āWhatās so hard about love? You simply grab the otherās hand and refuse to let goā (Goo Joon Pyo from Boys Over Flowers).
I thought really hard before posting this, reason is, I really donāt want to miss anything just because this topic is very important! To recap from last timeās post, I was discussing the topic of love. Donāt mind me please Iām just a 15 year old girl who knows so little; however, with the little knowledge I have, I might help one person!
**DisclaimerIf we search google for ādefine loveā, weāre going to find that love is can be used as a noun or a verb. In this post, Iāll be using it as a noun.
Love is everywhere!! The love of a newborn baby to his mother, a love of family, a love of friendship, a love in a relationship; you name it! See, some love happens so naturally like family love; however, some takes time, and some disappears with or without a cause. When love disappears you can see it happening; however, you canāt do anything about it. Thatās because when you make up your mind to do anything and everything for someone, you will with no doubt become deaf, fool, and blind for anything except for that one person. Therefore, your pain becomes a test for love, and even though it hurts, you keep telling yourself to keep going and be strong. I had this ridiculous innocence not too long ago. I basically lived for the hope of seeing my dad, for the hope of having a nice family. But, I was fooled when I saw reality. I changed and came to my commen sense just last year when I realized that this one person that I was looking up to so much wonāt change! Even though heās my dad, he wasnāt the person I was imagining. Like a regular daughter, I loved my dad just because it was normal to; however, I was so surprised to see his narcissistic personality.
I was never in a relationship to share anything that people would benefit from; however, my mum always says that āin oneās life, there is always someone who nods their heads in promise to share the future with you. They will walk with you one milestone at a time!ā I basically live by those words.
I asked some people four question:
1. Do you love someone? Are you afraid of letting them go?
2. Who have you lost? Does it still affect you?
3. Is there someone who you want them to forgive you? Why?
4. Is there someone who you want to forgive? Why?
The answers of some people:
Iād like to answer the second question. I lost my grandfather two years ago. We werenāt particularly close but I loved him very much. A year ago I thought I was completely over his death, but then I dreamt about him and woke up crying, and I cry rarely. The thing is- I thought I have moved on but I didnāt, so it was quite a strange experience.
1: yes my partner, yes I am
2: Lost friends, it does affect me yes
3: not really I dont think
1. Friends and family. Yes.
2. Iāve lost some friends, but because of it Iām a better person now.
4. Yes. My past was very traumatic for me, and even though I still talk/live with people whoāve hurt me I still canāt forgive them.
2. My father, yes and sort of no
3. I canāt think of anyone else right now
1. I do love someone! And yes I am afraid of letting them go :)
2. I lost my pup a month and a half ago and it still breaks my heart.
4. Yes a lot of people, my past was very hurtful and I desire to have that closure.
Thank you to anyone who decided to share out your pain! Just a reminder, everyone has problems and by sharing them out we can change someoneās life. Itās morning here so the moon isnāt visible; however, in other countries it might be night. Wherever you are, what ever day time zone you are in, just look up at the sky. The man is somewhere out there, smiling looking at you too!
āWhen we held our hands amidst the crowd of people, we were using our bones, muscles and blood vessels to not lose grip. Thatās all I know about love. What else is there in love? Except for the fact that I couldnāt let go of that handā (Cha Eun-Sang from The Heirs/ The Inheritors).
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