realizing that the online sphere and especially tumblr is NOT a good sample for ‘what everyone thinks’ is so, so, so good for your mental health and moral OCD. i swear to god. realizing that you don’t have to live your actual life like you’re being hunted for sport because the average tumblr user will hunt you for sport for wording something slightly weird or engaging in the wrong stuff or whatever is so incredible. like no you’re actually not fucked up and evil for not donating or for watching that one indie cartoon or questioning a post that everybody is agreeing with. that’s just tumblrs georg making you feel that way

I love you Zutara fandom, I love how despite all the harassment and bullying and death threats from fellow fans and the creators themselves we have fanarchically (new word I'm coining) created an extended universe that rewrites the contemporary myth so that the heroine that so many of us looked up to as kids has her interiority back and gets to be with the guy who actually respects her. I love how badly it pisses off the creators who want to use Katara as a fantasy partner for their self-insert that we have seized the story and will continue to make it our own and there's nothing they can do about it.

Since it apparently needs to be said, I'm not claiming the creators off atla sent anyone death threats (to my knowledge). Grammar is difficult like that. My fault for assuming that people wouldn't immediately assume the absolute worst.

Being a writer is wild because one minute you’re convinced you’re a genius and the next you’re googling ‘synonyms for walk’ like you’ve never used language before.

Me sexting: what would you do if you found me with my hands tied ;) My feminist bf: I Would Free You