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Enneagram subtype: sx8

"Sexual Eights have a strong antisocial tendency. People with this subtype are provocative people who express lust through open rebellion—through declaring in word and deed that their values differ from the norm. Along with being the most rebellious of the Eight subtypes, the Sexual Eight is, interestingly, also the most emotional. This outspoken, rebellious Eight likes to be seen as bad – or at least they don’t mind it -- and they tend not to feel any guilt over the rebellious things they do. It’s almost a matter of pride for Sexual Eights to go against the stream of convention or to disrespect rules and laws.

Both male and female Sexual Eights try to possess and control their mates. While Sexual Eights can be overtly domineering, it is an attempt to cover their insecurity about being loved and desired. Both male and female Sexual Eights see relationship as a conquest and want to hold the power in the relationship so that they don’t have to be vulnerable and dependent.

A sexual eight has a tendency toward social detachment. He is a rebellious person, much more than the other E8. He is also a more provocative person, who flaunts, who proclaims that his values are different from the norm. This occurs with all eight, but in the sexual subtype, this tendency becomes a clear detachment from the intellect."

Socionic type: SEE , each function explained

Knows how to make useful contacts and utilize them. In political games often masterfully maneuvers between his contacts on the opposing sides. Reconciles with people just as easily as he quarrels with them. During down time likes to lament, to complain that he is not understood. In situations when he is well-informed, he will cite different quotes and facts by this demonstrating his erudition."

"SEE enjoys being the center of attention and evoking admiration in others. Presents himself as a promising person of great potential and with many open possibilities. Stresses his own personal originality and uniqueness. Easy gives out compliments, says that which he knows others would like to hear.

SEE is perceptive of the balance of power. He quickly detects who is strong and who is weak, who can be pushed around and whom it’s better not to touch. Looks for weak spots in people who are close to him. Exerting pressure on these points, he is able to change their behavior in a way that is most favorable for him. He himself is not susceptible to such manner of pressuring, will skillfully dodge it. Knows how to stand up for himself. Reacts boisterously when his freedom and opportunities are being limited. Orders around those who are less resolute and decisive and less confident in themselves. With a stronger partner talks on equal terms. Always finds a way to draw attention to himself.

Presents himself as an original, unusual personality which won’t be fitted into any frameworks. Inclined to contrast himself with others around him. Often can maintain a conversation on any topic, little by little demonstrating that he is knowledgeable on a wide variety of topics. Captures new information quickly, but mostly on the surface. Periodically he is taken by reflections and contemplations, during which time he becomes self-absorbed. At such times, it seems to him that people do not perceive him as he really is. Quite capricious, moody and choosy. Will often highlight his broad potential, his opportunities and great prospects. Often argues and does not readily agree, will defend his point of view and values on principle.

Instinctual stacking: sx/sp

"Since the sexual instinct is first, these Eights usually don’t let an opportunity pass by to connect with those they find interesting. They can sense the power in any situation and they like to challenge people. They can enjoy making others react to them, keeping others on their toes, to find out what makes them tick. They are likely to use humor to accomplish this. When sex/self-pres Eights are unbalanced, they are very quick to anger and have a difficult time controlling their impulses."

Psychosophy type: VFLE

"They may come off as fiery, opinionated, forceful, determined, on-the-go, leaderlike, incessant, dismissive, and at times childlike given their lack of incentive to stop doing what they have already decided to do. The VFLE seems to want control over their identity through instantly focusing on how they can break limitation, overcome incapability, or resist mediocrity regardless of the non-stop effort it may require."

1V(self-positive, others-negative result-oriented volition):

"First Volitions are devoid of a sense of guilt for their actions, they perceive their essence (and therefore their actions and desires that led to them) as a given. They make good leaders because they are not prone to complexes due to the discrepancy between themselves and the position they occupy, and therefore artificially create a fuss around themselves."

2F(self-positive, others-positive process-oriented physics):

"2F is a process attitude. A 2F notices small details of its own and others' physical state, seeks to interact with this and modify it. This makes 2F very mobile, interested in issues of appearance, health, personal care, exercise, and the outdoors. 2F is a passive attitude. It finds the physical needs of others worth noting, helps them to relax and get in touch with their body. 2F is a strong attitude, it is confident in its evaluations and desires influence. 2F knows how to evaluate their own and others' appearance, how to eat right and have a healathy lifestyle, how to interaact with the material world. They share these ideas with others, trying to change their lives for the better."

3L(self-negative, others-negative process-oriented logic):

"The owners of the Third Logic are simultaneously naive and distrustful. On the one hand, they are willing to believe in something that is well-argued; on the other hand, they do not trust “just information,” even from an authoritative source. However, 3L individuals are touchingly grateful when something is explained to them or when they are told something interesting, or when unexpected conclusions are drawn from a situation. The easiest way to recognize the Third Logic is in an argument: they immediately lose their confidence and react quite aggressively. This is due to the fact that they begin to doubt the correctness of their opinion and their knowledge. 3L is unable to “agree to disagree” like 2L, leaving everyone with their own opinion – no, they need to get to the truth. Sometimes 3L individuals have trouble expressing their thoughts in words, which manifests as incoherence and confusion of speech. Then they try to express their thoughts again. 3L individuals also sometimes have difficulty understanding simple things because they expect a catch in everything and are not inclined to trust their intellect."

4E(self-negative, others-positive result-oriented emotion):

"VFLEs have a flippant and surprisingly vibrant 4E. This type tends to downplay their own emotional reactions, yet is unafraid of expressing themselves when needed (which may be often). They tend to look for quick emotional feedback from others to validate that their goals are worthwhile. VFLEs can become fierce, aggressive, confrontational, and problematic without realizing that these expressions are often a result of inner emotional turmoil. On the positive side, this type can manifest as jolly, goofy, fun, and merry, yet the VFLE will still not take these impressions seriously. This type is the true emotionally unaware person when it comes to their own internal states, so they benefit greatly with self-reflection or someone who can give them pinpoint accurate feedback about the meaning of their own emotions and why it is important to consider all facets of this information internally."

Tritype: The Messenger (847 specifically)

"Impulsive, risk takers. Challenge the norm. Take pride in their individuality, not likely to conform. Innovative, enjoys their freedom. Somewhat flamboyant. Eccentric, individualistic. Probably not as emotional in the “moping” sense but in a more loss of self control, “angry” outbursts manner, but at their best, engaging, influential, encouraging, vibrant, bright, and unique to themselves."

Temperament: Chol

"For this temperament, competition is a big part of how they approach everyday life, so they may react poorly to losing. They often want to prove themselves and may go to great lengths to ensure others are aware of their abilities. When it comes to disagreements, they might believe that proving themselves right is more important than reaching the truth.

Someone who has a choleric temperament may have issues with authority, even though they themselves may want to be in charge. This can often lead to power struggles and other forms of conflict that might affect their career, relationships, or social life."

Big 5: SLUEN

"High Extroversion: They have a preference for social interactions and enjoy being around people. They thrive in group settings and feel energized by social engagements. They enjoy connecting with others and building relationships. High Neuroticism: They tend to be more prone to stress and worry. Their social self wants to go out into the world while a part of them might be timid and even shy making this a unique blend. Low Conscientiousness: They have a more relaxed and flexible approach to life. They may prefer spontaneous decisions and may not adhere to strict routines or schedules. Low Agreeableness: They prioritize their own needs and desires above others’. They tend to be more self-focused and may exhibit a sense of independence and self-reliance. They have a strong sense of individuality and may have less concern for the well-being of others. Low Openness: They have a lower level of curiosity and may not actively seek out new experiences or knowledge. They may be content with the familiar and may not have a strong desire to explore new ideas or engage in intellectual pursuits."

SEE ESFp sx8 sx/sp 847 VFLE Chol(Dom) SLUEN