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"i bet everyone thinks i'm really annoying, i should leave all the communities i'm in!" okay. but give it a day.

"oh god what if i said something that could get me canceled and forgot? i should delete all my social media!" okay. but give it a day.

"what if my best friend secretly hates me? i should ask her a bunch of times to make sure!" okay. but give it a day.

"i need to google my symptoms again or check the OCD tag on tumblr to make sure i really have OCD and am not faking it!" well hi! no judgement, i do that all the time, but maybe next time give it a day

even if she doesn't "try to pass" she still deserves the same basic respect you give everybody else.

even if she's done something bad that doesn't excuse you misgendering her on purpose.

i'm so sick of people treating trans people's pronouns as some kind of reward you get if you've been a good tranny.

this goes for those who use neopronouns too i dont care how "weird" you think it is especially if you're trans yourself.

“I’m probably not saying that correctly”/“sorry for my pronunciation” = 👍 understandable! foreign languages often have sounds that aren’t used in English and learning to correctly pronounce unfamiliar phonemes is genuinely difficult even with help

“lol I’m not even gonna TRY to pronounce that 😂” = 👎 THIS is the problem, if treats languages other than English like they are inherently ‘weird’ or ‘overly complicated’ just because you aren’t familiar with them