Iβm a 29F who identified as a lesbian for 8 years prior to my current bf of over a year. I started having a lot of confusion about my sexuality in my mid twenties, started fantasizing about men a lot. I now acknowledge that my biological clock started ticking, and I just couldnβt resist any longer. I occasionally secretly hooked up with men between girlfriends, until I met my current boyfriend and he changed everything.
Itβs embarrassing to admit I am becoming more feminine for him. I used to be a military cut, butch lesbian and now? Silky skirts and shoulder length hair. Iβm incredibly submissive to him overall. I was also always the βnever wanted kidsβ type, but now I canβt stop thinking about giving him a family. I feel guilty because being in a straight relationship is so easy, and honestly itβs been nice to feel βnormalβ or βacceptedβ more in this relationship.
I love being his sweet little feminine girlfriend so much. I canβt help but hope for the white picket fence ending for myself. Sometimes it ok to learn more about yourself and change. Iβm trying to be gentle with myself as I reflect on my journey.
If anyone has questions about my journey from lesbian feminist to newly traditional woman, girlfriend, and someday wife and mother, please doesnβt hesitate to submit ask (anon or otherwise).
Iβm trying to be more open about my experience because I have nothing to be ashamed of π€


















