the notorious napper

I have a BMI of 35. I am the cutoff for most of medicine. My size or larger, we can't access:

Fertility treatment

Gender affirming surgeries

Most surgeries, in fact

bc we can't donate our bodies to science and drs don't study on larger bodies. Medications aren't made for us bc we're often excluded from scientific studies. We're systematically excluded and then blamed for poorer outcomes.

I don't care whether you 'like' looking at me or bodies like mine; we deserve equal access to healthcare [all caps].

“-oid” — Such as “femoid”, its shortening “foid”, “moid”, and others. “Femoid” was posted to Reddit in 2017. This language has origins in words like “android” and possibly “mongreloid”, implying that the subject is not a full human being capable of self-awareness and true thought. “Passoid” is a spin-off derogatory for trans people who pass well, almost always aimed at trans women.

“Hon” — Derived from a hypothetical insincere compliment; “You look great, hon!” This is a transmisogynistic term that makes fun of transfems and women who don’t pass, particularly late transitioners who are openly and unashamedly femme. Be on the lookout for variations formatted as “[adjective]hon” like “brickhon” and “gigahon”, denoting a sliding scale of “hon”-ness. Useage of this term enforces transmedicalism and puts down transfems for features they don’t have control over.

“Troon” — I don’t see this one thrown around much here, but still. It’s a shortening of “transgender goon” from 4chan. It was coined in the 2000’s, not our current slang for “goon”, but an older meaning; “a stupid or oafish person”, or possibly “a lackey”. It can be used for any trans person, but it is often aimed at trans women.

“Pooner” — This was a likely portmanteau of “troon”, “poontang” (vagina), and words like “coomer” (identical to “gooner”). It’s a derogatory for clocky transmascs and men, especially ones who are perceived as not putting enough effort into their transition.

“AFAB Privilege” — This is a rebranding of “female privilege” and “pussy privilege”, which was the incel and MRA response to feminist discussions of male privilege. It assumes that being AFAB means that you have a functioning gestative reproductive system and all features thereof, and that having “biologically female” features mean that you are more likely to be believed if you are raped, among other social eases and perks. This term is bioessentially misogynistic and intersexist.

I’m unsure if “theyfab” and “theymab” are 4chan in origin or not (if anyone knows, feel free to explain), but those words offer an overlapping focus on bioessentialism.

“[Sex]brained” — Such as “fembrained” or “malebrained”. This is another piece of bioessentialist language that plays on the idea that men and women are different from each other on a mental level, to the degree of believing in sexual dimorphism of the brain. Trans people who put stock in outdated studies on gendered brain differentiation for personal validation will also use this language unironically to differentiate who is “really” trans and who isn’t.

Other terms you might want to rethink includes “-maxxing” (from “looksmaxxing”, which is an incel effort to look more attractive to achieve higher social status and/or pick up women), “mog” (from “AMOG”, a shortening of “alpha male of the group”; this is also from looksmaxxing spaces), “[group] supremacy” (do I have to even explain this one), and “-slop” (from “goyslop”, an antisemetic conspiracy theory).

Your ex boyfriend is not a "narcissist". He's a typical misogynistic douchebag who treats women like shit because society allows him to.

Your boss is not a "narcissist". They're a typical classist dipshit who thinks workers' entire purpose in life is to generate profit because society allows them to.

And even if they happen to be a "narcissist", that's not what gave them the power to get away with abuse.

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me and my bf are looking for ways to move from hostel!

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me and my bf are immigrants who live at this moment at hostel. we live in separate rooms which we share with other people and can't spend time together in there

also i live in room which placed in the basement, air in my room feels wet, so i am afraid i can get sick because of it.

even if i like this place, i feel like it's my time to move on

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my bf is working hard for our goal, taking night shifts job. i want to help him and rise money together! so i am opening commissions

if you can, help us find a room!

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dm for details, and also - you can donate if you want

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me and my bf lived in hostel which turned out to be dangerous place. we, basically, run away in one day. right now we have 2 weeks in friend's house

we are out of money and we need it fast (2 weeks). i have to look for janitor job with pain in spine and i can't let myself rest after epilepsy strokes (i had 2. in one day.) i got after stress in hostel

we are really in need of help.

please if you can - use chance of low pricing to get commission from me (this is less phisically painful than janitor job) or, if you can and want - you can donate

dm for commissions details and here is donations platform link

full story about the guy from hostel turned out to be stalker who physically attacked me, other stress which got me to 2 strokes in one day with entire-body paralyze (which i usually don't have with my type of epilepsy) and wild owner decisions under the cut

the picture isn't metaphor by the way my bf had to carry me, paralyzed, on his arms away from the hostel

*checks wiki*

"Hey we should stop sending trans people to a fucking exorcist before they're allowed to transition? Since we know, scientifically, that demons are Not Fucking Real?"

"Ok but what if someone regrets transition though?"

"DEMONS ARE NOT FUCKING REAL."

"You really don't care about the possibility of regret?"

"DEMONS. ARE NOT. FUCKING. REAL. THE EXORCIST. HAS NOTHING TO DO. WITH REGRETTING ANY TRANSITION PROCEDURE. ON ACCOUNT OF EXORCISM BEING FAKE AND MADE UP."