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barista 1: hey, do you guys go to [insert our hs]?

elijah: yep

barista 2: do you know what time the graduation is? and is it at the school or the arena?

elijah: I think it’s at the school but idk

me: it’s at 7:30

elijah, since they didn’t hear me: it’s at 7:30

barista 2, very excited: omg thank you. that’s amazing. do you want a free cake pop?

elijah: sure?

barista 2, turning to another person in the back, aggressively: GIVE ME A CAKE POP. RIGHT NOW. RIGHT THIS SECOND. RIGHT NOW. ok here’s your cake pop

barista 1, handing us two cups of cold foam: also your extra cold foam

This only furthers the view people already have on queers being predatory and shit…

While I usually don’t give a fuck about what people think, the mainstream is learning more about these kinds of people which sets back our rights and respectability a hundred years.

And unfortunately the mainstream’s opinion matters a lot when it comes to like. Whether or not actual trans people even deserve to live…

you guys are the fuel to the transphobic fire thats been only getting bigger these past few years.

Hello everyone who scrolls on my page! We're gonna talk about this post.

This is a bucket load of incorrect opinions, and we all believe in understanding here.

IT'S RESEARCH TIME!

Right off the bat we have an incorrect opinion! Radqueer is not a paraphilic disorder in and of itself. It is a general belief that paraphiles should be considered a queer identity! And many other things. HOWEVER! THAT DOES NOT MEAN EVERY RAD QUEER IS A PARAPHILE!

1. Most paraphiles do not want to have their urges or thoughts, the definition of a paraphilia is an intense, persistent, and recurrent sexual arousal or urge focused on atypical objects, situations, fantasies, or non-consenting individuals. A paraphilia only becomes a clinical paraphilic disorder if these interests cause the individual severe distress, impair their daily functioning, or result in harm to others (which is most paraphiles)

2. That view would have gone on without rad queers or paraphiles! The people that are hateful never change and it shows in how they talk about things they don't understand and how they look for a reason to hate trans people!

3. Actually, the mainstream media isn't getting many views on these people and is only shaming them. As are you! This shaming of people only makes them hide, like many trans people! (Not saying it's the same thing, but it's a good example!). Paraphiles don't stop existing when you don't want them to. They exist no matter what and it's in YOUR best interest for them to be able to put on a recognizable label on so you may identify them and know if they are a risk to you or your community. They have specific labels if they are a risk and, most of the time, they are not. Mainstream Media™ make sure to shame paraphiles into hiding and that will not make them not exist. That will make them hide even better, and will make them act on their urges instead of getting help!

4. Mainstream media has always hated trans people and gay people and always will hate trans people and gay people. It doesn't matter if a trans person saves 100 lives, and if a gay person runs a marathon, or if we have 50 trans fighters save a building from collapsing, or if we have a rad queer. The mainstream Media will always look for a reason to hate us. Mainstream Media just wants to be hateful and to grab your attention. The government also never cared about us so I don't know what your point is here.

5. The "transphobic fire" that you so generously call it, is in reality just MAGA, MAGA supporters, or trump himself saying something hateful and influencing the news outlets for at least a couple of years. The transphobic fire is something that's been happening for hundreds of years even before the label was known around the world. Again, the government has never cared about trans people or gay people, they have cared about making money in whatever way they possibly can and one of those ways happens to be mainstream Media grabbing your attention and making you hateful towards other groups that are just trying to live.

6. The only delusional degenerates in the room with us currently are trump supporters that don't want us to live. You are using their points right now. They are wanting you all to do this. Mainstream Media is trying to tell you that these paraphiles are trying to harm you they are not they are just trying to live with a terrible disorder and most of them can control their urges and they deserve to feel safe in their own skin no matter how disgusting you think it is. The reason mainstream Media even wants you to think this is so they can get you comfortable, and they can finally start shaming trans people and gay people.

Some footnotes:

If you shame paraphiles for their disorder, they aren't going to disappear, they are just going to hide it even better and they're going to hide in society and try to act normal. But you can't ignore a problem for long before it starts to spiral and you act on your urges.

The paraphiles are not hurting you I promise you. They're trying to live like the rest of us. The reason I am not against paraphiles being in queer spaces is because most of them are trying to get help. Most of them are now going to therapy. Or if they're not going to therapy, they're not acting on their urges and they know that what they're thinking is wrong.

What is this user correct about?

While some paraphiles are pro contact, it is quite rare to find one. And those who are, are making paraphiles look bad or like everyone acts on their urges. This is incorrect, they do not usually act on their urges. However they are correct that it may look like it to mainstream Media! We can see many examples of paraphiles being represented as pro-contact all of the time!

The last claim that was correct, is a paraphiles should not be considered a queer identity. Paraphilic disorders are genuine problems. They need help not a label to wear for the rest of their life! However these urges don't go away forever after therapy, you simply learn how to control yourself and how to distract yourself from your thoughts. However, you were very close and I will count this as a correct opinion!

Remember y'all mainstream Media will never love you! Unless you conform to gender expectations and unless you are a billionaire! But let's be honest, who was the last billionaire that was non-binary? I know I can't name any! So we all know what I mean by gender conforming. Right? (man big strong, woman small and have big breast, non-binary have blue hair and touches kids)

That's all everybody have a good day and make sure to do your research before you try to debate anything! Now, this user is on a break so don't harass them. Do your own research, and then debate them! Do not bring your own opinions into a debate. Only facts are allowed in debates! This is not a debate though. This is me trying to educate people! If you disagree with anything I said make sure to send it over anon asks!

Anyway, all I’m saying is that people have had a long and recurring idea since the beginning of gay and trans people being these evil pedophiles who harm kids and rape people , and radqueers basically prove this as the truth (which it isn’t . For a good chunk of the lgbt population at least) .

Paraphiles in the radqueer community are loud and proud about their disorder. They make flags and labels and flaunt them on their page. Thats all you see when you check the radqueer tag in any platform. You can’t claim that they “dont want this” when they’re indulging and deluding themselves, being proud of it , and convincing themselves that it’s all normal.

I’m aware that the government has and will always have this kind of gripe against us trans people no matter what, and I am aware that radqueers aren’t the only factor in giving the wrong idea about transsexuals, but what makes it worse (especially on a personal level) is the general population, the people, and most people are on social media, and radqueer degeneracy is on social media for everyone to see.

Also, how do you think things enter the mainstream and change the majority’s view? In the modern world, it’s social media, and the radqueer community has only been growing and expanding into normal people’s feeds (and you people WANT it to grow “the future is radqueer”), most folk see a colorful flag or an odd label and immediately tie it to the LGBT. I have seen and been in arguments and discussions where bigots have brought up neopronouns and paraphilias (things that are popularized as something “queer” by the radqueer community) when hating on the LGBT community.

Again, I already said this, I do not care about what people think or say about me and me being trans. But you can’t deny that this new radqueer BS definitely makes it harder to be accepted politically, just enough to not be killed. (Even if it’s not directly, the shit people see on the internet has always affected their political views and how they treat minorities) ..In a hostile world thats already against actual trans people.

I just want the violence and hostility against trans people to get less and for people to not find proof in radqueers that “yeah, we queers are actually into incest and pedophiles and want to fuck dogs! That’s what us queer people are all about! We even have flags for it!” To hate trans people and attack our rights and comfort of living even more than bigots already are.

Ohhhh. Hm. Well I don't think paraphiles should ever be seen as queer identities! It's a disorder. Glad I misread that. You almost made my eyes run away from their sockets.

Oh yes, I've done even more research. Yes, that is actually where I was very, very wrong. Many paraphiles seem to be proud of their disorder. Now, this is mostly the paraphiles that got it for non traumagenic reasons, tho there is one exception. I haven't done enough research to tell you why they flaunt it however, it's mostly acceptance that the urges will never go away. Because they won't. So the only thing wrong here is the "flaunting" which is only true for one paraphilic disorder.

I won't write out what I already said earlier. I am sorry for misreading, I genuinely thought you meant you didn't want paraphiles to have their own space in any way.

On your almost last statement there. "You people" ? I understand your grudge against people with paraphilic disorders, especially ones that say they should be in LGBTQ spaces. Which is blatantly incorrect. But to not only assume that I'm a paraphile when I'm not because I'm defending them in some way, and to say "you people" is quite familiar

I must say. You did change my mind about this. But I never said Radqueers should be in LGBTQ spaces. You are merely correct about peoples political beliefs being tied to what they see on social media. But most of the paraphiles you're talking about that I know very well you're talking about are either very, very stupid, or they are actually saying "you can be gay and have a paraphilic disorder". I assume you're talking about the majority who are just stupid though.

Again tho, assuming I'm a paraphile? Specifically one of the Big Three because I'm defending them? That's very, very familiar. Not only that but to use tags that say I am a paraphile. Hematolagnia is something many people are into, and it isn't a paraphilic disorder in my case. I'm only bringing it up to remind people: