So last night my best friend and I made out for about an hour or something it was a really long time but during it I felt nothing and rather uncomfortable and I don't know if I was supposed to feel something cause I didn't feel "aroused" or anything, I don't know how to tell them that we shouldn't do this in the future, help!
“hey, how do you feel about the kissing we did?” [wait for them to respond maybe they felt the same way???] then you say “I really love our friendship and I like having you in my life, but i felt really uncomfortable while we made out. is it okay if wedon’t do that again in the future?”
sometimes saying “dont do something” can make people feel like youre attacking them or like you dont value them, so I always suggest leading with asking about THEIR feelings, confirming that you like and value them, then saying what you were gonna say
-bren










