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can you do this flag? its the PermaSibling flag!!

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

call me gabe/gabbi/riel/rielle ♡ mixed latino (mexican + french), 21 y/o, median sys, luciferian cancer sun, virgo moon, libra rising, gemini venus cupioaroace turigirl trans boy + auto/perma-shxta (i heart my perv partner) i'm far-left, anti-genocide, profic/proship, anti-censorship and pro-critical thought

no dni apart from minors, i block freely and pretty liberally !! EVERYTHING 18+ ON MY BLOG IS EITHER FICTIONAL OR BETWEEN CONSENTING ADULTS !!

i refuse to entertain anyone who interacts with me in bad faith. if you have any issues with me, either block me or talk with me about it like a mature human being. i'm not afraid to feed a cunt's name to my local river fae.

Why am I unable to say “ hey yeah i was traumatized at 11 and that made me a really violent and aggressive person and I still am very aggressive and hold some pessimistic values . While I no longer engage in violent acts I still daydream about them and watch violent videos because that is what works for me “ without being told im trying to be edgy . NO !!! the justice system just fails cocsa victims !!!!!!!

Do you gender trans people correctly even when they're being absolutely terrible people? Do you refuse to use the r-slur against someone who suicide baited you but is neurodivergent? Do you refuse to snark at a mentally ill person who is being genuinely unpleasant, "go take your meds!"

Do you allow members of marginalized groups to be terrible people without judging their entire demographic for it? One of the most invisible yet vital forms of privilege is the right to be terrible people as an individual rather than as a group. Do you acknowledge that there are bad people in every group, that it doesn't make their group less worth fighting for? Or do you shake your head if you happen to get mistreated by some who belong to a group and insist the entire group is awful and not worth your allyship?