calzona

Never trust Shonda Rhimes

“I’m deeply grateful to have spent the last ten years with my family at Grey’s Anatomy and ABC but for now I’m taking some welcome time off. Shonda’s been so incredible to work for, and we will definitely continue our conversations! I send my love to Ellen, the rest of the cast and crew, and I look forward to always being a part of the Shondaland family!” - Sara Ramirez

2009-2016

#how hard it must be for her #to have to let her go #at the expense of her own happiness #knowing she wasn’t part of hers

Previously on Grey’s Anatomy Calzona

character tropes: Arizona Robbins

Grey’s Anatomy: The Music Event

12x04 // 12x23

Home, he’s dragging me home like I’m a lost girl, as if I can’t make adult decisions about my life and who I want to spend it with. I mean, it’s MY LIFE! This career, well I know he paid for everything, but it still doesn’t matter, it’s my life. I’ve worked for three years and now he wants to translate it into me being a lost girl… [this is where it gets cut off by Mark & Arizona’s dialogue] And suddenly he’s going to come in like this, he’s going to come in and tell me that I can’t [and this  is where Mark interrupts her].

“We are at an impasse here. If we don’t settle, if we go to trial, you risk losing it all. Only one of you is walking out of that court with sole custody.”

“So, Callie’s okay slut-shaming me now?”

Self-hugging is a cue signaling the desire to be comforted. It replaces the need for the comfort of another. Thus, it is to be used when one does not wish to rely on the care of others, but when one still wishes to receive a caring touch. (x)