Cloud 69

What if we cuddled and felt warm and snuggly and safe together? Huh? What if that?

You wanna argue or get your pussy ate?

Tumblr attracts a lot of men who only understand dominance as a game, not as responsibility. They know how to write rough, but they don’t know how to hold someone safely. If you give yourself to someone who doesn’t grasp what psychological control really means, you’ll end up in something that isn’t BDSM, it’s boundary violation. And that leaves marks. Bad experiences don’t just kill your desire, they damage your trust, in others and in yourself. Once that’s gone, it takes a long time to rebuild. That’s why you need clarity, limits, and someone who actually knows what the hell they’re doing.

god forbid a woman doesn’t sparkle for an audience. god forbid she’s weird, lazy, a little off putting and not trying to impress anyone