3 AM THOUGHTS

“Fall in love with someone who’s comfortable with your silence. Find someone who doesn’t need your words to know it’s time to kiss you.”

“You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend, or a new acquaintance - you don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behaviour and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and “continues” to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go.”

“Sometimes people don’t want to hear the truth because they don’t want their illusions destroyed”

“There is some good in this world, and it’s worth fighting for.”

“If there was no fear, how could there be comfort? Or courage?”

“Erinnere mich daran, dass man Menschen nicht retten kann - Menschen können sich nur selbst retten. Man kann ihnen nur helfen, wenn sie so weit sind.”

“Nothing is sexier than someone who wants you as much as you want them.”

People think that intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them and their response is “you’re safe with me” - that’s intimacy.

“Ich hab so Lust mit jemandem heute Nacht draussen zu sitzen und über das Leben zu reden.”

“Was machst du, wenn du morgens erfährst, dass ich die letzte Nacht nicht überlebt habe ?”

“Some days I’m Van Gogh’s Starry Night other days I’m his suicide letter.”