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RINA SAWAYAMA for DIY MAGAZINE by Jess Farran

My therapist asked me to create something “motivating” so I made these.

do you have a crush on anyone?

what’s your favorite candy?

favorite love song?

what was your first kiss like?

what was your last kiss like?

sexual/romantic orientation?

do you prefer poems or love letters?

favorite fanfic trope?

have you ever been in love?

favorite milkshake flavor?

dinner dates or brunch dates?

favorite flowers?

favorite perfume/cologne?

favorite candle scent?

what’s your ideal first date?

favorite love story?

what’s the most attractive thing a person could wear?

chocolate, vanilla, or red velvet?

snow, rain, or sun?

sweetest romantic memory?

favorite dating sim (and favorite character)?

fictional crushes?

what’s your dream wedding like?

what makes you blush?

do you believe in love at first sight?

do you believe in soulmates?

denim jackets, leather jackets, or bomber jackets?

what’s your sign?

are you single?

do you prefer to charm, or be charmed?

guitar or piano?

favorite romcom (or any romantic movie)?

do you fall in love easily?

valentine’s decorations: yay or nay?

would you prefer to propose or be proposed to? what’s your dream proposal?

cloud gazing or star gazing?

do you like to dance?

what’s your OTP?

kittens or puppies?

coffee, hot chocolate, or tea?

favorite soda?

do you prefer gazing wistfully out the window or lying dramatically over the sofa?

favorite ABBA song?

fuck/marry/kill? (anons name 3 people of your choice)

favorite pajamas?

favorite liquor?

do you think about love a lot?

a walk in the park or a walk on the beach?

hand kisses or nose kisses?

So this isn't exactly a spell but I thought I'd share how I make my self love/ attraction salt! I mostly use it for baths but you can also use it to charge objects for beauty spells/ glamours :)

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First off, you'll want to gather your ingredients. I use:

Epsom salts

Lavender

Vanilla

Rose petals

Cinnamon (or ground coffee, or both!)

Dead sea salt ( the kind have is rose infused, so you can also add some rose oil if you want more of a rose scent)

A mortar and pestle (or just a nice bowl if you dont have one of these)

Some candles

Crystals associated with love (I used kunzite, rose quartz and clear quartz)

💕 Before you start mixing everything together, place the candles and crystals around you and cast a circle how ever you like. If you want to work with any deities, invoke them now!

💕first, pour the epsom salt into your bowl.

💕 next add just a pinch of cinnamon.

💕 add ground coffee to the mix. The mortar and pestle come in handy here because coffee is a little bigger than salt and cinnamon :)

💕 now add vanilla! You only need a couple drops because that stuff is super strong. Mix it in thoroughly to make sure there are no clumps.

💕 if you want, add some Dead Sea salt and/ or some rose oil. (Again, be careful to only add a couple drops!)

💕 now it's time to add the lavender and rose petals! I crush the petals up slightly so they mix in a bit better.

💕 the last step is to leave it under moonlight for the night to charge. I also place the crystals along with it.