Evil Hypno

Written by a friend of a friend whom shall remain nameless…

1) Do what you’re told. Not just when you want to, not just when it’s easy, but every single time. If you’ve suddenly decided you’re a free agent that’s a conversation for negotiation in whatever format that takes in your dynamic. Until then, less talking, more obeying.

2) Keep your commitments. If me/you/we have decided on a certain protocol you’re expected to follow through. Nothing sucks the magic out of a D/s interaction faster than when BOTH people let protocols lapse and drift by the wayside. If you act like a part-time sub expect to be treated like one.

3) Try to be just a little less self-centered. The journey of submission is all about YOU, I get it. Truthfully all of us Doms get it, but there is an illusion here that needs to be maintained, and when every check-in boils down to how things are going for you and you don’t bother to ask, “How are you, are you satisfied, are you getting what you need out of me, how can I improve our shared experience?” It makes you look kinda shallow.

4) Don’t compare yourself to other people. Whether you’re poly or monogamous, every time you look at another person and say: “I’ll bet he likes them more than me.” You’re essentially saying “I don’t trust you, I don’t trust us, I don’t really believe that you want me like you say you do.” We are with you for a reason. Not receiving the desire we feel for you is deeply insulting.

5) Sacrifice. This is the deeper side of D/s, it’s where the givers separate themselves from the users. There is nothing that builds a connection faster than doing something unpleasant, when you don’t want to, without being asked, without seeking praise. It’s also very easy to take for granted, which is why you should take your time and don’t give yourself to a Dom who’s a shithead.

6) Own your tantrums. You have feelings, deep intense feelings, if you didn’t you probably wouldn’t be a sub. I encourage you to learn to track when the kettle is about to boil so together we can point the steam in a safe direction. When you fuck up though, and I get a face full of hot water, and you say bad things, you need to accept that in the morning you’ll be held accountable for the things you said even if you didn’t really mean them. This can be a tough pill to swallow, which brings us to our next point:

7) Take it with grace. Ritual and submission are amazing tools to refocus the mind and de-escalate emotions, but the collar is not a magic ring, YOU make the magic. You make it by catching yourself, by breathing into your rituals, by transforming frustration and stress into submission and present moment awareness. Each repetition is a form of emotional alchemy much in the same way that CBT thought-stopping is, (that’s Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, not Cock and Ball Torture, you perverts).

8) Help us to evolve. I’m talking about recognizing that every human being is a little bit lost in their own way, and the difference is that Doms don’t have someone constantly fixating on how to guide us into being better versions of ourselves. Deftly guiding power figures in the directions they need to go is the forte’ of the masterful submissive, and the difference between that and manipulation is that you always have the person’s own interests at heart, even when they conflict with your own. It’s easy to love a Dom as an archetype or a caricature, but to evaluate a whole human being, and desire to kneel for them anyways is the deepest expression of love. You and I may have different toolboxes, but we are building the same house.

9) Stick around. Fact is, most subs vanish as soon as the honeymoon wears off. This phenomenon of women who beg for submission then pull the ripcord at 3-7 months once it’s no longer all about them makes Doms cynical, hard, and reluctant to engage, and further shrinks the pool of the few decent guys who can do this stuff well. I think a lot of this stems from the idea that Dominance is something that’s being done to you, and not with you. If you empower yourself as a co-creator of the dynamic, you’ll be able to make it last longer. I think it might also stem from the fact that a good chunk of lifestylers (both Dom and sub) are emotionally broken jackasses. Sorry, I’m a dick.

10) Cut us some ‘effin slack for god sakes. Being a Dom is a LOT of work, it requires time, focus, and a wide open emotional bandwidth. It takes discipline to hold your ground when things are difficult, knowing that if you repair them with vanilla ‘bargaining’ tactics you will also dissolve the dynamic in the process. As a sub starts to see you as more human, it gets harder. When she/he gets to the “resistance” stage of the relationship, it gets harder. As real life starts to throw you curve balls, it gets harder. Aside from the emotional aspect of things, what it takes to keep things fresh and interesting is an aspect that is hard to appreciate until you’re the one in charge. The thing they don’t tell you about being a Dom is that even if you have the gravitas to make a girl melt, if you don’t have the creativity to constantly invent and reinvent new twists on a very old theme, you’re just a tall dark stranger standing there with your dick in your hand. Sometimes I think this is why geeks end up being better Doms than their smokey eyed, jack-booted, ‘true dom’ counterparts.

A friend recently told me that he couldn’t be hypnotized and that about 15% of all people are not suggestible.

I thought this to be bullshit and googled. And now I wonder… There are are articles from sites like dailymail that even claim this to be 25% and there are sites that say that litterally everybody without any special mental illness can be hypnotized. I hope somebody on here can clarify :)

Anecdotally, there are a ton of people online who claim to have gone from not-responsive to more- or even very-responsive subjects. I’ve met a few in real life and am kind of one myself.  That doesn’t preclude the existence of non-hypnotizable people, but based on the information available I tend to think that most people can be hypnotized and can be trained to be better at being responsive. Your friend may not want to be hypnotized (which is fair enough) or he may not have experienced the right circumstances or had enough experience as a subject.

I’ve had other hypnotists, some who even today if they walked up to me, could prob instantly down me, well I say some, but its actually just one right now. And the thing is, its really hard for me to go under. Sure, I advocate others and I really sell the message anyone can go under. They definitely can, It takes time, patience, and practice.

But more of all, it takes good rapport, and a hypnotist who sort of knows what they’re doing. Not just hypnotic skills,a nd all that, but having good empathy, having skills to build a solid foundation and relationship. I’m not the best with words.

And I’m not a great hypnotist, but to me, I understand my needs, and I understand sometimes, the deep human condition that is, trust. And often frustration, and strong,deeply embellished emotions tend to get in the way. Our brains are trained.

I don’t expect the first session to be a resounding success. Infact, I always sort of, when I work with new subjects. Especially those that have critical thinking, analytical thoughts. I’m not a hypnotist, but I work with people when a friend of mine refers them to me.

I take care of people who often have complexes. Basically because despite how much I try to advocate it, and how much I try to teach my skills to others. It hasnt had much success, nobody cares about a small percentage of enthusiast in the community that aren’t perfect out of the box.  And thats pretty fucking sad.

As humans we dont have time, and if we dont have a strong emotional connection it can be hard to make that time. We all tend to want things to go smoothly.

Really what I’m trying to say is, people can definitely go under. Look for brains that try to quantify what hypnosis is, figure out if they’ve developed a sort of complex. It’s often more or less a practice. 

I’ve gone under without a doubt during 2013, 2016, 2017, and none to date for 2018. The dates I’m listing of course in reference to big drops, not just the tiny ones. I’ve gone under. Although for some subjects its hard to put this together in our brains that even just letting ourselves autopilot is a strange foreign concept, the idea of just following along, and just playing along, and not even thinking a thought of our own.

is actualyl being under. As you further play along, and gently led, with better rapport the experience is blindblowing. I’ve had two successful experiences with hypnotic amnesia, the first required no technique as it had pure rapport.

The second had a combination of medium rapport with technique, it has made hypnotic amnesia subsequently since then considerably easier for me. Ha, but im rambling.

It’s very difficult to drop a stranger into a perfect, mindless trance and have them chanting ‘Obedience is pleasure’ within a few minutes of meeting them. But it’s very easy to guide someone you’ve known for months or years into the depths of their subconscious if you know what you’re doing.

If you made it this far without dropping I congratulate you.

But if you dropped

Reblog

Reblog, type “Spirals make me drop” and show the world. 

This includes:

Nudes

Masturbation videos

Erotic audio

Stories about what you’d do to me

It’s hard not to stare, isn’t it? To just let your eyes drift down the page. And before you know it, you

Blink. And again. Blink. You don’t realize you’re doing it. You don’t even think about it. You just blink and stare and read what I’ve written.

Blink. 

Blinking is automatic. You certainly don’t notice when the blinks begin to get longer and longer.

As you read further down.

You don’t even think about it. You just let your mind drift down as you scroll down the page. And blink. But now you aren’t really blinking any more. You’re closing your eyes more as you sink down, and down. And even though you don’t notice that each blink is taking longer and longer, each time you close your eyes that flash of darkness is so relaxing. So calming.

You just want to blink more. You want to let your mind sink as you blink.

Blink. And now it’s become flashes of light and text as you read this, between that moment of dark.

Between each moment that your eyes are closed. Between each blink.

And you can’t stop yourself any more from scrolling further down the page as you read. Can’t stop your mind from sinking further down with each blink. It’s as impossible to stop as it is to keep your eyes open. You’ve noticed what’s happening now, but every time you blink, you go deeper, and you certainly can’t keep your eyes open forever. You’re going to blink. You’re going to sink.  Sink deeper. Blink. And now you almost can’t open your eyes at all. You’re so relaxed and deep now, and you feel so content and warm.