Listen to Flesh is The Law by Genitorturers

I'm having a hard time finding BDSM content with butches. As a butch who is married to another a butch and curious about BDSM, I feel like a super special self exploration account is in order. I never found BDSM compelling because the content with women seems like it's designed for dudes, and if I see a man in leather, I'm going to want to hurt him, which is not what I want.

I also want to make friends with more freaks. I have plenty, but none of us have much experience. I would like to pick your brains and collect reference images for drawing. Maybe you can inadvertently mentor several dykes?

No pictures because I like my privacy. Let me paint a picture of my gender expression so you know that I'm chill.

Big (tall, fat and muscular), strong, cool, sick, cool, sweaty (medically) and HAIRY. Hairier than my dad, even. Rocking a rat tail and wearing pit vipers whenever I leave the house. Sometimes when I'm in the house. I wear work pants (chef pants, scrubs, cargo pants) and cargo shorts/jorts exclusively. Usually with a tank top or sun hoodie. Always with sandals, like chacos or tevas. Unless I'm working, then the most scuffed Danners you've ever seen. Pierced up but wanting more. Tatted up but wanting more. I'm lowkey S-212 certified. It's an important part of my gender expression.... being so sweaty it's not even a little bit sexy, and flexing my strong butch muscles while I cut down and physically move the corpses of invasive trees. I want a porn stache and more filled out stubble so, so so bad it's fucking embarrassing. I do not have either of these yet.

I hope you can see my vision. I am a parody of the white, modern blue collar man in his twenties.