioning human beings to a collection of services. There is no love here. If they were capable of loving us, they wouldn't be six times more likely to divorce a woman when she gets cancer. The abuse rates wouldn't be this high. Married women live shorter lives than single women. When news came out about women not wanting to marry or have children anymore, men said the government should take our rights away. The reason we won't marry them is because we're not dependant on them. They want to force us to marry them. Wouldn't you want the person you love to want you? Not need you? It's impossible to love someone and intentionally hurt or limit them like this. A man who gleefully accepts a society like this and participates in misogyny is incapable of truly loving a woman.
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