Dissociation and disassociation do not mean the same thing yall dissociation is a trauma response that you get when you’re forced to stay in a dangerous situation to have your needs met and anyone can dis-associate their emotions from a situation with enough practice
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This blog is run by a bi lesboy so if you’re on the terf kool aid and want to put non-binary, intersex and split attraction people into boxes I don’t want you here
LMAO YOUR RESPONSE TO THE KITTYDOG THING SKSVWMDBW but ffs it upsets me sm gonna go on a tangent: FIRST shes like "itd make sense for my fursonas to be a system even doe in a singlet" which imo: disgusting to say. then like a day or two later shes like Oh im a system actually !!! <333 and makes a system carrd where she LITERALLY SAYS "i dont have osdd/did but im a system!" I genuinely had an anxiett attack seeing that shes the WORST. i hate it here -a very angry osdd-1b system
It seems she’s retracted herself from the “system” community because of fakeclaiming, I can’t verify it so unless it was people just saying you can’t be a system and not have the trauma disorders, shame, don’t tell people they’re a fake system or not a system, brains and trauma are weird and people need to be able to have the time to figure their brains out
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This genuinely is upsetting to see as a transgender person living in a country where we are currently progressing to or perhaps even having a genocide. I have months or a few years left until my state passes the law making being trans in the presence of minors a felony. I can be imprisoned for merely living, and part of that rhetoric pushing it is the same rhetoric that sysmed inherently invokes.
By comparing something that is about what people have been claiming to be neurodiversity, and is in MANY (not all) cases a trauma based disorder, to transness, you necessarily are proclaiming transness is neurodivergency or caused by trauma. This has been a terf talking point for decades now. There have been times over and over again where people have claimed being trans is a mental illness. No form of transness is mentally ill. No form of transness can EVER be a mental illness and to suggest otherwise is to be bigotted.
Endogenic systems go through a lot of trouble and strife, that cannot be ignored. HOWEVER, it is indicative of some of the highest forms of privilege to compare bullying, mockery, and fakeclaiming to systemic oppression and genocide. You by saying it is the same as "transmed", transmeds like Blaire White who have directly contributed to the laws and the ongoing genocide itself, are minimizing the deaths of thousands of people.
You will not be hate crimed, legally murdered, or incarcerated on the basis of being an endogenic system. We are currently in the process of saving to flee the country because our LIFE is at risk, you have no reason to ever, and I mean ever, compare these two forms of discrimination.
The will to pretend the harm "sysmeds" do is anywhere near as catastrophic as the harm transmedicalists do is astounding. Exclusionists suck. We're aromantic, and sense you all like comparing queerness to systemhood (a completely different axis of self-identity mind you), we'll do that here. We hate people excluding others from some broader community, but again that doesn't mean I as an aromantic person should just waltz into romantic groups and waste everyone's time. There is a difference between the broader community of which people CHOOSE whether or not they are a part of, and trying to worm your way into spaces that are built for things you are not/do not experience.
I am so tired of seeing people pretend to understand oppression. I am so tired of other trans people who are privileged enough to not have to worry about the genocide we personally are facing, mocking people like us who are in the thick of it.
It is so easy not to downplay the fascistic ideas that transmedicalism encompasses. Please just... do better. Use a different term...
Anti-trans violence is not just some abstract boogey-man to some of us. Some of us are fighting for our lives. We have always been one to focus on intersectionality... we do know there is intersectionality to systems and trans people. But system exclusionists are not aiding the oppressors in an ongoing genocide the way transmeds are.
Just because I’m trans because I’m traumatized doesn’t mean that being trans comes from trauma, a trauma identity disorder is not the same thing as (not) having a gender identity
anyways, endogenic systems are real, and stealing transmed arguments to start shit with other plurals is fucking cringe
You're fucking dumb to compare a trauma disorder to gender identities it's not the same thing nor the same argument which you'd know if you would actually do real research
I see people saying things that really are shitty so I want to say something here
The reason endogenic systems and pro endogenic systems are dangerous is because the spread misinformation, not because they make people not take us seriously
saying endos are the reasons we aren’t taken seriously is queer exclusion rhetoric and ignores that ableist people wouldn’t take us seriously regardless of endos being a thing because that’s what ableists do
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Your trauma is valid if it wasn't the fault of a specific person or specific people. Whether it was due to external circumstances like poverty or war, or your trauma was a result of growing up neurodivergent and therefore isolated in a neurotypical world, or the result of long-term illnesses you suffered with, or anything else not listed here. You don't have to have been abused to have trauma, your trauma is still real and healing is still possible.
radqueers are co-opting system community language and it’s a problem
to start this off, i’m making this post because i’ve never seen a radqueer that didn’t also claim to be pro-endo. i block them a lot and i’ve noticed a lot of them co-opt pro-endo language and sometimes reblog pro-endo posts or get involved in syscourse. im also in the system community on here which is why i noticed their attempts at invading pro-endo spaces specifically. i’m not at all trying to say the pro-endo community is at fault for this.
im growing increasingly concerned about their attempts at forcing themselves into syscourse and pro-endo spaces, especially for minors who (for example) may be looking for pro-endo spaces to hang out but they unknowingly end up in a sever with a bunch of radqueers.
this isn’t meant to attack pro-endos or insinuate that this is some sort of petty syscourse drama because it’s not, and i really believe that a lot of people are going to be put in danger if more and more radqueers try to impose themselves on pro-endo spaces.
i’ve decided to make a non-comprehensive list of radqueer dogwhistles and terminology to hopefully help everyone spot them before they do any more damage.
this will be updated.
⚠️ beyond this point there will be mentions of incest, pedophilia, necrophilia, and zoophilia (with pedophilia being mentioned the most out of these) so please be careful if these topics are triggering to you! ⚠️
i’m going to do my best to divide this in sections so it’s easier to navigate
basic terminology:
radqueer: radqueers are essentially people who believe that paraphilias should be included in the broader LGBTQ+ community. they also support trans-ids and believe they’re inherently included in the community under the T.
safequeer: what radqueer people call LGBTQ+ people who are against trans-id and the pro-para ideologies.
trans-id: a blanket term for people who basically identify as something that they’re not, typically outside of their privileges. also sometimes called trans-x. this does not include transgender because gender is a social construct, but they’ve co-opted language from trans activists. i am trans and do not mean to imply we’re “identifying as something we’re not” because that’s not the case at all and is extremely different from whatever trans-id people are doing, despite their attempts to co-opt our language and our movement. common trans-ids include trans-race (identifying as a race other than your own), trans-age (identifying as an age other than your own), and trans-abled (identifying as having a disability that you don’t have).
trans(x): referring to transid people. replace “x” with any identity, and that usually means that the person in question is transid with something. for example, “transautistic” would mean that someone isn’t autistic but they identify as such.
cis(x): referring to people who naturally are something. to repeat the example from above, “cisautistic” would mean someone who is actually autistic.
again, the language that i’m using here absolutely does not reflect my feelings towards transgender people. there is a huge difference between gender and race, disability, and age. transid people have co-opted our language to make it easier to claim we’re bigots for being angry at them. they can easily say “see you’re making the same arguments that transphobes make against you” without actually listening to what we’re saying.
side note on trans-race: to my knowledge, the term “transracial” used to be used by people who were adopted and raised by people from a culture other than their own. this has been stolen by radqueers and pro-transx people. i’m unsure if the term is still in use.
trace: abbreviation of trans-race
chrono: refers to someone’s actual, bodily age. for example, “chrono 22” would mean someone is actually 22. this is usually paired with internally (age), which refers to the age they “identify” as. so “chrono 22 internally 30” would mean they’re actually 22 but claim to be internally 30.
chronosian: someone who identifies with an age other than the one they bodily are. may or may not also identity as trans-age.
trans-species: someone who identifies as a species other than human. to my knowledge, it’s like a slightly more extreme version of otherkin or therian, while also believing they’re inherently included in the LGBTQ+ community. i would also be wary of anyone who IDs as trans-species in the radqueer community because it could be used as a way to justify zoophilia, which the radqueer community inherently supports.
trans-harmful: transid for people who believe they should be something harmful. for example, trans-abusive would be someone who believes they should be an abuser, but they claim to not be one.
trans-opinion: people who believe they should have a certain opinion but don’t. relatively benign in comparison to all the other shit here but still stupid.
pro-para: short for pro-paraphilia. they’re a community based on the acceptance of paraphilic disorders, and many of the people in the pro-para community also support harmful ones. pro-paraphilia cannot be separated from radqueer ideology, but while there’s heavy overlap, i believe there’s a broader pro-para community that’s separate from the radqueer community, because radqueers specifically advocate for the inclusion of paraphilias in the LGBTQ+ community.
“the big three”: term from pro-para/radqueer spaces that refers to pedophilia, necrophilia, and zoophilia.
(x)-contact: any label involving “contact” refers to people with paraphilias engaging directly with their attraction, most commonly used for “the big three” due to the fact that they would inherently cause harm if acted on. for example, pro-contact would mean someone who supports all forms of engaging directly with paraphilias. complex-contact would be someone who believes that whether or not contact is okay depends on the situation.
parapunk: can’t find an exact reference for what it is, i’m assuming it’s a combination of the pro-para community and punk aesthetics due to believing being a paraphile is something radical
MAP: short for minor attracted person, aka pedophiles. NOMAP refers to pedos who also claim to be anti-contact.
ficto-map: “MAPs” who are attracted to fictional children
ficto-zoo(phile): zoophiles who are attracted to fictional animals
AAM: short for adult-attracted minor
AAP: adult-attracted person (also may be called adelian)
MAM: minor attracted minor
consang: refers to people who are in “consensually” incestuous relationships, wouldn’t mind being in one, or actively seek it out. pro-consang just refers to people who support this but aren’t necessarily consang themselves.
paraphile hoarder: paraphiles who claim to have a lot of paraphilias or MOGAI identities related to their paraphilias
side note: the “para” prefix is used in these spaces to refer to “paraphilia”. however, i also just wanted to bring attention to the “multi-para” label that has nothing to do with paraphilias and is commonly used in roleplay/writing communities to mean that their writing in roleplay posts is often multi-paragraph. i just wanted to make an aside for that in case anyone didn’t know.
how are they co-opting system language?
many radqueers co-opt pro-endo language and claim to be inclusive of endogenic systems. this also includes acceptance of trans-plurals, trans-endos, trans-DID, etc. their view is inherently skewed and harmful to the entire system community. they knowingly support “MAPs” interacting with systems and include them under the same radqueer “inclusive” umbrella.
other than pro-endo terminology, they also co-opt MOGAI. a lot of them will coin MOGAI labels and flags for paraphilias and transids. i’ve also explained how they’ve co-opted trans activism.
emoji codes:
fortunately for us radqueers have literally just made a carrd listing all of their emoji codes lmao, but basically, emoji codes are meant to hide in plain sight while also signaling to other people what they are. in case you don’t want to click on the carrd or if it gets deleted, i’ll list them here. keep in mind that the slashes mean they could be used separately from each other, not necessarily together. unfortunately i don’t really know how widely used this guide is, but i have seen these emojis used frequently on radqueer blogs that i’ve blocked, so i think it’s safe to assume it’s pretty legitimate.
🥄4️🥄 / 🧿4️🧿: paraphile 4 paraphilia (paraphiles who seek out contact with their paraphilia) OR paraphile 4 paraphile (paraphiles who seek out relationships with other paraphiles)
specific paraphilias
these are listed on the emoji code website including flags for them. many of the flag links and explanations of what they are have been deleted. i’ll list them with the respective emoji codes and flag/explanation if available.
this section includes very blatant sexualization of pedophilia and rape. please proceed with caution.
there are many paraphilias listed on the site but i wanted to highlight the particularly concerning ones.
🌹 / 🥀: Bisatophilia (arousal from rape)
🌼: Auto-Biastophilia (arousal from being raped)
💤 / 🛏️: Somnophilia (arousal from someone being asleep)
🍬 Aptophilia: (arousal from grooming)
🍭 Auto-Aptophilia (arousal from being groomed)
aptophilia flag:
👀 / 👁: Vigiliaphilia (arousal from being a stalker)
flag:
MAP 4 MAP flag:
if you see something that may involve children being in immediate danger, here’s a link to the cyber tipline for reporting CSEM.
Anyway my experiences are not for endogenics to relate to, to use as a source, or otherwise engage with. I'm a DID system with a history of organized trauma. My experiences cannot be relatable for you when considered through the lens of why I exist like this.
What you do in your time is for you but don't use psych terms for your spiritual condition. If you interact with my posts, don't bring it up on them. I will block you.
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[ID: a white man dressed in black holding a sign. The sign says "someone being anti endo does not make them "genocide neutral" what the fuck is wrong with you. End ID]
I promise you that being a system isn’t a white people thing.
Mental health is so stigmatized for us, it feels like we’re betraying a part of our culture for being this way, but I promise you it isn’t. Mental health isn’t for white people, it’s for everyone.
Take care of yourself, okay? Run a bath, appreciate your hair, brush your teeth, and do things that make you happy and healthy
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