i think et.ho would somewhat have an oral fixation. the beauty of having a mask is that no one can see what you're doing with your mouth.

Yk those masks that look like a regular mask but it has a dildo on the inside? I forgot what it called but I bet eefo would use one

Joel bringing up his wish to sacrifice himself for Jimmy, like Jimmy is a lost cause, like he got burned and doesn't wanna be burned again, but in truth the very fact that he mentions it and his grief around it - it's bc his instinct is to want to protect Jimmy. He resents Jimmy for not allowing Joel to save him. Resents himself more for failing. And then Jimmy fucking - thanking him? Meeting Joel's indignation, his resignation, him loudly pretending he's given up on Jimmy, with gratitude? Because he knows Joel isn't saying "fuck you for being a lost cause", but "sorry for failing to save you". And he needs Joel to hear "I know you are. It's okay. I love you anyway." does anybody hear me