Heritage University Commencement Speech
by Helena Donato-Sapp
We are so proud of GLI alum Helena Donato-Sapp, a 16-year-old high school junior from Long Beach, California, who was recently invited to deliver the commencement address at Heritage University's Class of 2026 graduation ceremony. In her powerful speech, Helena spoke on the value of resisting diminishment across all of one's identities, the fierce act of pursuing education, and the generational impact of perseverance. She closed with an original poem titled "Resistance."
Read her full speech below.
Elders and members of the Yakama Nation on whose ancestral land Heritage University stands, members of the Board of Directors, President Gilmer and David Creel, faculty, staff, family guests, and most importantly graduates of the class of 2026, thank you for the honor of being you commencement speaker.
Even I will say that it is a bit unusual to have a 16-year-old high school junior as your university commencement speaker, but I stand here because of a specific value that is a deliberate choice for my two fathers and myself. That value might sound simple, but it has made a big impact on my short life. The value is that I will not be diminished, and I will not participate in my own diminishment.
I am a storyteller, and one of things I know deeply about storytelling is that when I tell my story, you see your reflection in it. And when you tell your story, I see my face in the mirror of your story as well.
True, there may be many differences between us, and we honor those differences. I am a 16-year-old dark Black girl who had a traumatic early birth with lots of medical complications and was diagnosed with four invisible learning disabilities during elementary school. I was adopted at birth by two gay fathers â my Dad and my Papa who are in the front row beaming with fatherly pride, and probably already crying. These parts of my identities have been reasons for society to try to diminish me with all its might.
So much of society is anti-Black and is determined to put me down and hold me down because of the color of my skin. I rarely ever saw honest Black stories and the fullness of Black experience in the curriculum of school. Too many teachers have expected less of me academically because I am Black.
Society is also ableist. I was required to get tested for disabilities when I struggled to read and write in elementary school. But when I did get tested, the school held those test results against me. Teachers lowered expectations. Educators were often impatient with me and only saw me as a problem body and a problem mind. And my peers bullied me from kindergarten through eighth grade.
There was also homophobia against my loving fathers, and so much sexism too. I had one especially bad experience at the end of 7th grade at the hands of three older 8th grade boys. They said such hateful things to me that would horrify and disgust you, but when my parents and I sought support from the school administrators, they were not equipped to give it and seemed unable to act! Their inaction validated those boysâ behaviors. It is a tough world, and it often feels designed to diminish us and beat us down.
I recognized early on that it would take my entire being to resist diminishment! I have been raised to hold my head up high with pride in all my identities, and I believe in taking the very things that others would diminish about us and lifting them up as our strengths. This is exactly why, on this day of your university graduation, we need to talk about resistance. Resistance is the gift we offer the world today in its time of need.
I stand here today as a youth scholar with multiple peer-reviewed publications on Black girlhood because I resist the diminishment of my Blackness. I stand here today as a multiple globally award-winning disability activist because I resist diminishment about my beautiful disabilities. I stand here today having just been awarded the Congressman Robert Garcia Youth Grand Marshal Award for the Long Beach, California Pride Parade â one of the largest and most significant LGBTQ+ celebrations in the entire United States because I am a proud ally and lift up the joy of being raised by a two-dad family. And I stand here today as a young woman who has written and spoken about the power and worth of women.
My message is to resist diminishment and to hold your head up high about every single one of your identities.Â
I have been raised in the art of resistance, and I have many stories about my parents teaching me to resist diminishment. One of my favorite stories is about my eighth-grade graduation. In my small middle school, all the graduating eighth-graders got to give a short speech at graduation, and we worked on those speeches for months as part of a writing assignment in our English class. I poured my heart into that speech and was determined to lift up the educators who supported me and to name the few friends who were kind when so many were not. Our Principal insisted on sticking to her preferred speech template and, in my case, she kept editing OUT what I thought were the best parts, the parts that were genuinely me. She erased my voice so much that, when I got her final edited draft, it was empty of anything important to me.
I was very upset about her efforts to erase my voice. When graduation day came, there was a notebook with everyoneâs speech in it, and we were supposed to take turns using the notebook. But my conscience refused to do that, and I could not participate in the diminishment of my own voice. You would be proud to hear that I got up on stage and, like a classic heroic rebel, literally pulled my original graduation speech out of my sleeve! And I read it with deep love and, you know what?  It brought the house down!
We MUST resist the hatefulness and diminishment of todayâs world. I can tell you for sure that I am proud of you today because you committed to learning and education, and I truly believe that education is a powerful, POWERFUL act of resistance. When I look at the current state of our world â and I mean this globally and not only nationally here in the United States â when I look at the current state of our world I am horrified to see the efforts to dismantle education as a right for all people, and this is especially true for girls worldwide. Many powerful people do everything they can to deny the rest of us the human right to an education and to keep us uninformed. We know this is because they see the uninformed as easy to control.
Heritage University graduates of the Class of 2026, I see your bold and brave act of pursuing knowledge as an act of fierce resistance. In a moment, you will walk across this stage, and you will be harder to control because of what you have learned at Heritage University. Your degree also makes it harder to diminish you because your pride in what you have accomplished will not easily be taken away. To those so determined to keep you in the dark, a University degree is the ultimate act of resistance.
The fact that so many of you are first-generation college graduates deserves special acknowledgment. My Dad is a first-generation college graduate as well, and I have seen and felt first-hand what it means because, as a second-generation college bound student, there has simply been no question that I am going to a university. My Papa is a Filipino immigrant, and he comes from a family in the Philippines that had higher education degrees going back for generations. But as many immigrants experience, those degrees donât often make it across the border as they are erased upon arrival. Many immigrants have to start over. This is why your graduation at Heritage University today is such a bold act of resistance â it has the power to impact your family for generations to come. For so many of you, the few steps you walk on stage today represent a much huge journey over borders and generations. This is your heritage.Â
Yes, the world might still try to continue to diminish you and your multiple identities. Resist that. And donât tear yourself down either and participate in your OWN diminishment. Resist that. Understand that your drive to be educated will impact generations. Embrace that.
It is true that you arrive at this stage today because of your commitment to reach this goal. It is also true that you got here because of the love of the staff, administration, and faculty at Heritage University. But letâs be honest. Many of you would not be here without the LOVE of family â in all its forms â who have flooded this place to see you walk on stage today. It is the love of family and its power over generations that gives us the pride to thrive in this world. So today, it is an act of resistance to reach out with one hand for your diploma, while on the other hold the hands of the family who helped you get to this day. This graduation ceremony honors the generations you brought with you to this stage.Â
Hiding between the pages of an old book that had been on a dusty shelf and left unopened for decades, I found the 1949 announcement of my grandmotherâs graduation from 9th grade â the highest grade she reached. She passed away less than a year ago and I miss her every day. I found out in that old graduation announcement that she was the secretary of her class. I discovered why yellow roses were her favorite flower when I read in that old program that their 1949 class flower was the yellow rose. And I read the 1949 class motto of that one-room schoolhouse:Â Â Tonight we launch, where shall we anchor?Â
And this brings me to the last act of resistance I want to speak of today. Know that you are ready to launch! It is an act of resistance to have the confidence to know that you are ready for what comes next. Self-worth is resistance. Know that you are more than enough and, armed with pride and certainty, you are bound for greatness!
I am a poet, and Dr. Gilmer was the first to honor that when he made me the Poet Laureate of the National Institutes for Historically-Underserved Students in 2019 when I was just 10 years old. Since then, I have won many poetry awards such as becoming the Youth Poet Laureate of my city of Long Beach, California, and a Runner Up for the Youth Poet Laureate of the Western Region of the United States. Dr. Gilmer has requested that I share an original poem today and isnât that just like a Professor of English to give me an assignment on graduation day?!
I am a 16-year-old junior in high school and will soon take my first steps towards college just as you are taking your graduating step today. To say that I admire you is an understatement. You lead the path to my future. The poem Iâll close with speaks further about the graduation gift of resistance that we offer the world, and it is titled âResistance.â
Resistance
Identity is resistance.
I decide who I am and how I name myself.
I will not be diminished.
I love all of my identities.
Memory is resistance.
I remember who loves me deep and pure.
I remember your smile and hugs,
and how you made me feel.
I remember how you championed me.
Imagination is resistance.
I dream a brave world of diversity, equity, and inclusion.
Authentic self-expression is resistance.
Creativity is resistance.
Kindness is resistance in a brutal, barbaric world.
Music is resistance.
We use song to sustain our spirits,
to give us strength to go on.
My Spirit is resistance.
A Spirit that fights for dignity and humanity.
A Spirit unbroken by this political moment.
Our joy is resistance,
joy in the face of oppression.
Laughter is resistance.
Poetry is resistance.
Poetry is unpredictable and hard to control.
It calls out and talks back to inhumanity.
Poetry canât be contained,
and that makes it dangerous.
Poetry is the nurse of abuse.
Our resistance is hidden in the rhyme.
Writing is resistance.
Words uplift and inspire,
and ink records and remembers.
Remembrance is resistance.
Friendship is resistance.
Allyship is resistance.
Friends and familyÂ
give me space to speak and process,Â
and I am safe in their arms.
They listen
and the listening heals me.Â
Love is our forcefield.
Love is resistance. Thank you and congratulations!











