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Yes, your boundaries are still necessary even with people who do nice things for you or are really nice to you. I know sometimes when someone is really kind to you or you feel like you don't deserve the kindness you get from someone, it makes you want to violate your own boundaries out of gratitude for them or because you're afraid it will make them treat you differently. But in the long-term, this is only more harmful. Your boundaries are not an act of unkindness and are always relevant. And people treating you with respect and kindness is the bare minimum you deserve from others. Don't let someone's kindness or favours or respectful treatment make you abandon your self-worth and your needs to please them.

i hope you all get partners who want to understand every little detail about you and never get bored btw

Sorry to say this but, being a good person doesn’t get you loved, it gets you used.

Stay loyal but not stupid

btw you cant save people. the most you can do is try to understand them. the most you can do is let them be themselves. all you can do is empathize, be there

"what if im a bad person" yeah? well what if you arent? what if you're trying your best and you're growing and you're kind? what then?

‎" For your peace of mind, do not try to understand everything. "