I’ll Take My Whiskey Neat, Tired Of Being Sweet

Eu não quero ser o desejo de ninguém. Quero ser a escolha que ninguém arriscar perder! Desejar é fácil, sustentar é raro.

you think that you're so alone in the world then you read literature from hundreds of years ago and you realize that other people have always felt this way

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??