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If not now then when? I woke up to a fabulous message from WordPress. Nine years ago today, I posted my first blog post! I remember how nerve-wrecking putting myself out there was. I was convinced no-one would even read the post! Thank you to those that did, and to those who have followed me, supported me through their comments and likes and to those who have just read my posts. I am so…

A few years ago, I was in a bit of a panic.  I couldn’t get hold of my cousin, who was going through a bit of a challenging time.  I was concerned that something had happened to her.  I called my uncle as I knew he had been in contact with her recently.  He is known to be a wise old soul, and he told me not to expect that something bad had happened.  Everything will be alright. It turned out she…

Daily writing promptSomething on your “to-do list” that never gets done.View all responses Oh Dear Gentle Readers, where shall I start! And yes, I just watched the first four episodes of S4 of Bridgerton. (Have you watched it? What did you think?) One of the distractions that I allow in my life 🙂 Let’s see…there are three items on my to-do list that I allow myself to be pulled away…

It’s the start of my personal new year tomorrow.  I turn 53 on the 7th.   Yip, that is quite a daunting number, but I still maintain that my 50s will be my best decade yet! The “yet” part is very important in that sentence.  I believe that each decade thereafter will be even better than my 50s.  This really helps me look past the number and just be grateful and proud that I have reached it. 🙂…

This morning I came across a post on LinkedIn by Daniel Pink. He was sharing a little wisdom about choosing a word for the year. You can watch it here. If you have been following me for a while (Thank you!) you know that this has become a regular practice for me. I highly recommend it and here is why. Why Choosing a Word of the Year Can Be a Great Idea I have had a word every year for four…

Reflection It’s not that often that I find myself absolutely exhausted but this year I experienced it far too often. Last night I was just too tired to even think of writing. This morning I woke up feeling a little unwell, still exhausted and my body felt like it had been hit by a train. No doubt, it’s a sign that I need to rest more often, given how much more stressful work in particular has…

Where has the time gone? My son received his report today. He has passed grade 11! I am so proud of him. 2026 is his final year of high school. I still remember his first day of primary school so clearly, and now here we are. God has been good to us. Thank you, God. Today he also had his first lesson with a driving school. He was so excited. By the middle of next year, he will have his driver’s…

 Reflection As I have mentioned in previous posts, this has been a very challenging year for me for several reasons. Most challenges were work-related. There were times when I was simply exhausted. Thankfully, I am still standing. I can still smile and laugh. I can still be kind even though quite a few people have not been kind to me this year. That’s on them though. I can do all this because…

Reflection This year has been one of the most challenging years at work. I had a new team and a demanding programme to deliver. We achieved most of what we set out to do. I am very proud and grateful that we did. Priorities changed, and team members changed, but we did it in the end. There is still much to be done in the little time we have left before 2026 rolls around. I have enjoyed the…

Reflection Today would have been my parents’ 53rd wedding anniversary. I am so grateful that they came together at a point in their lives. I wouldn’t be here if they didn’t, and I definitely wouldn’t be the person I am today. I am grateful that I was able to experience a loving home when I was younger. I am grateful that in the moments that counted, they always tried to ensure that we…

Reflection   As an introvert, one of the most precious things to me is a quiet moment to gather my energy. These solitary weekends serve this purpose for me. I get to read and watch TV uninterrupted (unless the cats decide they need their human butler to serve them in some way or another😂). It’s also my time to think, plan, and write, even if no one will see my writing.   As a single mum, this…

Today I am grateful to have made it through the first week of December. I love that December (or Dezemba as we like to call it in South Africa) is a culture. It’s a whole vibe! It is the license we give ourselves to say I will chuck “it “in the f*ck it bucket and deal with “it” another time. Today was a bright and beautiful day and it was a sweltering 32 deg C. A reminder that summer is just…

A few months ago, I think I was listening to a podcast. One of the topics was about getting back to being yourself to de-stress. At the time I was feeling a bit overwhelmed with my job and new team. I took a moment to remember those times in my life when I was most relaxed. What did I do every day or most often? I used to journal often. I have never really being a daily journal writer but I have…

Image: Canva This is a lesson I have to learn time and time again…be grateful for closed doors. There is a reason that door wasn’t for you. This year, I had a few doors closed in my face. Some just didn’t even open. My standard reaction was anger initially. Then, thanks to my anger, I got in my own way. Eventually I made the decision to just keep putting my best foot forward in what hopefully…

It’s that time of year again where we all take some time to reflect and take stock of the year that has been. Those of you that have followed me for some time know that this is also when I take a moment to just say thanks for all my blessings. I hope you join me in doing the same. This has been one of the most challenging years I have ever experienced at work. I successfully reapplied for my…