Girl Code.

Give your bffs partner a chance. Let them prove your doubts wrong. Don't make them choose between you and them.

Unless they prove your doubts right... then you tell your bff everything.

Look out for your fellow ladies. There are too many human trafficking schemes for us not to stick together to save someone.

If you see something odd, go make sure they're okay!!! You never know what you could prevent.

I live in Illinois and we have some awesome things to do and see here!

If anyone needs to visit Illinois for anything send me a message and we can connect for a visit!

Some of ya'll don't follow girl code...

And it shows.

Don't automatically hate a girl because of a guy... guys are out there living double lives.

If you stop being friends with someone you still don't tell their secrets.

They trusted you at some point and it's shitty if you break it even after the friendship ends.

Sometimes you meet the right person at the wrong time.

Sometimes you meet the right person and they don't stay.

Sometimes what who you think is the right person isn't the right person in the end.

Don't give everything you have to someone who doesn't give anything in return.

If you're contemplating if you're about to break girl code you most likely are.

Always stay true to yourself. Don't change yourself to fit in with people that aren't meant to be in your life.

Sometimes people come and go in your life and that is okay.

The real ones come back and will always support you no matter what. Don't forget those people. Ever.

This is the year you do things for YOU. Make your own happiness however you need to!

You're stronger than you know, you're braver than you know, and you're capable of more than you ever imagined.

Don't constantly change yourself for people around you.

If they're meant to be in your life they will accept you for who you are.

I'm sorry that I haven't been active for awhile.

I've been going through a lot mentally and I just had to take a step back from everything and everyone. I'm still working on getting better and I hope yall understand that I didn't leave this blog to die out, I just haven't been able to function correctly for a long time and I'm trying to get better.

Thank you to those of you who are understanding about this and thank you for everyone always being SO supportive here. I love you all and I hope things are going well for you all!

I'll be the first to tell you break ups can HURT.

Sometimes breaking up never makes sense and sometimes it makes too much sense.

Don't ever let anyone tell you you're not allowed to feel any emotions after a break up. Be mad, sad, happy, anything and everything for however long you need to.

Don't forget to put yourself first sometimes.

It's extremely easy to get lost in trying to please everyone but you cannot forget about your own needs.