The Gorean Way

Honoring your husband means respecting his opinions, even when they differ from yours, and engaging in conversation—not argument. Honoring your husband means asking him for what you want, not just complaining when he didn’t read your mind.

Your respect for your husband will encourage him to fulfill his duties as the head of the family. He gains the confidence that he can measure up to your expectations and you are always there to support him.

Find out your husband’s primary love language and then find a way to display love to him through that language.

Ask him what he’d like to do…after supper…tonight…this weekend…whatever the situation…and then do your best to make sure he has the time to get it done.

Thank God for him every time you think of him.

Refrain from undermining his authority in front of the children.

Tell things to your husband in a factual way (without the fluff or emotion).

Respond to potentially argumentative conversations with self-control.

Celebrate your husband’s successes.

Answer a perceived insult or accusation from your husband with one of these responses - “What can I do to improve this behaviour ?” “Let’s discuss this together and come up with a solution” “Please, allow me to be better for us.”

Wear clothing that flatters your body but does not flaunt it in front of other men.

Do something your husband enjoys doing with you.

Keep his secrets.

Ask for forgiveness.

Give forgiveness.

Iron his clothes.

Spend his hard-earned money wisel. 

Focus on what he’s doing right.

Be happy and positive when he is home.

Speak honorably about him and to him in front of the kids.

Humbly admit your mistakes.

Avoid nagging.

Refrain from placing the blame on him when something goes wrong.

Respect his stuff; ask before moving or throwing away something that is his.

Work to keep yourself in shape and attractive

Stop what you are doing and look at him when he talks

Refrain from interrupting him when he’s talking

Pray over him when he is going through some tough decisions or stressful situations

Smile at him

Tell him something you admire about him.

Ask him about his day.

Talk positively about him to others.

Thank him for something he’s done.

Give him a space of his own IN the house.

Dress in a way that makes him feel he’s worth it.

Let him pack the car for vacation.

Ask, “what can I do for you today?”

Let him drive.

If going to the store, ask “is there anything I can get for you while I’m at the store?”

Stop what you are doing and welcome him home with a kiss.

Give him a kiss as he walks out the door in the morning.

Get his input on big decisions.

Honor his requests

Let him know you like your life with him

Encourage him in his line of work

Avoid the use of sarcasm when speaking to him.

Say “yes” in bed.

Initiate love making.

Let him know what you like most in bed.

Compliment him often.

Make his favorite meal.

Avoid complaining.

Write him a love note.

Avoid criticizing him…especially in front of others.

Respond to his thoughts and advice with enthusiasm.

Respect his likes and dislikes.

Refrain from comparing him to other men.

Ask for his help.

Kindly try to understand his reasons, even when you don’t agree.

Give him space and time to spend on his hobbies.

Focus on what he’s doing right.

Be happy and positive when he is home.

Speak honorably about him and to him in front of the kids.

Buy his favorite brand of personal care products.

Let him open his own mail.

Laugh at his jokes…or at least smile.

Give him advance warning of family activities, schedules, and events.

Show an interest in topics, hobbies, or occupations he enjoys.

Carve out time to spend with him apart from the children.

Give him time to unwind after work before bombarding him with home life.

Touch him with affection.

Talk together about your family’s goals and how you can achieve them together.

Let him do his “to-do list” in his own time…even if his timing is not your timing.

Defend him if others speak disrespectfully about him.

Send him an encouraging email or text.

Surprise him with a gift of something he’s wanted for some time.

Meet him at his work for lunch.

Meet his co-workers and speak kindly of both him and them.

Reserve some energy for him at the end of the day

Get up when he gets up.

Go to bed when he goes to bed.

Imagine a society where the rules and laws for females were changed

A new class structure would see only Men as independent and autonomous. females would be raised from birth as slaves by parents or caregivers and sold upon their 18th birthday to their new Owners after a thorough vetting process.

Education for females would be at the discretion of their Father or Male care giver but would be cut off no later than the female’s 13th birthday, giving them only basic education at best but nothing used to compete with Men in higher level jobs, sufficiently making them dependent on their eventual Owners for everything.

As slaves from birth, females would all be declared as property and as such would enjoy none of the rights as Men and would be marked with their new Owner’s brand or tattoo, making distinguishing them from all other slaves.

There would be no more females in higher level jobs meant for Men. No more females that think they can get their own way by making a scene in public, women’s clothing selections would decrease. Seeing a female in a collar, leash or both in public would become commonplace….

Learn womanly skills of housekeeping, cooking, clothes mending, gardening, etc. If He put a roof over your head, it’s your responsibility to keep it clean and comfortable, and to take care of all house-related tasks. You aren’t just a fucktoy. You’re a maid, a chef, a personal assistant, and more. If you want Him to be excited to come home to you, make sure that His home is worth coming home to.

Mind your manners. Listen when He speaks to you and never interrupt. Give Him your full attention. Always say “please” and “thank you”. Smile often and keep a positive and pleasant attitude. Do not argue with Him—trust that He knows best. If you need to speak freely, ask for permission first and always keep your tone respectful.

Let Him decide. Never make a decision on your own unless He specifically orders you to. Always defer to Him, whether it’s what to wear, what to eat, what to buy, what to say, or even what to think. He decides. Both of you will be happier this way. :)

Practice good posture. Always carry yourself in a feminine and sexy way. There will be times to be elegant, and times to be slutty (the choice is His!), but at all times be feminine. Stand tall, never slouch, always bend at the waist. Good posture accentuates your tits, ass, and legs, which is what He wants to see.

Take care of your body. Exercise, eat well, and make sure you style your clothing, hair and makeup exactly as He says. Be His dream girl from head to toe. He deserves the eye candy!

Take care of your mental health. Dumber may be cuter, but that doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t consider your mental health. A mentally healthy girl is better able to serve her Man, and a good Man will care for his girl’s mental health. Be honest with Him about struggles you are having, because He will probably be able to give you boundaries and routines that will help.

Train your body. When He is busy or away, spend your time improving your sexual skills. Practice deepthroating, fuck and stretch your holes, practice riding a dildo for longer stretches of time, etc.

Edge. This is part of training your body. Good girls don’t ever cum for themselves. Your orgasms belong to your Man. You only cum if He decides that it would please Him. Otherwise, your job is to edge constantly and keep your pussy wet, aching, and needy. Stay aroused and desperate for Him, because it will focus your weak little mind on His pleasure and melt your brain until all you are is a dumb pleasure puppet.

A lot of people think believing in Male Superiority is hating females.  This isn’t the case.  Nothing against misogynists or those who enjoy misogyny, that is completely their right and i make no judgement on them.  This is just to point out it doesn’t have to be a part of Male Superiority.

i believe Male Superiority is the most natural, right and appropriate way to structure a relationship.  Men are naturally better suited to being in authority and control and females are much better suited to be followers and servants.  It is how we are all designed by nature.

It is exactly because nature designed us to be this way, that a relationship with a Man in total authority is actually one of the most caring and kind for a female to be in.  Teaching her how to please Him, correcting wrong behaviour, punishing disobedience and training to remove resistance in her so she can be a better female for Him, are those very acts that show love and caring.  He of course, is the best judge of what those actions will be.