ive literally had so many cishet aquaintances online that wanted to learn more gay/trans stuff because of me and theyd tell me "so youre bi? whats that like?" or something and id say "oh it means i can like any gender" (i was iding as bi) and theyd go google some stuff and come back to me saying "hm. no. PAN is all. bi is nothing like that according to my findings" and i blame everyone who has ever written anything "educational" on pan people because they were reading what YOU wrote

why the hell did they write it this way

And hopefully the next time someone says to you "I'm exhausted" or "I'm not well" or "I can't do that today," you can just accept it without asking 20 fucking questions to determine whether they have right to feel that way.

These are not just talking points. These are steps to make action against a fraudulent government, if it happens, easier. To make it possible. To make the public understand.