Are you feigning ignorance on purpose? I meant as in high school AGE. Even if that particular 18 year old graduated it doesn't make you any less weird. I feel like you're being purposely obtuse about the inherent unhealthy dynamic of a teen still figuring themselves out and a 24 year old with, assumably, more maturity and a job. But then there's not really a point if you're gonna act dense

This isn't even meant to be "hate" or whatever but the fact that you slept with an 18 year old (a high schooler) at 24 is just inarguably predatory behavior. I hope you get help someday.

nah I'm gonna come back to this. first off come off anon and at least pretend to speak to me like an adult. secondly, if you are so curious, when I was being pursued by "an 18 year old" I resisted this for actually quite a while, and my two closest friends can attest to the fact that I asked their advice on that being a weird age gap. Yes, I ultimately came around to the fact that I'd be making this person happy and trying my best to treat them well, and that outweighing any...concerns about, ahh, emotional maturity being a gateway for, say, power imbalance.