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Hotwife Lifestyle
Understanding Our Manâs Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage
The fantasy of having a âHotwifeâ is growing; in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of âswingingâ and the modern âopen relationshipâ. Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship â the woman â going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and âgetting someâ for himself?
Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate â this isnât so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom. Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the âbest mateâ or the âmost attractive womanâ. With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partnerâs Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow âweakerâ than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Is this really true, though? Could the truth lie somewhere within todayâs manâs loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or âmonogamyâ? Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?
Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a âwoman ledâ relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to âcaptureâ the best mate and even when sheâs out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own â a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed â their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night. While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being âat homeâ, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the âwinâ in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.
As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. This is why the desire for âreclaimingâ a Hotwife after a date is so strong â itâs actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?
He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It
As women weâve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating â before weâve found our âpersonâ. We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessingâŠwhy? Because are interested in us. But, we may not be 100% there. So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldnât it work once weâre married? In contrast, women typically donât respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy â we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be âjust not that into usâ. Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once weâve committed to them, because we, ourselves donât want to feel as though weâre in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?
For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered. Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy. It doesnât take a lot to feed the fantasy. Itâs not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, itâs also about the little things â the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the âteaseâ of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much weâre looking forward to doing it again. Remember, this ignites the âcompetitionâ element of things, which is natural for men.
The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it
You may be thinking, âBut Iâm doing it for him, Iâm not doing it for myselfâ (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this âother guyâ did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the âother guyâ. I know it seems crazy, because we donât want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their âothersâ were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we donât. Thatâs because we donât have that âcompetition driveâ like our men do.
Letâs face it, despite what our men tell us â âItâs all about your pleasureâ or âI donât get anything out of it unless youâre enjoying it, because I love you so muchâ â this isnât some ultimate âunselfishâ thing our men are doing for us. These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is âI want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to meâ. Itâs their kink, and we have to understand it.
So, if youâve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, youâre going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways. Whenever you think âBut Iâm only doing it for himâ, follow that us with âIâm doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed itâ. Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge. This may require a little bit of embellishment, and thatâs OKAYâŠtrust meâŠembellishment is your friend in this situation. Tell your man about your Bullâs amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc. These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.
The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You
Again, youâre playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here⊠The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you. His desire for you is going to skyrocket; his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that heâs ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed. I have experienced this firsthand many timesâŠif I am completely honest about an âencounterâ and admit to âDâ that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didnât quite âget thereâ, he isnât nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were. I donât like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truthâŠmaybe your lover wasnât the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be âhe was amazing with his mouthâ and leave the rest up for interpretation.
Weâre women. We are strong and capable and we are smart. And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be. Where do we want to be? We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to âcompeteâ they will need to step up their own game in order to âkeepâ us satisfied â be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.
Happy Hotwifing!

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Cuck Fear
I think this is important for everyone to understand, itâs a very real thing that can happen and it can have quite an effect.
We all say a lot and use a lot of words to describe a cuck but at the end of the day a cuck is a man, a man in love, accepting certain needs that youâd not often find at the front of their facebook page. Feelings that are hard to share with some friends, family and publicly in general. This means at first a cucks thought and conversations are initially within ones self.
As always I will share about myself, I am a leader, within my friends, family and work, people look to me, sexually I have also been this way, leading gfs and booty calls down rabbit holes. I had a real hard time with these cuck feelings because at the time a cuck was a weak boy who had little worth, this birthed fear and that lead to me hating myself at times, being disappointed and just out right being miserable about it, too scared to want to even think about other than when I am eyeing up porn and stroking.
As time went on more fears came up, what if I try and talk to my partner about this and she leaves me for him? What if she thinks itâs gay? What if it makes me less of a man?
Iâll keep the answers short because itâs important to be direct here.
If you lose your partner to her bull, she simply isnât worth your time. This isnât a woman who values a relationship over sex or maybe youâre just not the right fit. There are a ton of people out there and itâs all about searching for that one. I donât fear my partner running away with her bulls because I know how she feels and the separation between great sex and emotional connection.
A lot of guys ask me if itâs gay to be a cuck and itâs sort of confusing to me. I donât think seeing a mans cock is gay, that would make 99% of porn gay. This fear is internal, itâs only you having this fear and no one is going to think this about you. If I see a giant thick black cock that I know my partner is going to like, why wouldnât I send it to her? Why wouldnât we talk about it? Youâre you, stop worrying about such titles and boxes, be yourself.
Less of a man. This is a big one. I struggled with this a lot. My partner wants and needs black men and therefore I am an inferior white boi loser right? Wrong. I have expressed my feelings about this inferiority complex. I totally disagree with it. I donât believe in comparing cuck to bull as theyâre totally different but here. A bull is someone who turns up fucks your partner and leaves. You as a cuck are someone who loves that woman, potentially watches her act and receive pleasure in a way you canât and then finally youâre there afterwards. You dealt with fear, placed great trust and then went through with it. Which of the two roles requires more strength of will and character? Which one is the hardest path?
Cucks you are strong, you are men, you go to places and deal with things people are too scared to try and come out happy. You are not a lesser man, you are more of a man than ever before.
Real strength is the ability to overcome, weakness is giving in.
I want to share something, something I discussed with my partner, this was soon after she was talking to a bull and lost her mind, she was crazy for his cock, needing it and down right black dick drunk. Then she said something. âYou give this all meaningâ When someone says that to you, how can you be scared? Current cucks, future cucks and cucks in denial, thatâs where you can end up. Being a cuck in the cuckold lifestyle isnât being the third wheel or being the weakest member. Itâs giving it all meaning. Without you, itâs all just plain old meaningless sex. (Damn good sex but still)
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Ten reasons why you should date & marry a cuck đđââïž
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1. You get to fuck other men, I mean câmon đ
2. Theyâre more than willing to satisfy ALL of your sexual needsđ
3. Youâll get to go on more dates đ·
4. Thereâs no hard feelings or weirdness when you have guy friends đ€·ââïžđ€·ââïž
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6. Theyâll encourage you to spoil your body more so itâll be appreciated by other men đ đ»
7. You donât have to settle for only one dick for the rest of your life đđđ
8. Theyâre always going to cuddle and take care of your body after youâve been fucked raw by alphas đ
9. Youâll never stop being treated like an absolute queen đž
10. Heâll be devoted to you alone while youâll get to have your cake and eat it too đ°
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Terms & Definitions:
Swingers: Typically a couple in which both partners are allowed to engage in sexual activities with other men and women outside of their relationship, often referred to as âfull swap.â
Hotwife: Â A wife who has her husbandâs permission to engage in sexual activities with other men. Also the term used to describe the fantasy with the same scenario. In this relationship all extra marital activities are approved of by the husband. Trust, respect, and the coupleâs love for each other are central to the relationship.
Cuckold: A man in a relationship with a woman who engages in sexual activities with other men and women outside of their relationship, usually with a level of cheating and or humiliation. -Cuckolding
Cuckoldress: The female half of a cuckold relationship. A woman who engages in sex with men other than her husband, usually imposing a level humiliation on her husband about her extra marital activities.
Vixen: One term used to describe a woman in a Hotwife relationship.
Stag: One term used to describe a strong male figure in a Hotwife relationship.
Cucky: A humiliating term used to describe a man in a cuckold relationship.
Bull: The name often given to a wifeâs repeat lover in a hotwife or cuckold arrangement
Reclaim: A term used to describe the passionate sex couples often experience the first time they have sex after one of them has has sex with someone outside of their relationship.
Hall Pass: Often used to describe a onetime âfree passâ given to one of the members in a relationship to enjoy one sexual encounter with a person outside of the relationship.
Half Open Marriage: Used to describe a relationship in which one member of the relationship has the otherâs permission to enjoy complete sexual freedom, while the one remains completely faithful.
Shared Wife: A wife whose husband âsharesâ her sexually with other men.
MFM: A three some involving two men and one woman. In this arrangement the men are straight and focus on the woman.
MMF: A three some involving two men and one woman in which the men are bi-sexual and engage in sexual activities with each other as well as the woman.
FMF: A three some involving two women and one man. In this arrangement the women are straight and focus on the man.
FFM: A three some involving two women and one man in which the women are bi-sexual and engage in sexual activities with each other as well as the man.
Humiliation: A sexual kink which usually involves the woman verbally abusing the man about his inadequacies and inability to satisfy her, most often because of his penis size or his lack of stamina. Â
Tease and Denial: One partner sexually teases and leads the other on, only to get them excited and then deny them sexual gratification.
Edging: Binging a person right to the edge of orgasm and then slowing or stopping sexual activities thus denying them the pleasure of orgasm.
Ruined Orgasm: Bringing a person right to the point of orgasm, and then stopping resulting in a weak orgasm. This is usually achieved through the use of oral sex or masturbation.
SPH: Small Penis Humiliation, verbal abuse used to humiliate a man about his lack of length and or girth.
Male Chastity: A kink in which the man is most often secured in a chastity device, referred to as a cock cage, and is denied the pleasures of sexual intercourse as well as masturbation. Â Couples who engage in this kink often try to push the boundaries of how long the man can go without sexual release. This fetish often includes a level of humiliation as well.
Cock Cage: A metal or plastic device which locks to secure the penis. It is used impede the manâs ability to masturbate as well as achieve a full erection without being release by his key holder.
Key Holder: Most often the wife of a man confined to a cock cage. The key holder has full authority over the manâs ability to and the frequency of orgasms allowed. Often the key holder will use time in the cock cage as a punishment for her dissatisfaction with something the man has said or done.
Pegging: Used to describe a fetish in which the female uses a sex toy or strap on to perform anal sex on her male partner.
Wife Breeding: A fetish in which the wife is involved in unprotected sex with men other than her husband. The men ejaculate in the wife, thus presenting the possibility of pregnancy by men other than the husband.
Clean Up: An activity in which the man cleans up a woman after she has had sex with another man. Most often this is done after a lover has ejaculated into the womanâs vagina and the womanâs partner performs oral sex on her licking up as much of the other manâs sperm as possible.
Sloppy Seconds: A term used to describe the act of having sex with a woman after she has already had sex with another man. Most often after the first man has ejaculated inside of the womanâs vagina creating a âsloppyâ situation for the second man.
Size Queen: A woman who prefers man with very large penises. Often with minimum size requirements which must be met before she will engage in sexual intercourse with a man.
BBC: Big Black Cock, used to describe the oversized penis of a black man.
BWC: Big White Cock, used to describe the oversized penis of a white man.
Queen Of Spades: The name sometimes given to a white woman who prefers sex with black men, often with above average penises.
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