Another Horrible Dating Blog

So I just finally had my family down for our late Christmas and my 3 yr old got some Chapstick as a gift. She was running around and offering some to everyone to try, she gets to my father and he says no. She looks up and says “please grandpa it’s so nummy! Just try a little bit” He says “no, boys don’t wear lipstick!” (Keep in mind it’s Chapstick not lipstick anyway..😒) So I say “some boys do, and that’s ok” Grandpa: “no, not REAL boys” sounding a bit angry that I would even suggest such a thing Me: “yes actually “real boys” can wear lipstick and anything else they want” Grandpa: “nope” Me: “excuse me but in this house we believe anyone can be and wear whatever makes them happy, including boys in lipstick” Which is when my mother stepped in and reminded my dad that these are my kids in my house and I will raise them how I like, which includes what nonsense I will not tolerate him saying to them. This is not the first time I had to tell my dad to shut it, he’s constantly making stupid sexist comments about how women are always whining or should be in the kitchen or whatever. I know he’s an old white conservative man, an he thinks what he’s saying is just a funny “joke” sometimes, but I have two impressionable young girls to raise and I’ll be damned if they grow up thinking their grandfather doesn’t respect women. Having to constantly remind him every time he makes a sexist comment is annoying but worth it if it stops him and makes him think about how it might actually affect these two little ladies in our lives. I’m rather glad I only have to see him a few times a year. Absolutely drives me crazy. . . . Tldr: my fathers masculinity is so fragile, he won’t even let his granddaughter put Chapstick on him. 😒😒

Ah yes… the old “can’t be picky if you’re fat” thing 🙄😂 because I should just be grateful he finds me attractive at all! Who cares if he’s an idiot fuckboy, he isn’t repulsed by me so I should just get on my knees 💁🏻🙄😐😑