exei vt

Accommodating for your needs instead of fighting against them feels like switching from hardcore mode to peaceful mode in a video game.Like what do you mean I feel way better now.What do you mean getting ready for bed no longer leads to frustration/stress.This is awesome sauce.You’re telling me I could’ve just done this the whole time.Damn.

Like I wish I didn't have to say this, but no the solution to ableism isn't that we just stop referring to ourselves as disabled and identify as "people with different abilities" or whatever the fuck. That only obscures the conversations we need to have and detracts attention from the changes we need to make to actually make society less hostile to us