OK, new pinned post because this blog is more varied than when I first made it.
My name here is J (if you'd like something more distinctly name-shaped Jay is good too); I am nonbinary transfem, I accept any pronouns but do not default primarily to masc; I am 28 years old, I live in London
I am a lesbian, single and a sub-leaning switch top-leaning verse
Asks & DMs are open, sexually and otherwise, though if we've not talked before and you wanna flirt/sext you could at least say hi first (unless you're a hot transfem and I'm in a mood) (also I am autistic so be aware my conversational skills may seem sub-par)
Have your age visible before interacting, this is an adult space and you must be 18+ to be here. Additionally, flirting with me is for over-21s and under-40s.
No bootlickers. I am a Communist; if you support or excuse the evils of capitalism and its structural expressions such as imperialism and the existence of police or military forces, or if you harbour any form of prejudice (which I would like to explicitly state includes dismissal or downplaying of transmisogyny), you are not welcome here.
Relatedly, if you define your kink limits as "anything illegal", interrogate that conception and shift your framework of acceptable behaviour away from how governments define it. It's illegal for me to have sex at all in my country unless I fully explain my gender beforehand - is that really the kind of system you want to define your limits?
If there's anything you're unsure of or want to know after reading this, feel free to ask!
My main is @/li*******a***l, in case any mutuals from one or the other see me show up and wonder (and if we've talked you can ask for it!)
Emoji sign-offs currently used by anons (not a requirement for sending, but welcome if you want to use one!): 💜, 🍋, 🗝 , 🖌,🪻
Gonna put further details, such as my tags & things I like, under a cut:
