Fuck Yeah Virgos!

Virgo - Healing a Hole in the Heart Sun, Moon, Venus in Virgo, Venus in the 6th house

In between the two ‘L’ signs of love we find Virgo. From the Leo’s thunderous throne in the heart follows Venus falling in Virgo, before Venus returns to reign supreme in the airy Libra butterfly.

It means the Virgo heart can fall very hard and fast in love. It’s not an inability to love. It’s more like trouble measuring the correct dose, and too easily over, or under dosing and ingesting toxic effects. The trouble is separating ‘love’ from ‘conditions and expectations’, and the resonance of being ‘too much’, or ‘never enough’. A Virgo’s shyness often suggests deeply imbedded complexes, such as appearing too being forceful, overbearing, annoying, or attention seeking. Her task is taming the Leo’s ego into subordination so intimate relationships are possible for the 7th and 8th house. And yet it comes undone in all the time and energy spent overthinking, commenting, and self-critiquing. She temporarily hands back control to the ego to be devalued this time, rather than be gushingly idealised.

Relationships accompany tremendous responsibilities that reinforce historic insecurities when she can’t live up to them - such as desiring to ‘fix’ or ‘rescue’ someone but lacking progress. Her flaws may stand-out to her more than ever standing beside the partner. The longing change, rearrange, or repair them can also unstitch person her partner fell in love with. ‘Self-improvement’ can threaten everything coming from self-contempt rather than self-value, so then she can prove herself correct about how ‘unloveable’ she is again and again. Though the Virgo who learns how to fly when she is falling with Venus writes a secret, sacred, and safe love story. It’s totally surreptitious and behind the scenes, away from the glare and fanfare, the right lover always finds her hiding place.

Virgo is a healer’s sign. Hermes is the God of Virgo and the carrier of the sacred caduceus, a symbol appearing in modern day as an emblem of nurses. The Goddess Ceres provided the gift of healing and vitality to the physical body, and the Virgo angel is Raphael - the divine healer. But none of this is any good to Virgo if they are not given the time, space, and respect to practice their own self-care, and self-heal. They need quiet from the chaos and problems of other people so they can actually hear themselves think - this is also something they are simultaneously fearful of. They have never been able to find the exact place on their body or mind where the bandage should go. this is also the way that humanity receives The complete scope of the spirit’s service through Virgo. When Virgos are being ‘self-centred’ enough to self-care, then everybody benefits from the potential wisdom, guidance, and counsel that the mother goddess in this sign longs to return back to you

Virgo - Unusual Girl

Virgos can be kind and kooky, elusive and eccentric, perfectly imperfect. The high state of tension and mental agility creates the impression that she is seclusively contained in her own world. She has an unusual and unique way of doing everything. And it must be magic, because she mends what is broken and stitches wounds as if it never happened. Virgos carry out private rituals and secret habits, like preferring to be alone, or to read a book rather than engage in your boring conversation. The problem is that she orchestrates a grand mystery and conceals her subtilise, but shadows her wild light and dandelion mind at the same time, she shields the worst of her, but then she eclipses the best. She may give the impression of great discipline and inner order, but the truth is that she struggles with moderation. Her over restriction and need for control is completely undisciplined, but she is probably well aware of her weaknesses because it’s how she defines herself. She is not what she is and what she has done, she sees everything lacking, inadequate, and empty in her reflection. Yet she tries her best at everything, there is no problem that she wouldn’t attempt to solve nor a puzzle she wouldn’t investigate. And people come to grow overly comfortable with her presence in their life. She is someone they can call upon for instruction or guidance, something is missing or malfunctioning, or when they are unwell, lost, or emotionally distressed. She can offer many helping hands because she has empathy shaped of life experience. Virgo is ruled by Mercury and associates with learning and quality of mind. When we are referring to Mercury and Virgo, we are speaking of feminine and matriarchal intelligence. There is a line where reason and rationality stops and intuition begins in Virgo, if she manages to relinquish her need for intellectual control. Her character is built of hard knocks, humbleness, and the eventual taming of the ego’s final gasp at taking her power away. She is intriguing and strikingly sure of herself in a shaky way. Her free flowing conversation is fascinating and brimming with marvellous insights, observations, and fact. There is no one else quite like her, she is far too intricate and complex to be repeated. 

Virgo - Fragile Bird 

“If I look perfect, and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of shame, judgment, and blame.” - Brenne Browne 

An emphasised focus of the Virgo’s journey is the purification process. Virgo is the sign of cleansing and detoxing. A proportionate part of the Virgo nature relentlessly and tirelessly attempts to erode their sense of shame. The ego finished construction in Leo, and it certainly wasn’t built to last. It faces its first conflict in Virgo. After the glare and applause of Leo the star was discarded. And Virgo is suddenly overwrought with guilt, like the lights have gone out and the whole time they didn’t hear anyone suffering. Now it seems to be all that the Virgo can hear. It becomes important for Virgo to develop awareness of the world beyond the ‘only me seeing eye’ produced in Leo. Instead of seeking the acclaim of centre stage, the individual takes a step back and retreats to the back of the show. Virgo can feel so consumed with shame and disgrace that she decides out of sight is out of mind, and attempt to remain invisible as possible. Virgo is a sign associated with responsibility, self discipline, and self regulation. The Virgo can feel intense and disproportionate shame for the most mundane of human activities like eating, sleeping in, or accidentally spilling something. There is an ego fighting wildly in Virgo, aware of its inevitable departure. And it resides with the heart and hands of a saint whose active will is pure altruism and entirely void of ego. It can create the confusing internal conflict confronted by Virgo as they endure the ego’s cracking whip and the heart’s seemingly inherent sense of strain and disgrace, desiring only to recognise and assist people that they feel deserve the rest and rectitude, that being anybody but themselves. The blinding image of perfectionism conceived by the Virgo mind flashes continuously, hauntingly, and only increases the sense of inadequacy and inferiority. 

Virgo is being punished by the ego. Leo was already fatally wounded by her ego. In Leo the ego was crowned and grandiosity balloons into disproportion. It toyed with Leo by pumping her full of praise and compliments, then it suddenly switches off the bright lights and taunts its victim cruelly. Leo is at the ego’s its hostage and it wants to be recognised and appraised. It tells Leo she will be nothing without it. In Virgo, it’s the opposite assault occurring. The ego desires to dissolve any semblance of self worth and value until she becomes a shell of herself, trapped in the ego’s unrealistic demands and feeling to worthless to even put up a fight. The Virgo can undergo this punishment because it’s her obligation to begin the corroding process, the battle that she will begin and Scorpio will finish. She must recognise, understand, and integrate the conditions and needs of other people into their own personal experience. Despite all of this, the Virgo is also being reprimanded by the inner saint for the acknowledging the ego at all, and her supposed selfishness and self gratifying behaviours. Yes, even the divinely saint inside Virgo is a perfectionist. This is why the Virgo can become very self restricting and critical. She can view herself as contaminated or poison and sense body aches, pains, and diseases that don’t exist. Perceiving herself as inherently defiled, the individual feels alien and revolted in her own body. She can force herself through destructive conditions like hardline routine, famine, compulsive exercise, exhausting work scheduling, extremely high goals in schooling, basically wherever she can direct obsessive and anxious energy into the pursuit of unattainable images. Through all of this, Virgos will drop everything in a moment to help somebody in need. And sometimes the greatest act of service she could do for us would be taking a moment for herself to reflect on the qualities that endear and delight loved ones. The qualities like wit, proficiency, reliability, and intelligence and quirkiness that make her a real saint. She needs to realise that without her flaws she would cease to exist at all. In recognising her greatness she serves humanity. 

Virgo - Unusual Girl

Virgos can be kind and kooky, elusive and eccentric, perfectly imperfect. The high state of tension and mental agility creates the impression that she is seclusively contained in her own world. She has an unusual and unique way of doing everything. And it must be magic, because she mends what is broken and stitches wounds as if it never happened. Virgos carry out private rituals and secret habits, like preferring to be alone, or to read a book rather than engage in your boring conversation. The problem is that she orchestrates a grand mystery and conceals her subtilise, but shadows her wild light and dandelion mind at the same time, she shields the worst of her, but then she eclipses the best. She may give the impression of great discipline and inner order, but the truth is that she struggles with moderation. Her over restriction and need for control is completely undisciplined, but she is probably well aware of her weaknesses because it’s how she defines herself. She is not what she is and what she has done, she sees everything lacking, inadequate, and empty in her reflection. Yet she tries her best at everything, there is no problem that she wouldn’t attempt to solve nor a puzzle she wouldn’t investigate. And people come to grow overly comfortable with her presence in their life. She is someone they can call upon for instruction or guidance, something is missing or malfunctioning, or when they are unwell, lost, or emotionally distressed. She can offer many helping hands because she has empathy shaped of life experience. Virgo is ruled by Mercury and associates with learning and quality of mind. When we are referring to Mercury and Virgo, we are speaking of feminine and matriarchal intelligence. There is a line where reason and rationality stops and intuition begins in Virgo, if she manages to relinquish her need for intellectual control. Her character is built of hard knocks, humbleness, and the eventual taming of the ego’s final gasp at taking her power away. She is intriguing and strikingly sure of herself in a shaky way. Her free flowing conversation is fascinating and brimming with marvellous insights, observations, and fact. There is no one else quite like her, she is far too intricate and complex to be repeated. 

you can’t save everyone, some people don’t want to be helped

take some time off for yourself now and then

overworking yourself will only make you more stressed and less productive

don’t waste your time on people who don’t appreciate you

when people treat you badly, don’t come up with excuses for them

don’t apologize for putting yourself first

you are worthy of love, stop letting yourself say otherwise

you won’t enjoy life if you spend all your time nitpicking and trying to improve everything you see

sometimes you need to take risks to make a change in your life, as scary as the possibility may seem

everything doesn’t have to be perfect. accept some things the way they are

Aries: Denying

Taurus:  Overgeneralizing 

Gemini: Mind reading 

Cancer: Catastrophizing 

Leo: Shoulds 

Virgo: Labeling 

Libra: Fallacy of fairness 

Scorpio: All or nothing thinking 

Sagittarius: Magical thinking 

Capricorn: Negativity bias

Aquarius: Double standard 

Virgo - Fragile Bird 

“If I look perfect, and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of shame, judgment, and blame.” - Brenne Browne 

An emphasised focus of the Virgo’s journey is the purification process. Virgo is the sign of cleansing and detoxing. A proportionate part of the Virgo nature relentlessly and tirelessly attempts to erode their sense of shame. The ego finished construction in Leo, and it certainly wasn’t built to last. It faces its first conflict in Virgo. After the glare and applause of Leo the star was discarded. And Virgo is suddenly overwrought with guilt, like the lights have gone out and the whole time they didn’t hear anyone suffering. Now it seems to be all that the Virgo can hear. It becomes important for Virgo to develop awareness of the world beyond the ‘only me seeing eye’ produced in Leo. Instead of seeking the acclaim of centre stage, the individual takes a step back and retreats to the back of the show. Virgo can feel so consumed with shame and disgrace that she decides out of sight is out of mind, and attempt to remain invisible as possible. Virgo is a sign associated with responsibility, self discipline, and self regulation. The Virgo can feel intense and disproportionate shame for the most mundane of human activities like eating, sleeping in, or accidentally spilling something. There is an ego fighting wildly in Virgo, aware of its inevitable departure. And it resides with the heart and hands of a saint whose active will is pure altruism and entirely void of ego. It can create the confusing internal conflict confronted by Virgo as they endure the ego’s cracking whip and the heart’s seemingly inherent sense of strain and disgrace, desiring only to recognise and assist people that they feel deserve the rest and rectitude, that being anybody but themselves. The blinding image of perfectionism conceived by the Virgo mind flashes continuously, hauntingly, and only increases the sense of inadequacy and inferiority. 

Virgo is being punished by the ego. Leo was already fatally wounded by her ego. In Leo the ego was crowned and grandiosity balloons into disproportion. It toyed with Leo by pumping her full of praise and compliments, then it suddenly switches off the bright lights and taunts its victim cruelly. Leo is at the ego’s its hostage and it wants to be recognised and appraised. It tells Leo she will be nothing without it. In Virgo, it’s the opposite assault occurring. The ego desires to dissolve any semblance of self worth and value until she becomes a shell of herself, trapped in the ego’s unrealistic demands and feeling to worthless to even put up a fight. The Virgo can undergo this punishment because it’s her obligation to begin the corroding process, the battle that she will begin and Scorpio will finish. She must recognise, understand, and integrate the conditions and needs of other people into their own personal experience. Despite all of this, the Virgo is also being reprimanded by the inner saint for the acknowledging the ego at all, and her supposed selfishness and self gratifying behaviours. Yes, even the divinely saint inside Virgo is a perfectionist. This is why the Virgo can become very self restricting and critical. She can view herself as contaminated or poison and sense body aches, pains, and diseases that don’t exist. Perceiving herself as inherently defiled, the individual feels alien and revolted in her own body. She can force herself through destructive conditions like hardline routine, famine, compulsive exercise, exhausting work scheduling, extremely high goals in schooling, basically wherever she can direct obsessive and anxious energy into the pursuit of unattainable images. Through all of this, Virgos will drop everything in a moment to help somebody in need. And sometimes the greatest act of service she could do for us would be taking a moment for herself to reflect on the qualities that endear and delight loved ones. The qualities like wit, proficiency, reliability, and intelligence and quirkiness that make her a real saint. She needs to realise that without her flaws she would cease to exist at all. In recognising her greatness she serves humanity. 

Taurus ~ Governs resourcefulness, wisely utilizing the senses in both domains. Governs value, to understand and develop appreciations, whether material or impalpable, to see with clarity what is authentically beneficial and strengthening to their spirit.

Virgo ~ Of two worlds, the dual mind (mercury), grounded body (earth) and interested in any forms of their cultivation, refinement, purification and improvement whether it be physical, mental, or spiritual.