mine are conjunct and I'm autistic, an old friend who was diagnosed at 3 has a conjunction, my mom is autistic and she has a square, and two of my other friends who are neurodivergent have a loose conjunction and quincunx.

I love astrology so much because you can start to see patterns more clearly the deeper you understand and more charts you analyze

mercury conjunct chiron

mercury square chiron

mercury opposite chiron

here are some synastry notes inspired by my honey and I :) keep in mind all of this is my own experience and that all the charts natally and synastry need to be taken into account as a bigger picture, no placement can be isolated.

✫ moon opposite moon: while this placement can be challenging, it can also be very fruitful and inspire shifts in perspective that may be conducive to both ppls growth/healing. both inner worlds may be entirely foreign to one another but it can be helpful to see each others blind spots. both ppl could give great advice to one another that the other just simply never thought of.

✫venus trine pluto: this is a great placement for psychological depth and transformative love. different from the harsh aspects, the trine shows a receptivity and desire to crack open the deepest, most hidden parts of each other, bring it all to the surface, and sort through to find all that is true. this process of excavation from pluto can feel raw and vulnerable, but with the benefic nature of venus, all that is brought to the surface is done so with love and warmth. the ugly, "bad", and dark parts of ourselves can be washed away with love to make way for truth and authenticity. these relationships can turn you upside down and inside out but it's all to make way for your truest self and love nature.

✫ sun trine saturn: a beautiful, stabilizing, and grounding aspect for long lasting compatibility. dependable saturn provides security, safety, and longevity. concerned with what is clearly defined, concrete, and tangible, saturn is willing to push through hard times for delayed gratification. the sun is joyful, optimistic, and concerned with spirit and essence. this is a pairing that really balances each other out. the sun can bring a lot of warmth and playfulness and saturn can bring more structure into the dynamic.

✫ sun trine sun: both ppl feel as though they can truly be themselves in the others presence. this aspect suggests a cohesive flow of self expression. both are able to shine brightly without one diming the other one out or overpowering one another. they could be each others biggest cheerleader, they want the best for one another and shine together beautifully.

✫ moon conjunct lilith: this placement can be really beautiful especially when lilith person is a woman. moon person can help emotionally validate lilith through times they have felt disempowered or disenfranchised. the moon person can feel very upset, sad, and angry abt injustices lilith faces/has faced, they feel an urge to protect, defend, or even avenge lilith. lilith can feel seen and respected by the moon /because/ of their strength and perseverance through injustices rather than in spite of them.

✫ sun conjunct neptune: while there is a real risk for idealization from neptune and possibly an inaccurate image of the sun, with more grounding placements throughout the chart this can feel like an otherworldly, mystical, and seemingly fated connection. neptune can be completely enamored by the sun. sun can find neptune to be poetic and dreamy, they can feel really loved and adored.

it can almost be to their own detriment- they may need to look out for collapsed boundaries. remember that givers need boundaries because takers have none

neptune sextile/trine venus

neptune sextile/trine jupiter

The houses in a natal chart represent where the energy is being expressed. I think of the houses as different rooms/settings, the planets are the guests, and the signs are the theme/decor. I made this cheat sheet a couple years ago to describe what is affiliated with each house :)

First House: identity, self, appearance, interpretation of character, how others see you, personality, mannerisms, why you do the things you do, sense of direction, persona, well-being, attitude, physical characteristics

Second House: values, personal finance, what you possess, self image and esteem, income, earning capacity, treasure, assets, resources, what you own, what you value

Third House: communication, speech, learning, thought process, knowledge, logic, memory, tactfulness, local environment and community, siblings & socially defining relatives, school life, domestic travel, mentality, crowds, mental stimulation, your children's friends

Fourth House: domestic life, maternity and motherhood, intimate home life, land & property, emotional security, insecurities, roots, family, protection, traditions, lineage, ancestors, generational karma, the skeletons in your family's closet, background

Fifth House: pleasure, sex, creativity, love affairs, children, procreation, affection, risk-taking, parties, vacations, recreation, leisure, fun, jokes, humor, laughter, indulgences, enjoyment, self expression, romance

Sixth House: daily routines, service, health, responsibilities, pets, coworkers, refined skills, mastery, meaningful work, seven of pentacles, sustainable results, daily investment and nourishment, competency, obligations, yielded results, progress, planning, organization, hobbies, diet and exercise

Seventh House: marriage, one on one partnerships, business partners, legal affairs, contracts, known enemies, cooperation and collaboration, harmony , union, balance, diplomacy

Eighth House: debts, other people's money, inheritances, other ppls resources, death, taxes, taboos, the occult, secrets, things under the surface, trauma, tragedies, lawsuits, financial karma, transformation

Ninth House: philosophy, higher education, long distance travel, optimism, god, law, ideologies, culture, religion, foreign matters, collective thought structures, medicine, politics, science, navigation, love of learning, seeking opportunities for expansion

Tenth House: reputation, career, professional image, social hierarchies, authority, your identity within a social structure, achievements, rewards, accolades, legacy, what you become known for

Eleventh House: global stage, worldwide social groups (online or otherwise), collaborative achievements, technology, the internet, algorithms, aliens, conduit/channel from outer space and beyond

✫ it's really hard to ever know what a pisces moon is thinking or feeling, their inner world is a mystery to everyone including themselves

✫ mars conjunct venus can be super bold, romantic, and have a really high libido

✫ sagittarius mars loves driving, not just in a car it could be a motorcycle, riding a horse, they may skate, anything with wheels or makes you go faster

✫ leo venus NEEDS a partner to be loud and proud about their love for them. they are the definition of "want you to make me feel like i'm the only girl in the world"

✫ aquarius moons aren't always "unemotional", they may feel deeply, but about things most deem unconventional. they may struggle to emotionally connect in their personal life but feel deeply about humanity as a whole, really they just care more about injustice and the bigger picture

✫ 7H chiron x codependent partners

✫ sun square lilith women could have a dad that tries to control and constrict their sexuality "where are you going wearing that" "you can't date till your 35"

✫ I have never met someone with sun square moon whose parents are happily together (I have this and my parents divorced when I was 1)

✫ 2H venus and 4H venus are elite hosts. they completely elevate whatever space they have

✫ mercury opposite mars turn every conversation into a debate

✫ 12H chiron could have carried wounds from their past lives that effect them in this lifetime. + the fact that their wounds are hidden and sub/unconscious can make healing hard, yet very rewarding

✫ sun conjunct neptune can have a strong spiritual connection with their father even after he passes. they may be able to talk to him in the spirit world or in their dreams. while he's alive, they may idealize him

⭒ moon opposite pluto have such intense feelings but they feel so far removed from them. they can have a really difficult time processing their own emotions when in the thick of them. they may revisit a topic and not even realize they felt so strongly about it until it's passed

⭒ jupiter conjunct mars can be the type of person to, halfway through the argument, realize that they're actually wrong and yet still stand 10 toes down

⭒ 1H pluto/conjunct asc love masks. they're spectacular at hiding and going unseen. they are masters at stealth and reservation which is why they intrigue people so much - they have complete control over who gets to see what and how much

⭒ aries rising/moon x being called "hot headed" all the time. they can physically get red in the face a lot/while mad or have really bad headaches/migraines

⭒ pisces placements have a specific look and are easy to spot. it's in their teeth , i can't explain it

⭒ 7H saturn most loyal placement ever, they take relationships/commitment very seriously and are not the type to get into a casual relationship/situationship

⭒ mercury chiron aspects, you guys NEED to write and/or speak. i know you feel its your weakness but really it is your superpower

⭒ moon north node aspects can be known for their mom or for being a mom. disharmonious aspects(squares/oppositions) can be notorious or infamous for being a "bad mom". can be extremely ridiculed for parenting style

⭒ 12H stelliums live in quiet. in basements. in small apartments with lots of books and messy papers everywhere. they live in silence and solitude. they live in stillness, seclusion, and isolation. the focus for them in this lifetime is spiritual evolution, deep introspection, and self undoing

Awwww big love to you too! It's no bother, sorry to get back to you so late haha. I have this placement so I feel well equipped to explain it

Sun In 8th House :

The sun represents our individuality, self expression, ego, and will. It shines a light wherever it is in the birth chart. The house/sign that it's in gets illuminated and put on display for ourselves and others, it shines very brightly and can be tightly wound to the way we express ourselves and/or are perceived by others.

This can be a struggle when in the 8th house because it is where we keep our secrets and want to retain a sense of privacy. It's the most vulnerable and intimate parts of us that we prefer to keep to ourselves or people we trust deeply. It's the part of ourselves that undergoes the raw experience of death, transformation, and rebirth. when the sun is here, it acts like a giant, bright, beaming light onto this close and raw part of our chart that many people are able to keep hidden. think of it like a spotlight that gets shown onto the raw parts of you for the entire world to see. These people often have their secrets and private life exposed no matter how they try to avoid it. people seem to feel entitled to always be in their business and give unsolicited advice, judgements, and opinions to them. especially if the native is a woman, a lot of people can have opinions on her sexuality. she can be seen as provocative or at the least just a whole lot of people "know" things about her sex life (a rumor about body count, a bad/good sex story, nudes being leaked [if in pisces or aspected to neptune], sexuality on display in an almost unavoidable way). Some of this judgement can be casted on by her father as the sun is the "father" in astrology.

However, as the light (sun) shines brightly for the world to see, this includes the native as well. people with this placement have a remarkable gift of self transformation and metamorphosis. They are often aware of the deepest and darkest parts of themselves at a degree not many people are and have a great drive and determination to become the most evolved version of themselves constantly. This awareness sometimes comes without choice, and if they try to avoid it or ignore it it can fester into an inflated ego or power issues. this only comes when the native blocks the transformation journey their soul is destined to take. They are destined to be born, die, and then be reborn many many times in this single lifetime. They take their own self discovery very seriously and unraveling the mysteries of the self tend to be their main objective in this lifetime. These people are the kinds of people who you stop talking to then a year later they are a completely different version of themselves. it is almost impossible for these people to remain the same, as their entire will to life is to change!

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Jupiter square Pluto in Synastry:

In my opinion, no placements will ever be definitively bad nor good, but rather harmonious or disharmonious. Plus, even disharmonious aspects can promote growth in whatever area they're in, possibly even more than harmonious aspects which can often become so comfortable that they grow lazy.

Jupiter is expansive, abundant, and extravagant. Ive noticed that in squares this can either mitigate some of the challenge that inherently comes with a square because he will bring optimism and see what COULD BE with what is. However, pluto wants to strip everything down to its raw form. Pluto wants to compartmentalize, investigate, and show us what is left after all of the optimism, hope, and faith that Jupiter inherently lives in and for.

So, on one hand, Pluto person can possibly rain on Jupiters persons parade and maybe be the debby downer of the two, while Jupiter may take some truths or realism from Pluto as pessimism and fixed mindedness. Maybe Jupiter starts a project and before getting to a point where they see the fruits of it, Pluto points out their doubt and apprehension that it will work or come out the way Jupiter is envisioning. On the other hand, Pluto person can feel like Jupiter isn't realistic or approaches things that are based in reality. They could be convinced that Jupiter is lying to themselves and the world.

Because these two planets are both powerhouses, there can also be the presence of very real power struggles between each other. They have the potential to really bruise one another's ego, and they could be so headstrong that no one will be admitting their wrongs or taking accountability leaving them in a stalemate.

On a positive note, if they are both committed to working together to reap the benefits of this placement, the tremendous power of both Pluto and Jupiter can be tapped in together to create a power duo. This happens when Pluto is able to strip down what is fabricated leaving only what's real, the Jupiter can EXPAND on that authentically, then Pluto reassesses gets rid of any fabrication once again then the cycle can repeat and it's almost like fire and air. These people can achieve crazy wild things in just short period of time if they are willing to work together and if their efforts are done in good faith. They can be amazing business partners too or make a lot of money together.

Awww that sounds like such a sweet aspect for a lover! I will go over each part and then how I interpret the expression of those two energies together :)

7th House Moon:

In my experience, 7th house moons (one of my exes was one and another was a libra moon so similar) can be people pleasers to a fault. Often times they will sacrifice their own well-being for the betterment of other people whether to save hurt feelings or provide comfort and compassion. This can get them into a pickle because they will be so agreeable that any discernible/distinct beliefs, morals, and ideas they might inwardly identify with will be censored, compartmentalized, and refined into some inconclusive mumbo jumbo that is supposed to umbrella over every one else's so that everyone will like them 100%. This makes others feel lost in the mix and unheard sometimes not to mention the 7th house moon person may feel like a fraud or may just never know how they actually feel because they're forever looking at it through the lense of "how would _____ view me? will they still like me if I ______?" However, they're extremely relationship oriented and they really do care about others soooo much, which can be a great thing. They can be amazing mediators, peace keepers, or just a good friend to keep the harmony in a group of people. They love harmony, if they could, they would make it so the world was forever at peace with each other and no one would ever be hurt or hurt others again, and this is very sweet. They can be amazing at helping others, too. The main struggles that 7th house moons endure are internal. They are rarely instigators, fighters, or drama seekers, and I admire that about them.

Taurus Moon:

The moon is exhaled in Taurus, which means the energies of the moon and what it represents works really well with the value systems and expression of the sign of Taurus. This essentially means that in the sign of Taurus, the moon is treated as a VIP. Taurus moons tend to be really good at advocating for themselves, knowing what is going to make them feel at bay emotionally, and then doing it. Self care is the main thing that comes to my mind with Taurus moons. I think of luxury. I think of treating your inner world like it truly is a palace that only you have access to, and the only people who can come in are people who make you feel emotionally safe or spiritually elevated. I think of treating your emotions with respect, listening to the cues your body gives you, and just knowing what can enhance a situation, especially emotionally but even just in general. Comfort comes to mind with this placement, I think of just a comfortable bed with fluffy pillows and a cozy blanket and the whole cliche. However, this placement can grow rather complacent and/or lazy. I know it's the stereotype but in my experience it is true. (My mother has this aspect and despite being on the verge of homelessness, refused to work because she just didn't want to). These people can be very hard to move if you will. Sometimes it's not necessarily the whole stereotype of laziness but it's just rather that they will only do something if it is 100% in their own heart to do it.

7th House Taurus Moon:

⭒ Now together, I think this is quite a wonderful duo, and has the potential to be a very balanced and leveled individual. I think the people pleasing nature of the 7th house can be mitigated by the strongwilledness of Taurus. I think that if the 7th house isn't going to pick a side, Taurus will. However, if Taurus won't compromise, the 7th house will. I think this placement has the potential to be an extremely loyal and thoughtful lover. This seems like the kind of person to really stand behind you no matter what. This seems like the lover who will try their damnest to make sure that you are heard, they will amplify your voice where they feel you've faced injustice.

7th House Pluto:

well our 7th house is the house of one on one partnerships, not just marriage but also enemies business partners, etc.

this placement could manifest as having a lot of relationships that will end tragically or come back like a phoenix from the ashes (as pluto is all about the cycle of metamorphosis, death, and rebirth). so one way or nother, a lot of transmutation. one on one partnerships can be very transformative for you.

also, you would definitely need to look at the sign too as this will impact the nature of said transformation (say like gemini 7H pluto would maybe transform in their relationships by originally attracting people who gossip a lot and are generally really flighty and then that could transform into attracting people who are really bubbly and interesting and care a lot about what other people have to say by ma really tragic falling out with the previous friend that taught you the value of the QUALITY of friendships you allow into your life).

also because of the nature of pluto, this placement could also attract more open enemies than usual. or if you wind up with enemies, just a lot more hatred, vitriol, and just intensity in general. people may just find you to be too triggering to THEIR wounds so they avoid you or try to project their problems back onto you because you might mirror to them the things they don't like about themselves. this is especially true because pluto is generational, so if you are usually around peers, their pluto is going to conjunct your pluto in your 7th house.

you could be seen as an extremely loyal (and possessive) partner in marriage or even with your friends, as your partnerships are going to be of utmost importance to you. you might really take pride in your loyalty and ride-or-die nature.

7H pluto can also imply an inheritance, or marrying rich. having a wealthy partner. pluto deals with sharing of resources, and the 7H is our marriage partner. you can marry someone who makes bank and shares it with you willingly and openly. or you could make a lot of money in business partnerships.

you could also make money off of any enemies that you make(or unfortunately could lose money because of them too) if pluto is in aquarius, I wonder if maybe you could make money off of beef online with someone.

tw; (take all placements with a grain of salt, astrology cant tell you something will 100% happen or not) because of the nature of pluto being about death (real and metaphorical), you could wind up with a spouse that dies before you, their death could really impact you, or their death could be the thing that puts big money in your pocket. im sorry 😣 however your enemies could be impacted by this too, which implies your enemies can die prematurely as well. or even in an attempt to kill you, they kill themselves (which is a way more extreme manifestation of this energy so don't take it too seriously haha)