erin

someone else has what i want #notfair

Love trying to explain that people in the ancient world traveled and exchanged ideas and cultural concepts only for the average shut-in American dipshit who's frightened of Black people and have wired cameras all over their suburban home to butt in like "No they didn't people kept to their own communities and nobody could go anywhere" like okay I get why that might seem to be the case for someone whose passport was acquired solely for sex tourism purposes but your psychological problems were not the basis of vast swaths of human society throughout time

Unfortunate trend i’ve noticed in my local trans femme community is the feeling that you must be willing to have sex if you want to be apart of the community. ever since I stopped trying to have sex with other trans women (or just letting trans women hit) I fully lost like all my trans friends. Idk what trans femme communities are like elsewhere but mine seemingly doesn’t exist unless you are willing to have sex.

It does not feel good to be made to feel like the only value you can bring to others is your body and sex. Idk I wish that like I could just be friends with other trans women without feeling like I’m only worth their time if I’m willing to fuck. trans mascs got me tho