@kumbiakub all decked out for the parade! #pride
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@kumbiakub all decked out for the parade! #pride

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Hattie, our hippo from Dave & Buster's, is ready for PRIDE. w/ @kumbiakub #pride
First softball game in about 9 years today. It is so windy! I am so excited! #softball #thisismyexcitedface (at Smith Field)
First Blue Apron dinner I have cooked by myself. I didn't panic and I didn't fail!
Listening to my roommate get into an intense discussion while looking at my lesbian dating app. In other words a typical Saturday night.

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Cappuccino machine selfie (at Boston Common Coffee Company)
Puffy fluffs! #dontknowwhythisissofunny
Doing my squat all fancy-like #pinkiesupâď¸ #squats (at Boston Sports Club Watertown)
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The Edit, January 2016
A woman at this bar just made eye contact with me and smiled... I am not equipped to deal with this
Insecure men are terrified of women being physically strong. This is a great reason for women to become physically strong. Women have a far greater genetic potential for strength than they have usually been led to believe, because every message about womenâs body composition and health is about our obsession with âlosing weight.â Body fat is a good and necessary thing to have. Muscle is a good and necessary thing to have. Losing ten pounds in ten days is a terrible idea.
Women Arenât Weak. Weakness is Marketed to Women
Naomi Kutin is 14 years old, and she is stronger than me.
I am a six foot tall, 210-pound, 25 year old man, and Naomi Kutin is considerably stronger than I am in every lift except for the bench press. Even in that, I donât tower over her: I bench 140 right now, and when I was her age I wouldnât have even come close to 110. Youâll notice that she is smallâ you know, about the size of a 14 year old girl.
The fitness industry does not want women to be strong. I go to a scruffy black iron gym that overlooks some elevated train tracks. A few blocks away, there is a Lucille Roberts: The Womenâs Gym. From the street, looking up, all I see are rows of cardio machines against the windows. I went online to look up information about Lucille Roberts, because obviously it is not the kind of place where I, a large bearded man, would be allowed to barge in and demand information about their facilities without the police being alerted to my presence. So I googled for information about strength training at Lucille Roberts, and instead I got this:
How to Lose Ten Pounds in Ten Days
I looked up some reviews of the local Lucille Roberts and apparently they have no squat racks or free weights heavier than 30 pounds. Now, I totally understand the need for a womenâs-only gym, because even as a man my predominantly male gym was intimidating to me, and also because masculine strength has an unfortunate history of being used to do awful things to women. It just seems terrible that the alternativeâs message seems to be âshrink rapidly without concern for the actual composition of your body.â I wish I could offer any solution to this.
Cardio exercises are not bad, but most cardio is inapplicable to daily life outside of sporting activities. Yes, running around is great practice for running around, and biking is great practice for biking, but strength training makes you more capable of interacting with the world around you in the simplest ways. I am almost never called on to actually run, and the few times that come to mind all involve trying to catch a train. On a day to day basis I am required to pick things up and carry them around. I canât tell you how good it feels to do something as simple as loading suitcases into the trunk of a car and finding it far easier than it used to be.
One of the most pervasive reasons Iâve heard discouraging women from strength training is the myth of âgetting bulky.â This is where I point to Naomi Kutin, who is a very tiny person. The fact of the matter is that itâs extraordinarily difficult for most women to become âbulkyâ without dramatically modifying their body chemistry. Ironically, the kind of strength training that is most often recommended to womenâ lower weights, higher repsâ is better for sheer muscle growth than strength. However, when the weight goes below a certain threshold, it just becomes an endurance exercise. That threshold is crossed by these weird pink dumbbells that weigh so little as to be useless outside of the early stages of rehabilitating someone who has recently awoken from a long coma.
These weights will not make you stronger, these weights will waste your time. Yet these are the only weights people want women to be handling. I asked women on twitter to tell me if theyâd ever been explicitly discouraged from becoming physically strong because it would make them âtoo masculine.â Some responses:
âYes. Iâve had several boyfriends Iâve been stronger than, and they were perpetually butthurt about it. Iâve also made more money than pretty much every boyfriend Iâve ever had, which bothered them more than the strength thing. Men are so fragile.â
âYes, in little ways, but I have a friend whose ex literally said heâd break up with her if she got too buff.â
âLess discouraged & more open fear/ disgust b/c of myths about âgetting bulkyâ
(via stay-human)
men are right to fear our power. they are correct to fear women.Â
I just disagree with him about running having little real-world application. Running is the second-best self-defense technique, topped only by avoiding the situation in the first place. Being able to dash away from danger without getting winded after 15 seconds is a very useful skill to have.
(via shamelesslyunladylike)
I second that running thing. Like people laugh at me for saying it, but one of the reasons I do cardio is to be able to run away if someone tries to murder me.
People make fun of yogurt commercial, but honestly, yogurt does make me feel amazing.

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im so so so sick of people acting like theres no possible way to detect same-gender attraction based on superficial values. some people call this a gaydar, im not as corny. but for real im sick of people acting like im stereotyping myself, my very own sexuality, when its blatantly clear that theres a specific set of cultural values and positive visible connotations ascribed to certain forms of dress, certain ways of talking, certain mannerisms, etc. like, short hair isnt inherently a lesbian look, but goddamn if i cant put a certain short hairstyle and a hot-ass suit and sneering at boys together to get that shes a fucking lesbian! these things are internalized as positive, covert ways of expressing sexuality and identity without it being what people consider an essential part of the identity, and these coded expressions play a role in detecting people of shared experience or identity. a gaydar isnt a fun game or a harmful stereotype, its finding people that you share a deep experience with and finding safety in that familiarity.
#does this movie even make narrative sense if itâs not gay??? no
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