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having a high alter count

having very little amnesia

having lots of introjects

using sign offs and decorating your system trackers

having comorbid disorders

not knowing whether you have osdd, pdid, did

having dramatic switches

being cringe

not being diagnosed

being a teenager

not remembering trauma

I'm so tired of people armchair diagnosing everyone with DID 🫩

Someone could be like "yeah I act differently at a funeral than I would at a party" and there'd be a million comments like "ermmm... Have you heard of plurality??"

Let's stop watering down a complex disorder to just "thing where you get alters"??? Let's stop trying to inform people about a condition without even knowing the basics of how it works???

Incest is objectively bad.

I am sick and tired of seeing all of these endogenic identities that are LITERALLY JUST P-DID REPACKAGED.

I was on Pinterest a bit ago, and saw "proxy system" which is defined as "a system where one functions as a singlet (or approximately close to one, such as a median system) due to a frontstuck host, yet all members of the system are completely distinct in headspace."

That's literally just P-DID...

A "Median system" or a "Proxy system" is literally just P-DID repackaged to fit an endogenic narrative. It is stripping people of understanding themselves better, but these vague descriptions are leading non-pwCDD's into thinking that they're a system which can be harmful for them. It can lead to so many mental issues, especially if you're already prone to psychosis.

No, you aren't a "median system" or a "proxy system" you are a P-DID system or a singlet with varying internal dialogue / monologue that has been mislead into believing that they are something that they are not.

you know what time it is ... !

BLINKIE TIMEEE

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the point of trauma-holders is to insure memory fragmentation, not to "deal with trauma".

"Memory fragmentation occurs to protect the brain from the trauma it endures and is the brain’s way of trying to heal." (Kylie Hamacher, 2026.) (feel free to dm me for my source on this if you can't find it!! XD)

some parts might be more tolerant of healing with access to it, but trauma-holders literally develop from the severe trauma that traumagenic systems go through. they develop as a means to shut-off those memories to ensure functional life for the system. watering down trauma-holders to just "oh we remember things" is inherently ableist to systems who have suffered so much.

Neglect can be traumatic, loneliness and isolation can be traumatic, bullying can be traumatic.

is this you?!

Y'all literally added two lines to the DID/OSDD flag and called it yours??

Y'all can't create lies about yourself to make you seem less ableist when it's clearly bullshit

Stop pretending you have a neurocognitive condition that can only be caused by trauma when you don't have trauma.