it really is just fucking wild how fast and severely and for how little they nuke trans women while the jackass going around encouraging us to kill ourselves has been up for a week now

anyone TMA or too friendly with TMA people will get nuked multiple times in a day meanwhile the only reason they'll ever touch that account at all is because it's obviously a burner

If you see the quote "I refuse to share my body with a man who wouldn't defend it politically" or any variation of it floating around the internet — it was Kat Blaque who originally said it and she would really appreciate it if people gave her proper credit for it but it's gone viral on a lot of different platforms and most of the people sharing it don't know it's from her or choose not to credit her on purpose.

Like I just know terfs are going to be parroting it pretending it wasn't said by a black trans woman about herself & her life.

at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what you say about some fictional character. but if you watch a story written by a trans woman that is clearly about the closet and the intense pain being unable to escape from it brings, and insist that a character who clearly has complicated desires about wanting to be more feminine isn't transfem because no one ever looked at the camera and told you the character's pronouns than i think there IS a problem of, as a viewer, finding the idea of someone being transfem so outrageous and unrelatable that you cannot see the most obvious hansel and gretel bread crumb trail of a character arc then there is absolutely SOMETHING in your heart you have to fix

everyone please throw money at her shes my best friend

The first few days of this were really promising but I haven't gotten anything in a few days now.

this image is beautiful but klaufir being banned just highlights how tumblr will take transfem art and then cast out the trans woman that made it. time and time again our contributions are taken but we lose our connections to them.

udder-mother was up less than 2 hours ago. This is on purpose.

Marriagetoxin anime came out so it’s only a matter of time before I get yelled at for using she/her for kinosaki. I will not stop. I was here first.

i was so focused on preparing for the "feminine (implicitly cis) men dont need to be trans" types that i forgot about the "actually this character is every kind of queer except trans woman because thats regressive and stereotypical" types. both will yell at me for she/her-ing these kinds of characters but the latter's tendency to use progressive sounding justifications if much more frustrating.

Anyway, Kinosaki’s position in the narrative is the girl who doesn’t count, right? Explicitly because she cannot get pregnant as gero’s family wants an heir, so she is seen as an obstacle. She even sees herself this way, to an extent. She already exists in a transfeminized position.

so. i just learned that my entirely me-written resume flags as being AI-written by automated HR systems for a few writing quirks and the fact that i followed all the rules of good resume writing, which is apparently a telltale sign of AI use in this fucking hellworld. i've been desperately applying to jobs that i am massively overqualified for for months with no response, not even an interview, and now i find out that at least part of the reason is because some fucking moron decided that following the rules every career advisor has given me for a decade means i cheated and should be disqualified. the ai bubble cannot pop soon enough. what the actual fuck.

Pomni you can get that purple rabbit pregnant you just have to believe in yourself

Update; my fluffy 25 pound dickhead of a Maine coon mix Disapproves Strongly of the child locks on the food door. Loudly. Is now attempting to figure out how to work a child lock with his enormous crime paws.

Please I’m officially unemployed and a subscription I didn’t know I apparently had charged me $155 (?!?!??) and could use some help so I can finally be completely independent.

Please I just had to pay over $700 and now they might total my car I need help

They are in fact totaling it so I don’t have a car. How can I have a job without one. It’s going to be winter. In the Chicago area. So biking (without a bike) isn’t much of an option, there are no buses within walking distance. I need at least a rental car or something. Like I’m in deep here.

UPDATE: I finally have access to a hand-me-down car! I just have to wait for viable plates and I can really get going on jobs! However I am still currently in the deep so I could use some help until I officially have a paycheck.

got yet another medical bill for my broken toe bringing the total up to $1400. this is for the walking boot they shoved into my hands. I am straight up not paying this one lol. it's $420 and apparently major credit reporters don't care about medical expenses below $500. thanks for the free boot!

I am forever irritated that people are more apt to call a drag queen 'she' than call a trans woman 'she'