Faline Flossie

BUT IS IT GIVING MIDNIGHT SUN THO???

giving my fiancée morale support for her soccer game ;)

Blah bleeh bloop...gender...gender binary (I am exhausted by the world and its imposing opinions, views and assumptions) in a truly free world..who would we be? What would we have chosen to look like? How would we appreciate all parts in, out, and surrounding the binaries that exist within us and how some exist seperate from our internal/external identity? Trying to make undercomplicating aka minimizing who you are into virtue signalling doesn't make you wiser than the next person it just means you don't understand the value in appreciating every facet of yourself and neither do you fully respect where each piece lays in relation to your present-tense. (Self)love isn't just acknowledgement it's also acceptance and assimilation of your identity/other persons you care for or external factors into your identity. The natural conclusion to gender is that it does not exist yet we constantly push it into existence because it makes the world feel less scary. But every "norm" in society can be changed and the world will always find one side of the spectrum of human nature and human desire (whether good or bad) and reason them into our daily lives even if it's not what we really need or desire. For the queer people out there: is it worth fitting in to a world, a community, or a lifestyle 100% if it causes you to neglect yourself? Let's create a world where trans people aren't just people (acknowledged) but also (accepted) seen for their very NON-BINARY/AGENDER/BIGENDER etc. experience in relation/in corelation to the world as well as their GENDER AT BIRTH. Why should someone born a woman/man no longer be allowed into women's/men's spaces if INTERNALLY that still aligns with their experience. What other reason is there other than that what's different is excluded, what's unknown "risks the collapse of society", or what's uncomfortable is shunned? In a world more kind than this one, one that we can create for ourselves even in small pieces adjacent to society - shouldn't we try to dismantle this fear together instead of fearing for the effects it may have on the current and very frail ideaology of 'we got this far we can't confuse the narrative of what we stand for by bringing in an unknown factor.' Was it okay when the KKK brought about their idealogies? Was it okay to commit unimaginable human atrocities to POC's? Or when 'to perserve the meaning of a "civilized society"" they called for action to lobotmize women with opinions/feelings? Was it okay when neurodivergent/autistic people were tortured, experimented on and locked away? I absolutely implore you to reflect on the people you've excluded, forgotten about, brushed off and how that may reflect deeper into the parts of your self/identity you've left behind for the sake of fitting in. Exclusion isn't the answer, it's a bandaid.

And that's where you, my friend, can start today in a small act of resistance, make your expression political if it isn't already; because many (POC/LGBTQIA+ community) don't have a choice in the first place.

Okay - TOTALLY obessed with this song, I love the sardonic and sarcastic vibe it gives off. This is actually how it feels to be an autistic girlie conforming to gender norms. It's just a performance babes!

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sprinkle banana mmmm nostalgic for bleedy gums but at least I feel whimsical <3 throwing it back to some REAL tumblr aesthetics

Hating yourself is pro-capitalist and pro-facism and it makes the world feel so dangerous. And that's what the world wants, it wants to keep you in limbo, in a state of peril because your anxiety and depression makes you easier to control. It makes it easier to manipulate, easier for the man (despicable dogs) to keep their fucking claws in you. When you hate yourself you actively agree with the very world you despise. You agree to it's expectations, the society built within it and it's poisonous lies. To love yourself is revolutionary, anti-facist, and anti-everything-that's-fucked-up with this world. Loving yourself is a BIG middle finger to a society that was never built to support you or create self-respect/empowerment. Loving yourself is how you become the greatest ally to the human race.

Just finished my second coaching session with someone WOKE asf like me bro, you don't know how hard it is to find someone normal these days I spent YEARS with overcontrolling therapists that breached their doctor patient confidentiality with me to appease family members/bring their WHITE/WESTERN POV to the table and now first session this coach said to me 'I'm not here to take sides, I don't care what happens in your relationship - I'm here to help you." The fact that that sentence alone is revolutionary is why this world is so broken. The world has never been cookie cutter black and white no matter how much my autism brain tried to convince me otherwise. Polarizing thinking damages the psyche, it isolates your inner child and keeps you trapped in shame. Understanding LEADS to healing people, I always say that.

me manifesting a career as a past homeless queer with no family, no home, no money, no experience & the confidence of a squirrel.