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“Just because you took longer than others doesn’t mean you failed. Remember that.”

“Be weird. Be random. Be who you are. Because you never know who would love the person you hide.”

“When a person tells you you hurt them, you don’t get to decide you didn’t.”

“Don’t save your good lingerie for dates, wear it for you.”

“You will always be too much of something for someone: too big, too loud, too soft, too edgy. If you round out your edges, you lose your edge.”

“When you can’t control what’s happening. Challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what’s happening. That’s where your power is!”

“The person you’re meant to be with will never have to be chased, begged or given an ultimatum.”

“Wenn du anfängst von einem Menschen zu träumen, dann weißt du, dass es schon längst nicht mehr nur “irgendein” Mensch für dich ist.”

“A flower does not think of competing with the flower next to it. It just blooms.”

“You don’t ask people with knives in their stomachs what would make them happy; happiness is no longer the point. It’s all about survival; it’s all about whether you pull the knife out and bleed to death or keep it in.”