sick of wanting and yearning and longing and craving and and and and

The older I get the more convinced I become that the most genuinely attractive quality a woman can have is the visible impression that her life is full without you in it. Not performed aloofness, not manufactured scarcity, not games, an actual life with actual substance and actual joy that does not have a vacancy sign hanging in the window waiting for someone to come along and make it worthwhile. That quality is built through the accumulation of genuine experiences, genuine interests, genuine friendships, genuine ambitions, and it cannot be faked in any sustained way because it is either there or it is not. Build the life first. The rest follows from that and follows easily.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

with the right person, love actually feels like returning back home to yourself

I’m so easily revitalized by small, loving gestures

i like sweet boys who are tall and have warm hearts

Interested in building a whimsical and peaceful life.

let yourself hope for the best every once in a while