don’t feel guilty for not being able to handle everything, for needing a break. you need to look after yourself, too. self care is not selfish.

“If you have time to be on social media, you also have time for…” “If you have time to watch Netflix, you also have time for…” Yeah, but do I have the energy for it? Do I have the emotional and mental capacity for it? Am I pain-free enough for it? Can I focus on it? Can I do it without leaving my bed? Can I safely do it without risk of (physically or emotionally) injuring myself by pushing past my boundaries?

​y'all ever wonder why people aren’t just like. nice to each other

Send a secret to my ask box

thankful for those who made me laugh when it was hard to even smile

It’s the connection we can’t explain

you’re not for everyone. so what. literally so what. you still have people who will always love you & whom you mean the world to. and you also have yourself. you’re not missing out, they are