🤎Mars in Aries🤎

In this relationship you are very attracted to each other, the sexual tension and desire are visible to both you and everyone else. There’s something exciting in their relationship, perhaps it is the teasing that occurs or how you seem to be a challenge to the other. You’re both people with strong temperaments, you know what you want and go after it regardless of the opinions of others. You encourage each other and are proud of each other's achievements. The goal of this couple is to create a space in which the other feels loved and respected in their entirety. Sex is hot, passionate, it leaves you tired and very satisfied. It is the moment in which you fully enjoy each other, it’s usually somewhat noisy and can feel like an intense and once-in-a-lifetime experience regardless of whether it is the first time or not. When there are arguments, both are very clear with what they think and feel, they can say things very frankly, which can sometimes hurt.

8th house (or even 12th/harsh pluto) synastry in one nutshell:

if the love you have for yourself is lower than the desire to be loved, a part of you will always want them.

if you have unfinished abandonment wounds where someone in your life chose others over you, the dilemma of wanting to move on to wanting to stay will always be there. if they have brought you situations where your self worth has been tested over and over again, yet you don't despise their waking existence, the want for them will always overpower through. their absence hurts more than the constant trials and errors that occur. their presence alone pushes over all logic and thoughts, and the thought you'll only hear is how they treated you was somehow justifiable.

In most cases the emotions that persevere are either love or hate, this synastry creates this black or white, all or nothing, I need you, to I can't stand you type of tennis match. So, if you don't choose yourself over the acceptance that they give you, your void (that they are able to fill) will always be vacant.

you'll always want their energy, their touch. you'll still look for them in other faces, you'll search for that feeling in someone else, compare the emotion you feel with them to everyone that passes by, and you'll come to the realization that the threshold that they created, is untouchable. no one can fit into the box they so carefully orchestrated, no one can mimic the energy that manifests between the two of you.

they'll walk into a bar and after weeks, months, years even and you'll make eye contact with them, and if the love you have for yourself is lower than the desire to be loved, you can't help but walk straight towards them, with open arms. it doesn't matter what they said, or what they did, all that matters is that their eyes, their touch hits you in places that you can't even reach, places that are hidden within you.

they are this reminder of the capacity you're able to reach within love, you'll look at them and your stomach will drop, they were the one "thing" that made you believe that you were lovable, they were the one "thing" that allowed the desire of accepting love in, and now they're standing in front of you, so what do you do? you can't help but have the urge to invite them in, your void that they filled was kept so cozy by them, and now that void only calls their name.

how do you walk away from the one person who brought the idea of accepting love go? how do you let the one person who allowed you to fully feel become out of reach? how do you say good bye to the one person who brings you the sense of home you never felt, leave? how do you deny the one person who brings you the sense of wholeness you wish you could hold?

how do you choose yourself instead?

their presence transpires this feeling in you and that feeling disappears every time you look away from them, and that feeling hides from everyone, even from you.

how do you expect to let that part of you go when they become the key that can reach the deepest parts of you. you want nothing more than to latch onto that hidden fortress, yet somehow, it disappears every time you look in the mirror.

you don't know how to love yourself and you don't know how to complete that part of you. you can't help but ignore that little girl inside you that is crying to come out; and when they entered your life they somehow soothed her, they gave her that home she never had, and they gave her the safeness she never felt.

how do you override that soft yet overpowering desire that is screaming at you to let them in, that desire has one goal, and that goal is to just accept loves offer, and with everyone else you can't.

you can't allow yourself to be loved in the way you wish for, yet with them that desire just seems to effortlessly flow out, and so letting that part of you go, is letting the deepest void you hold, intensify.

so, understanding that the connection you have can be beautiful, but there's always be one condition, you always have to choose you, and in most cases than not this person walked into your life solely to fix and rebuild the value and worth you lack. they are only here to create this lesson for you to grasp and understand that yes someone very close to you in your life chose others over you, and that person kept disappointing you in ways that you bury, you now look for a home in every one else but the only home you'll ever need, is the home you can give yourself.

p.s now this is obviously thoughts on toxic chaotic relationships where one person has self worth issues, and fear of vulnerability/acceptance of true love, so those who don't fall in that category probably won't feel this intensity. there are two sides to 8th synastry but i want to shed more light where people might struggle with it and offer a reflection as to why it might be so hard to let go. this energy can consume you and for those who relate; you're not alone, or crazy to hold on to something that's deemed un-logical, unrealistic or out of reach.

(*updated* and more accurate post about about 12th house synastry overlays along with Neptune synastry that makes harsh aspects to another's inner planets such as the Sun, Moon, rising, Venus or Mars)

There are two sides of 12th house synastry that I commonly see. The spectrum is different compared to the 8th house because with the 8th house, there are highs and lows, obvious extremes, there's oftentimes constant lessons, cycles and loops, but with the 12th house, there's a different undertone.

The 12th house is a very unforeseen house, when it comes with synastry, the spectrum of love that can be received and given is unfathomable. I am going to first discuss what this energy is like when someone deals with this type of synastry while having Neptune (especially harshly) aspecting your inner planets/12th house placements/Pisces placements; then I will go in-depth for how they would feel without those placements.

(that being said my main discussion deals with the foundation of both individuals having attraction or interest on both ends, as well as other intense synastry overlays such as harsh or soft attraction synastry aspects, + eros, lilith, chiron, pluto, or 8th house synastry)

As a 12th house native or with heavy Pisces influence (e.g., a Pisces Venus, Sun, Moon, rising, or with a natal Neptune squaring, opposing or conjunct the Sun, Moon, rising, Venus) this type of synastry is confusing, it's blurry and parts of you can second guess almost everything about them, what you are to them, what they are to you etc. There are no tangible boundaries when it comes to the emotional depth you are willing to feel for them. On some days you can find yourself wondering where you stand with them, you fixate on their energy, and you'll wonder if they're thinking of you. You look into their eyes and just feel their mental health struggles, their fears, their hidden thoughts, what they need to hear to feel seen past the 3D. You're like a walking and breathing affirmation audio tape of everything their subconscious always wished to of heard throughout life. That one broken image or belief they have within their subconscious self is the one thing you can't help but compliment them on, the feelings they ignore, suppress or hide away are the feelings you want to naturally reassure them about. It's like you become this real life 3D fixer upper for this individual, and you just can't help but be drawn with saving, helping, or fixing them. (undoubtedly so if you also fall in their 2nd house, especially your inner planets, if there is no 2nd house influence then the compliments/praising will be less intense or frequent)

The beginning of this synastry embodies confusion. Since there's no real tangible statement or understanding you can hold onto. You'll just know how they operate before ever really knowing them.

You'll just want to make sure that they are okay, and that can come in many different ways, you yourself will just know. You can turn into this savior that they never knew they needed, you'll just want to give and love everything out of them; and in some cases receiving or having that mutual give and take may be something you think you don't need, especially when it comes to them, and especially if you have a natal 12th House Venus or a Pisces Venus/a Natal Venus that squares, conjuncts or opposes Neptune (this can apply to the Moon as well).

To reiterate; if you share the above placements you instantly can become drawn towards the house person. You will look at them and see every facet of their being, their hidden pain, their sorrows, why they feel the way they do, why they struggle the way they struggle, their mental health dilemmas, their soul; especially so if you as well have a water Moon that harshly aspects Neptune as well as the above listed placements. But these feelings don't persist automatically or openly, the desires the planet person or the one person who has the placements I listed/spiritual enlightenment + attraction towards the house person (or the other person) stays at bay and stays being unsaid, especially in the beginning. The planet person with these placements etc etc, can hold onto constant dilemmas and wonder if what they are feeling is real, if what they desire is one sided, especially if there is little to no communication between the dynamic.

On the other side of the spectrum, this bond (when wanted on both ends) can create a soul binding connection where the house person would feel like no one else can ever understand them the way the planet person can. No one else would be able to read them like the book they secretly are, no one else can look into their eyes and bring solace into their bones, which in-turn can cause the dynamic between them to consistently become something that is impossible to let go of.

With attraction + desire the house person may feel like a hug from the planet person* (or vice versa) is equivalent to receiving a sense of understanding and safety that they weren't aware they ever needed. The house person may just find themselves fully being able to lay and hold onto the planet person* and there's this unsaid desire just be next to them. The planet person* may instinctively feel this pull or knowing that there is a softer more serene side of the house person that not everyone see's and even though there's no tangible words to hold onto, that feeling within them doesn't dissipate. Just with one hug from the house person and the planet person* will know that there's a soft and quiet side inside them that they hide or suppress away.

* = placements I listed + spiritually understanding/enlighted

The house person will ask themselves: How do I let go of the one soul who speaks to the parts of myself that I don't even know? The intensity of the bond can vary based on each others natal placements, but I do believe the connection can become deep and unworldly even without the placements I've listed since attraction and desire are two KEY factors that would override any natal placement. Instant psychic understanding about one another on both ends (regardless of natal placements) can occur, you both will know what the other person is thinking, feeling, and needing. If there is genuine desire for one another then the depth of care can become very ethereal and unspoken, especially if the Moon or Venus are involved; if attraction is present and you have the placements I mentioned, a part of you will just want to hold onto the house person. You'll just want to comfort and be present in the moment with them. All that matters to you is that they are doing and feeling okay, with them this part of you unlocks where you just want to caress their soul. But like I said natal placements do have an immense influence, one individual could feel this pull and understanding (w/o the placements I mentioned) but the depth and length for caring may not run as deep as someone else who has the natal placements I listed. They will still care in some shape or form in ways they never knew was possible; but the turnover of moving on or of minimizing selfless acts can become more shallow and less frequent throughout time.

When wanted on both ends with genuine care and desire the song Run To You by Lea Michele perfectly depicts this type of deep care.

Now this type of synastry can also begin the influence of delusion or false presumptions. Genuineness and self awareness is key, not everyone will desire such depth of the unknown especially if they themselves have no set understanding of their own subconscious beliefs.

To reiterate, if this is one sided therefore if they don't share attraction or desire for you; then this type of behavior will feel invasive and they may become confused or unsure with what to do with that type of depth that your eyes can bring them, if they are unaware of their own shadow self, along with not wanting to change or be spiritually awoken, this type of connection can be daunting and misleading in some way for them.

Now lets go deeper: for someone who doesn't have any 12th house Venus, Pisces Venus, Neptune influence (or if you have little to no attraction or interest towards them), or low spiritual awareness/acknowledgement of your own mental health struggles/hidden fears and if someone comes in to your life where they fall in your 12th house, the feelings that acclimate mainly are confusion, resistance or hesitation. You might have some hidden curiosity about the planet person but generally the curiosity can be the furthest you go with this individual. There might be some hidden tension or eye glances towards another but with it there is also a barrier between the two of you. You may feel like you know their body language or what their eye glances mean but you more than likely brush it off and set aside any spiritual coincidences that you have with them. You may also wither back and forth between being more inclined to getting to know them to being unsure with your interest in them or there's a sense of unpreparedness you may struggle with when it comes to this individual. A part of you may feel like their type of love can sooth parts of you that you ignore or mentally struggle with but that type of care can feel unneeded and can bring in fear; since there is a unspoken knowing of what they are able to truly view and feel for you if they were your partner. You may ask yourself, "Can this person fix, and heal me? " "Do I really need to be saved?" "Is this all in my head?" "Can they be the pacifier for the pain I can't even openly express; or will they bring me more sorrow?"

(this dilemma of curiosity is more apparent if you share other direct intense synastry aspects such as 8th/pluto/intense attraction aspects especially with eros or lilith etc)

(Even writing the paragraph above brought me so much confusion, for this post I am drawing from my own experience with 12th house + harsh Neptune synastry with a boy i've known for years and it still brings me so much hesitation and confusion with how he may feel about me. I still stand in uncertainty and confusion even though my own sense of how I feel towards him is consciously open, this energy is so extremely hard to pin point and logically articulate especially as someone who has 12th house placements + harsh aspects to my Moon. I as well share 8th house synastry with the relationship I am referencing and even from being so introspective and readily aware of how 8th house synastry manifests from every minuscule feeling or thought, I am still stuck with; confusion when it comes to the 12th house)

That being said, if there is a connection where one person has these natal placements and desires for the other individual but the other partner doesn't share the same attraction/placements; then that is when unrequited love or unspoken love can occur. To summarize, for 12th house and neptune synastry to be mutual even if the other partner doesn't have those natal these placements, there has to be attraction or desire; whether it be physical, or emotional. Someone could have these placements that I've listed but if there is no want, attraction or desire towards the other person; the dynamic can also become one sided on their end even with the placements and tendencies of being drawn towards connections that share 12th/neptune/pisces influence.

12th house synastry is the house of selflessness, this is the house of giving and giving to no end; since in one essence this house holds no end or beginning, therefore the boundaries and understanding that this house can carry is unknown. Each dynamic with 12th house synastry can be complexed, there are many factors that play a role in influencing this type of connection such as your natal placements, their natal placements, your natal aspects, their natal aspects, you desire and attraction and their desire and attraction and so on. Someone could sit in this confused and undesired energy for the other person for months and have all the placements I've listed. Therefore if that said individual is not prepared or have any desires to hold a connection that is deep and unspoken, they themselves (the planet person or the person who has 12th house/neptune/pisces influence) may even still feel fear or invasiveness towards the other individual that their share 12th house synastry with or vice versa; there are so many avenues and routes these connections can take, at least that's from my own astrological understanding and take on these type of connections.

Side Note: To balance the intensity these synastry aspects/overlays bring, taking on the opposite houses themes would bring more ease and create less intensity.

For example, dealing with 12H (Even Neptune) synastry, the opposite house is the 6H, the house of routine, daily life, mundane affairs, healthcare, helping others/giving etc etc. So to ease this type of fixation this synastry can cause, focus and enhance your own skills when it comes to your physical/mental health. Add more day to day to activities that solely focuses on changing your routine; however big or small. That will ease the fixation that 12H and Neptune synastry brings. This synastry can cause you to daydream or obsess over them, and since you may have this innate need to be their savior that wants to try and fix their wounds, the chance of putting yourself in situations where your priority is solely them is very likely. You could also fantasize and have an escapist attitude with them, (or the idea of them) therefore, they can serve as an escape for you; by focusing on their pain and struggles might cause you to forget about your own mental health challenges. You also might repeat scenarios in your head or fantasize about situations happening; especially since you might feel confused/hazy with where you stand with them, therefore keeping yourself busy is key with this synastry, and that will create more control within you.

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This is all from my own interpretation of 12th house synastry, I would confidently say I am a very very introspective person at heart, I read between the lines constantly and overly fixate on behavior etc and this synastry still clouded my own judgment and understanding for years; it brought in tendencies for me to doubt my true feelings and curiosity, only until I more so let go of the relationship that I am referencing (the boy where I have 8th house synastry with) was the only time I was able to fully look outside my situation with him when it came to my actions and feelings. The constant back and fourth dilemma I struggled with when it came to knowing him and who he was was constant yet truly instant. My soul knew him before my brain did and because of that knowing I was unsure and unconfident with the type of feelings that persisted in the dynamic I shared with him. I have made so many posts about 12th house synastry but I can confidently say that this current post is now the most accurate representation of what can occur between these relationships.

Hope this brings some clarity and understanding for others who have dealt with 12th house and Neptune synastry; if not disregard and again this type of synastry is truly nuanced and multifaceted.

Disclaimer: this is simply my personal experience with these synastry aspects. Basically ranting tbh.

I have moon conjunct mars natally which greatly affects the outcome of any Moon/Mars synastry I experience.(duh)

The Conjunction: I hate it. When I'm the Moon person my Mars is usually up in arms and I genuinely tend to feel like the Mars person is a threat to my sense of peace and they tend to annoy me really easily. When I'm the Mars person I usually tend to think the Moon person is a wimp even though our Moons are conjunct. Like I do feel a sense of care for them in a way but for the most part I feel like their sensitivity largely gets in the way of what I would normally like to do or how I would normally spend my time. The conjunction just makes things so up close and personal that its kind of hard to get your bearings honestly and it's hard not to take things personally here.

The Opposition: this is somewhat better. I've only been the Mars person once here so I don't have a lot to go on there. I found the Moon person to be quite cute and a little nonsensical but I didn't feel as much pressure to cater to their sensitivities as they tended to stick up for themselves a lot more. I just had to make sure that when they were addressing me that I didn't come off too defensive, which wasn't really that hard. When I'm the Moon person it's kind of similar, the Mars person does get on my nerves a little but I feel very comfortable addressing anything that is too much for me with the opposition. A lot of affection for them on my end and our differences almost make communication easier??

The Square: I love this one. Regardless of which side I'm on, the banter is so much fun.(esp because I'm squared with Sagittarius and Gemini) When I'm the Moon I usually tend to feel a lot of affection toward Mars and feel really comfortable joking around with them and sharing my thoughts with them. We're definitely not always on the same page but those differences hardly ever bother me. I tend to come off as more emotional than usual here though. When I'm Mars it's pretty similar, I usually love listening to the Moon persons thoughts and although their sensitivities are different from mine I don't tend to mind them and really enjoy catering to their needs. It's like a little adventure for me. The only downside is that sometimes I feel like I don't understand the Moon person as much as I would like and I feel like my temper and demeanor often hinders the intimacy between us.

A lot of sources claim that there are the „relationship/ love Houses“ when it comes to Synastry Overlays (looking at where the planets of someone else’s Chart fall on your Chart, and vice versa) and then there are those that „only“ indicate friendship, a work relationship or daily business etc.

Classically those „romantic“ Houses are: the 5th (romance), the 7th (partnership) and the 8th (deep intimacy).

When you are very new to Astrology this can dishearten you and make you feel like you don’t stand a chance with a someone just because you don’t tick others „Love Overlay“ boxes.

However:

1. There is no such thing as predetermination. Astrology includes Free Will and Astrology, too, is all about learning, growth of character and the evolution of the Soul. There is no right and wrong and there certainly isn’t „this is how it’s supposed to be, or how it’s not supposed to be“.

2. Astrology isn’t here to „tell you“ who you’re meant for or not meant for. If someone’s planets don’t fall into your 7th House (classical House of marriage) this by no means means that you aren’t compatible in marriage. It just means that maybe there are other factors in your connection that play a bigger role (someone in your 1st House could make you feel good about yourself and give you a sense of identity - who wouldn’t like that?). If you feel like someone is right for you, go for it!

3. In my eyes, while some Houses can be very blunt with showing romantic compatibility, ALL Houses can contribute to attraction and healthy romance and love. This depends on several factors including your personal Charts and your preferences when it comes to love among other things (Aquarius placements usually aren’t the attached at the hip marriage types so they might value someone they have a friendship with (11th House) over someone who gives them the „marriage“ vibes).

Also, just having someone’s planets in your 7th House doesn’t automatically mean you are perfect for each other.

4. Overlays are only one part of the equation. The biggest one, in my eyes and from an astrological point of view, are Aspects. The House Overlays are more background noise (from my experience) and as there are no „unromantic“ Houses they will just set the stage according to the act of the Aspects.

Also, someone might have their DC (7th House) in Cancer while their Sun sign is in Aries. This means they find Cancer placements romantically attractive but will likely clash with them due to their fire Sun. This can go both ways, of course.

Then, there are Combine Charts - but that is another story, and as I myself don’t really use them I will leave this to other people who are more knowledgeable about those kind of Charts :)

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Anyways, in order to state my point I have created a small list.

This goes to show the energy of House x Planet (especially/ mostly Sun, Moon and Venus) in Synastry Overlays.

Usually and from experience, the House person will feel the „effect“ of the planet more while the planet person has a more passive/ reactive role. This means that i.e. if someone’s Sun for falls into your 7th House you will likely see them as a perfect match somehow and feel romantic attraction. They, may or may not feel the same, but are likely to at least notice this and maybe reciprocate just because you approach them in a more romantic manner than other people.

Another example would be that people with personal planets in your 4th House (family) feel very familiar to you and you trust them easily. You are likely to open up to them instantly and you feel at ease with them. In return, they are probably going to let their guard down, too, as they sense this, and behave in a pleasant manner with you.

However this also depends on the Houses from my experience, as well as the Chart natives (someone with the Sun in their 7th might be more prone to cater to other people’s perceptions of them, I.e. when they fall into someone’s 7th House they may be more likely to reciprocate the romantic advances)

Back to the list (I have tried to focus especially on the less classical Houses for romance).

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PLANET X HOUSE OVERLAYS (Synastry):

☀️ „Boost of Confidence“

1. The planet person will likely make you feel understood, validated and good about yourself.

You might see them as the trophy wife or husband and you might „fangirl“ them.

You are likely to look good together and be the typical dream couple, especially in public.

The planet person here gets a a healthy dose of ego boost (especially with the Sun), too.

🍀 „ Safe and Secure“

2. Usually the planet person will provide in one way or the other for the House Person (financially, emotionally, taking care of them etc). Thus, they give the House person a sense of security, stability and nourishment. The planet person will usually increase the self worth of the House person.

Also, the House person might be very inclined to touch the planet person and this placement can be great for simply hanging around, cuddling and having a cozy time.

This can be great for people who like stability, security and dependability in relationships.

👥 „Same Wavelenght“

3. People with their planets in your 3rd House usually stimulate your curiosity, communication and also social life. They will be someone you love to talk to, share ideas and socialize within a group.

As communication is key this is wonderful to have in a relationship, especially for people with an active mind! Understanding and being understood is just invaluable.

You might have a brother/ sister dynamic - in a good way! Like you just get each other.

👶🏼 “Soul Family“

4. This is an amazing Overlay to have. People in your 4th feel like family to you; they make you feel secure, nurtured and understood. It’s like you’ve known them from before (childhood or a past life even) and they almost always make you feel at ease.

This is also great for having a family together, of course! And it’s said that the planet person likely reminds you of your upbringing, has a similar approach to themes of home, family and the private life, and/or had a similar upbringing or family background and roots.

✨ „Spark and Romance“

5. 5th House overlays are usually lighthearted, fun and playful. They are about attraction and romance but they usually have an air of innocence - like a puppy kind of love!

They get a really good rap because they are usually easygoing but with that spark! It’s usually very flirty and the House person will feel youthful and stimulated when with the planet person.

They usually adore the planet person and make them feel attractive and desirable ..

This is also said to be good to have children together. The planet person may make you wanna pro-create and raise kids together with them.

🍀 „Love Everyday“

6. People from your 6th House can help you so much getting your life together. Just being around them may make you want to sort out your life and they will usually help you with your daily business, work and health (even by just being around). This does get a bad rap but your daily life is actually your DAILY LIFE. Who wouldn’t want to have someone around who is wonderful for them on a daily basis? While 5th House sometimes screams holiday romance, this person is here for you in every situation and you are compatible to be with each other on a day to day basis and share your everyday life.

It’s true that other romantic indicators are needed here but if they’re there this can be an amazing overlay. The planet person usually loves taking care of the House person‘s needs and helping them with their life. They can be very motherly (especially with the Moon and Venus there) in a good way, and they get things done together which can be so helpful when you don’t naturally have that in your Chart.

Also, this is a great overlay for living together and spending time on a daily basis!

💍 „Marry Me“

7. This is the classic „partnership“ House which basically means you are very likely to see the other person as a great match. They likely posesss qualities you value and look for in a relationship and they give you the romantic feels right away. If the other person feels similarly this is a very romantic placement and you are likely to become a couple and/or even get married (which doesn’t mean marriage is only meant for the 7th, like stated above).

🌚 „How deep is your Love“

8. This House is all about intimacy, depth and the soul. It is not as visible as the 7th and /because it usually goes a lot deeper. Someone in your 8th will stimulate your subconscious, the parts of you you didn’t know existed. Usually the planet person makes you feel like they „know“ parts of you no one else does.

They are likely to get under your skin, make you feel like they see right through you and have the ability to transform you somehow. The connection is felt on a „soul level“ and the merging can be very deep and profound. It’s also the House of sexuality but in my eyes that is only an expression of intimacy that this House arouses.

🌅 „Broadening of Horizon“

9. The 9th House is great for having your horizon broadened, your views expanded and a new world to be opened up to you. A person there will likely have an exotic vibe to them, like they have the ability to show you things you didn’t know existed. They may make you feel optimistic and adventurous and it’s a great placement for traveling the world together as well as to talk about everything under the sky, especially world views, spiritual, philosophical and religious matters. They will light up your world!

🥇“Going Places“

10. People in your 10th usually have something going for them that you admire and that if you follow them can get you right where you’re meant to be in life. They can act as a sort of natural authority that you willingly follow and where you never regret doing so because you have an adequate amount of respect for them.

This overlay is amazing for following your life’s path, achieving things and it will usually always contribute to your growth and level of maturity.

It’s a beautiful placement and shouldn’t be limited to „someone helping you with your career“.

Your relationship could be in the public eye somehow, also.

👫 “Best Friends and Lovers“

11. Whoever said friendship isn’t love? Many times you will read that this is the classical „friend zone“ overlay placement but who said lovers shouldn’t be friends or friends shouldn’t be lovers?

It’s true that if there are not so many other romantic indicators between the Charts (Venus/Moon, Mars/Venus etc) you are more likely going to see them on a platonic level but that doesn’t necessarily exclude other instances.

Some people value friendship over everything and all they want in a relationship is a partner in crime who is their best buddy!

You are likely to share ideals and more often than not a similar social circle which can be so great because who doesn’t love having your lover in the same friends group!

🌊 „Soul Connection“

12. Having a prominent Neptune in my Chart I have never understood how some people could view this placement as unfortunate.

With the 12th House Overlay you have a spiritual, otherworldly and soul connection to the other person that includes a selfless kind of love and karmic / soul ties (which def aren’t bad!).

You can likely sense what the other person feels and can easily connect through dreams. This placement is ethereal. The planet person will usually shed light on the hidden parts of the House person and help them heal.

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Thanks for reading and always love to hear your feedback, guys 😊☺️

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1h synastry

❤️‍🔥 love at first sight vibes, very much romeo and juliet from the beginning

❤️‍🔥 fighting back the urge to scream to the world how much you love them lol

❤️‍🔥 one partner could feel like they found the perfect person for them, whether that be that they match their ideal look or personality they’re wanting 👀

❤️‍🔥 one (or both) having a crush on the other and not being able to keep it a secret lol OR it’s very noticeable

❤️‍🔥 buying the other stuff that would look attractive on them

❤️‍🔥 living in the others head rent free LMFAO

❤️‍🔥 wanting to jump each other’s bones immediately lol doesn’t even have to be s*x tbh. they would settle for a hot steamy make out session too 😳

🥀 we fell in love in october by girl in red

daenerys targaryen & daario naharis (game of thrones)

2h synastry

❤️‍🔥 like 8h in the sense that they can’t keep their hands off each other 😳 very much attracted to each other’s physical appearance

❤️‍🔥 materialistic couple; their love language is gift giving/receiving. one partner could be the giver and the other the receiver

❤️‍🔥 potentially prioritizes their work above the relationship so they can be the bread earner and give to the other

❤️‍🔥 lots of snuggling lol touching each other is intoxicating, they can’t get enough of each other

❤️‍🔥 possessive as fuck over the other, could get jealous over the other very easily

❤️‍🔥 could have possibly met through their job or an activity of interest (ie bowling, clubbing etc)

❤️‍🔥 one partner loving to buy the other gifts just to see the satisfaction on their partners face :’) very sweet

🥀 all night by beyoncé

jennifer check & anita “needy” lesnicky (jennifer’s body)

3h synastry

❤️‍🔥 the couple that knows everything abt one another; absolutely no secrets between them or kept info because they literally know everything abt each other 😳

❤️‍🔥 communication is easy between them; could even know each other so well that they can communicate with looks/facial expressions. gives a sense of ability to read the others mind but it’s just bc of their closeness

❤️‍🔥 lotsssss of love letters/texts/calls lol their love language is talking to one another for hours abt anything and everything

❤️‍🔥 potentially met through living close to each other, public transport, through family/siblings or even school. could have been childhood friends even!

❤️‍🔥 they value the other more mentally than physically tbh but they still are attracted to the others appearance ofc

❤️‍🔥 picking the other first for teams when playing games/sports lol even if they aren’t the “best” in that activity

❤️‍🔥 the couple that gets in trouble for talking to each other too much when it’s not the right time 😅 (ie during lessons)

🥀 so damn into you by vlad holiday

jim halpert & pam beesly (the office)

4h synastry

❤️‍🔥 having a partner who feels like home to you; it doesn’t matter where you are, as long as you’re with them you feel safe and at peace

❤️‍🔥 the type of couple to make meals at home together, or one drinks while the other cooks but they are still in the kitchen together 😭

❤️‍🔥 the couple to talk about having kids before they talk about marriage lol

❤️‍🔥 very nurturing and caring towards one another, the type to overreact if the other gets mildly hurt 😅 “baby are you okay???? you sure??? maybe we should go ahead and go to the docto— no? but let’s just make sure!”

❤️‍🔥 homebody couple lol they don’t care what they do as long as they’re together

❤️‍🔥 pillow/blanket forts and movie marathons together as a date

❤️‍🔥 very protective of each other, hurting one is like hurting the other and they will come for your ass lol

🥀 sweater weather by the neighbourhood

stefan salvatore & elena gilbert (the vampire diaries)

5h synastry

❤️‍🔥 the “fun” couple lol they probably are known to just want to have fun together

❤️‍🔥 very into discovering the pleasures of life together, the type of couple to go to theme parks and carnivals together

❤️‍🔥 although the focus is on having fun they still love and trust each other; the relationship itself is romantic in it’s own way

❤️‍🔥 potentially met through exes or started off as a sneaky link 👀

❤️‍🔥 very creative couple, they could possibly make art together (whether that be painting, music, crafts etc)

❤️‍🔥 they’re like school children with crushes on the other lol it’s very cute and wholesome 🥺

❤️‍🔥 have the potential to become parents together

🥀 so high by ghost loft

effy stonem & james cook (skins)

6h synastry

❤️‍🔥 acts of service is their love language!! they do a lot for each other. the type of couple to stay home if the other is sick just to take care of them 🥺

❤️‍🔥 does everything together lol even buying the groceries, bathing, walking the dogs, getting the mail etc

❤️‍🔥 the couple that buys pets together and parents them

❤️‍🔥 “do you need anything?” every 10 mins they aren’t together

❤️‍🔥 probs the type of couple to doordash food for the other bc they know that they’re hungry and what they love to eat

❤️‍🔥 the couple that just seems to be on the same wavelength; they’re as attracted mentally as they are physically to the other

❤️‍🔥 potential to have the same career and/or same field

🥀 yellow by coldplay

lara jean covey & peter kavinsky (to all the boys i’ve loved before)

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The 6th house represents (according to the above authors):

🍁Aries Rising in the composite chart is a couple who cant hide their fighting from others. People usually see that this couple have a hard time getting along. They try to make the relationship look good bc of capricorn on the MC but people will see, they might even be known for being that couple who always fights.

🍂Pluto 10th house people have a need to be better than others. These people are afraid of not having status or being looked down on. They usually have certain people they see as trashy.

🍁To all moon/pluto and venus/pluto women, always be mean back when other women target you because being nice or crying will NOT work because other women will never feel bad for you. You will learn once you get older that you are gonna have to intimidate other women into being nice to you.

🍂Asteroid Lucifer(1930) conjunct personal planets in the natal chart can give someone a HUGE ego, someone who needs A LOT of attention and special treatment

🍁Capricorn Rising And Aries Rising might have a hard time understanding eachothers behaviour since they square, they act very differently in social settings.

🍂Libra Risings look very different from eachother Ive seen a lot of Libra Risings who looks more like the sign their Venus is in(their chart ruler) but they all had clear skin and a symmetrical face like the Libra rising descriptions say.

🍁Leo Venus and Capricorn Venus is a super common match in synastry because they both have high expectations and wants to be seen as a power couple, they both want someone they can show off.

🍂Cancer placements can be very patriotic since Cancer rules the ”home”.

🍁Virgo Risings and Capricorn Rising can look really arrogant even if they are down to earth there is something that screams ”im better than you”

🍂8th house suns are so wise you could think they have lived for 100 years

🍁Plutonians like to take selfies from below to look powerful and intimidating

🍂Neptune 1st house people are usually right-brained which makes them highly emotionally intelligent and artistic but they might have a hard time with logics and facts

🍁I know I shouldnt say this but im not a huge fan of Scorpio Moons bc they can be very immature when undeveloped and they hit below the belt. They do very unnecessary crazy things to be in control and they can be very very paranoid. Ive noticed that they can be very mean to people they consider ”weak”. They can also start hating someone for no reason at all

🍂People with Venus in the 8th and 12th house usually dont brag about themselves and they usually dislike people who do this, especially when it comes to looks. They are the kind of people who would never call themselves hot or say something like ”look at this body its all natural”

🍁People with Chiron in the 1st house might force their kids to become tough and might be very unsympathetic because they have a hard time with people who show weakness. They were often bullied when they were young and spend a lot of time making sure their kids wont be bullied

🍂Scorpio and 8th house placements experience a lot of losses in life which causes them to stop caring because they dont want to feel too strongly about anyone or anything bc they know they will loose it eventually, they also experience a lot of people wanting to take from them, or wanting what they have.

🍁People with Pluto in the 1st house can be very argumentative just like Aries Risings

🍂Lilith in the 2nd and 8th house is the ultimate goldigger placements

🍁Ive noticed that a lot of Taurus Moons and Venuses gets envious easily and they have a hard time dealing with it. Just like Pluto 1st house people they stare A LOT with an angry look on their face when they are jealous of someone.

🍂Lilith 1st house people try to act carefree and unbothered in public. They want people to see them as nonchalant and confident with a ”i dont care” attitude but they do care a lot.

🍁People with Neptune in the 1st house deals with a lot of projections from others and it started with their parents. Its common for them to have parents who had hard lifes and then project all their hurt onto them.

🍂Another hard thing with having neptune in the 1st house is being treated differently by everyone they meet because people always treat neptune 1st house people based on how they feel about themselves. One person will love them and the next will hate them.

🍁People with a plutonian venus also deals with these extreme reactions from others but mostly because of their looks. They are usually very beautiful but there is something powerful about their looks that makes others hate them. One person will treat them as if they were goddess aphrodite and the next person will call them ugly out of intimidation.

🍂Pluto in the 10th house is said to have problems with authority but ive actually noticed that they might be very liked by bosses and people with power since Pluto is where we are also powerful, especially if they have Jupiter aspects. For example they might be hated by their colleagues but the boss of the company loves them so nobody can get rid of them, thats typical Pluto 10th house. (If you have this placement please tell me your experiences)

Okay this is not so much an observation but it’s something serious that i want to bring up that i feel like needs attention. A lot of yall be talking about virgo placements having OCD as if it’s something quirky that someone can turn on or off, like..... “Virgo placements can go ocd mode by this one particular thing that annoys them”. GIRL. OCD ISN’T A MOOD. OCD IS A MENTAL ILLNESS. You can’t switch it on or off. People with virgo placements CAN be prone to having OCD, as can anybody, but you wouldn’t say that someone can simply go on a depression or ADHD mood, because you understand that that’s not something that you can simply choose to have whenever wherever. Well, it’s like that for every mental illness.... Be more mindful of your wording. And by the way, we need to stop associating virgo placements with ocd in a funny ahaha moment. Like... what’s hilarious about that? I swear that some of you have a broken humor from staying on those instagram astro pages who only post shit like. “Virgo = OCD. Taurus = eats food and is lazy. Capricorn = capitalism’s whore. Gemini = crazy.”

People with pluto aspecting their ascendant can experience others constantly assuming how they feel through their facial expressions... “You look sad. Have you been crying?” “You look tired. Did you get any sleep tonight?” “You look angry, calm down.” The most frustrating thing about this is that they’re usually wrong – you’re just standing there thinking about something completely unrelated and there come people assuming things about you. Like, no. That’s just my face. LEAVE ME ALONE.

My mother has her north node in the 9th house. A big shift in her life was going to university since she came from poverty and was the first person in her family to pursue a higher education.

People with pluto in the 2nd house can earn money from difficult, even dangerous jobs; can be a job that requires immense physical endurance.

Mercury-pluto, mercury-neptune and mercury-uranus natives are the type of people who, when playing a video game, love going deep into the lore and can be keen on psychoanalysing the characters, researching theories and even assigning birth charts to their faves.

Wherever your moon is placed in your birth chart can indicate what you’d do anything to protect. Moon in the 8th house natives would do anything to protect their secrets and deepest thoughts. Moon in the 10th house natives would do anything to protect their career and ambitions. Moon in the 11th house natives would do anything to protect their friends and their dreams.

Probably the most annoying thing about people with planets in the 5th house is how irresponsible they can be. I don’t really like the word “undeveloped” because something about it that i have yet to uncover makes me side-eye, but for the sake of this observation, i’ll use it. At their worst, people with undeveloped 5th house energy never take anything seriously. It can be hard for them to keep their word and they can break their promises. It’s good to be confident but they can overdo it to the point where they’re promising to give someone something that they know damn well they can’t deliver. Like... learn something from your opposite house, the 11th house— be more mindful of others’ needs instead of just your own lmfao.

@ the people in this community who love to brag about their anger issues AND BLAME THEM ON THEIR BIRTH CHART as if it’s funny.... it isn’t. You’re embarrassing. Go to therapy instead of thinking that lashing out on others is a funny quirky thing to do on a tuesday afternoon and that it’s a product of your cancer mars or scorpio moon or whatever the fuck you choose to pin it on. I see this way too much in this community lmfao

Saturn and pluto in the 3rd house natives can have extremely dark and pessimistic thoughts. They can find it really difficult to trust others’ words, they need the actions to back it up or else they’re not believing a word you say.

Having Saturn and North Node in the same house is having the universe be like “Here’s some extremely debilitating difficulty, it’ll be your life journey to overcome it 💋 have fun!”

People with lilith-pluto aspects especially square/opposite/conjunction can be constantly scared that someone will try to expose them or interfere with their ambitions, or that something irrational will try to take what’s theirs, so they hold onto the things they care for with teeth and claws.

Mercury-mars natives can get very affected when someone triggers them, they can react almost immediately in an impulsive and defensive way. It can be very frustrating for them to know that things that barely hurt others bring them down so easily. It’s okay. Build yourself back up.

Aquarius venus natives need to make sure that they’re allowing warm and loving experiences into their life. They can get very caught up in running away from love and shutting themselves off from emotional connections (sometimes unconsciously). Just make sure you’re allowing yourself to be loved and appreciated ok.

Mercury-lilith and mercury-pluto aspects, especially square/opposite/conjunct can feel as though they have a knife in the place of a throat. Their words seem to kill when they’re mad.

You know when Adam Driver played Kylo Ren and revealed his face from under the mask for the first time, and guys from every direction were flabbergasted, calling him ugly for not fitting into the typical conventionally attractive, buff male, chad superhero? That he looked too feminine and weird... Yet girls were losing their shit over how they wanted Kylo Ren to choke them like they were General Hux LMFAOOO. Well, that’s Aquarius Risings for you. People who want to perpetuate conventional beauty stereotypes hate them, yet their unconventional edge is what makes others fall in love with them. It’s their fucking energy, it’s indescribable.

People with natal Saturn Retrograde tend to have traumatizing relationships with their fathers that have shifted the way that they interact with authority figures in their life.

People with natal Jupiter Retrogrades tend to have very weird and particular traditions that they swear give them luck. Like always wearing the same tie before applying for a job interview, or always keeping a page ripped out of their favorite book in their pocket to keep them safe, or always muttering a certain phrase to themselves when they want something to happen. And weirdly enough, it always works out in their favor.

Every man I’ve ever known who had a pisces mars used their ability to easily empathise with others’ feelings as a way to manipulate them into giving them what they want (which is, most often, sex). And then the pisces mars ghosts them. Obviously not everyone with a pisces mars is insane because duh, I exist but I’ve seen this happen with others way too much so I had to comment on it, so... everyone, please stay safe in the streets.

A majority of the gemini suns I know take a lot of pride on being environmentally conscious. They like getting involved in causes that help others, even just locally. They want to make their community feel safer.

Something my cancer venus friend told her toxic grandmother in the middle of an argument: “The only family I need is my friends.” *sobs* i would d word for her

One really weird thing that i’ve observed way too many libra placements do, especially libra mercuries, is when they’re angry and in the middle of an argument... they’ll suddenly turn very cold and detached. As if they turn off their feelings and start using logic only. It’s so unsettling because it feels like you don’t even know who the person you’re talking to is anymore. They’ll suddenly start speaking in full, grammatically perfect sentences and countering your arguments like they’re full-on lawyers. And the absolute worst is when they do all this with a sickeningly sweet smile on, as if they’re not angry at you. As if delivering insults in a diplomatic tone makes them any less awful. If you do this then I’ll have to enter your brain to study it, because truly wtf

Yes, beauty is extremely subjective however we can’t lie and say there isn’t a magnetism to certain people!

With that said, if you have 4+ of these placements you’re more likely to come across as desirable to a big variety of people. If you don’t, don’t worry there is much more little indicators out there. ;). Love yourself <3. Little disclaimer it may be a little different for males and females. 

Venus in 1st/ Libra Rising. No brainer, I swear such symmestrical beautiful people have this placement.

Neptune Dominant, dreamy type beauty.

Lillith- ascendant aspects. More of a sexual appeal, can be objectified at times ):, Usually the body is very desirable.

Moon in cancer for Women. This is beautiful and it radiates very feminine energy and more of a rounder softer look.

Moon in Leo. For males and woman this is very hottt placement 🔥. They most likely will show off their beauty as well.

Pisces ASC For women. Such pretty soft apperance with dreamy eyes. More classified as “adorable”.

SCORPIO ASC. I’ve never met a scorpio ascendant that wasn’t sooooooo desirable I swear. I get lost in their eyes.. 

Aries ASC.  Maybe not too feminine, more on the masculine so men may benefit more from this placement. But definitely attractive and aren’t afraid to let people know that. Desirable eyebrows/ eye shape.

Cancer ASC for women. Curvy figure. Very feminine features. They look like someone to snuggle with, just very attractive and sensual. 

Venus in Taurus. I know I talked about physically but in my opinion the way Venus in Taurus love is so sensual and beautiful it makes you view them so physically attractive as well. Very nice clothing style. Their outfits are so put together in such beautiful way.

Apollo asteroid (1862) in aspect to Venus, Ascendant, Sun. (Especially conjuction, opposition) It’s an asteroid, yes. But its a BIG indicator on someone’s physical beauty in my opinion. Also indicator of how they’re respected and how people are attracted to them. 🥰

Apollo asteroid (1862) in Leo, Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio, Libra for women. Apollo asteroid in Aries, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn for men.  (Or if you classify as more feminine or masculine, gender doesn’t matter much) 

Mars in a water sign for Women.

Mars in an Earth sign for men.

Lillith in 8th or 1st house or 2nd house. 

Capricorn risings. Beautiful bone structure. Extremely wanted features.

Mars- Ascendant aspects. High sexual appeal.

Uranus- ascendant. More of a schocking beauty. Doesn’t look average at all, there is something intrueging about their apparance. Pulls people in. They like that as well.

Venus in Leo. They know people want them as well. They go out their way to look good, they know they look good.

Kallisto asteroid (204) touching the venus, ascendant, sun, moon, jupiter.  (For example Adrianna Lima has it conjuct venus, Beyonce has it conjuct her ascendant, Angelina Jolie has it conjuct jupiter and moon. 

Venus- Pluto aspects. Suffocating like apperance. Intense appeal.

Moon- Ascendant. Cute appearance, most likely shorter. Benefits women more.

Venus in Cancer. They most likely dress casually but they have a very trusting aura that’s attractive, so people would most likely find them physically attractive as well. May benefit from modeling. Found this a lot in actors who are admired for their beauty. Also models

Lillith in water sign for women. Lillith in fire for men.

Venus -Neptune aspects. Dreamy look kind of like a pisces rising. They have a dreamy clothing style as well. Does benefit women a little more. A lot of Victoria Secret models have this.

Gemini risings. They give off more of a “bad bitch” type of appearance. May flaunt their body a lot. In my opinion this one isn’t talked about a lot but I definietly think Gemini risings are extremely attractive. Charming teeth/smile.

Moon in Sagittarius for women. More of a curvy figure. 

Jupiter~ asc. Can give a big bootey, big breasts. More of a curvacious figure. Both men and women usually have dimples. 

Mars in Libra. They put effort a lot to their style.

Asteroid Eros (433) in a water or fire sign. Eros in 1st or 2nd.

Aphrodite Asteroid (1388) in Scorpio/ Taurus/ Libra.

Hera asteroid (103) More of a feminine maturity. Era touching Venus, Ascendant, Sun, Moon. 

Juno (3)  in 1st, 8th, or 2nd.  Juno touching ascendant or Venus or sun.

Bella Asteroid (695). Ageless beauty. Touching Venus, Sun, Ascendant, Moon. **If it’s touching your Venus you will most likely age like fineee winee.** 🤓. Honorable mention to Gemini in this asteroid. You will stay looking so youthful when you’re old asf.

Moon in Scorpio for men especially. Very attractive intensely. Most likely get compliments about their eyes a lot or their nose.

Leo sun. 🔥 Sexy bitches.

Leo Ascendant.. Again sexy bitches! With nice wavy hair. (If not wavy, your hair is definietly a noticeable attribute about you)

Zeus (5731) in Fire or Water. Touching Ascendant or Venus as well.

Earth in big three for very desirable calming features. May look older as well.

Saturn- Ascendant. Benefits men a bit more. More of a skinny lean figure.

Sagittarius Ascendant for Men and Women. Definietly beautiful smiles and big lips. 

Venus in the 2nd house. Venus in 10th house and is known for their beauty.

Asteroid Eva (164). In Libra, Sagittarius, Leo, Scorpio, Pisces.

Moon in 2nd or 1st. More of an innocent type beauty. Women may have more of a motherly look to them. Just very trusting look.

Virgo rising. More of an intellectual look, that is attractive to big auidences. Probably looks good with glasses. 

Lillith- Pluto aspects.

Pluto~ Sun aspects.

There is much more out there, but these are very remarkable. Leave some feedback in the comments. Thank you! 

☽ You feel a need to have fun and constantly create or look for new things to create. 

☽ The process of creation is just as emotionally fulfilling as finishing creative works for you. 

☽ You’re a high achiever and want recognition for your creations. You’re competitive and want to be the best at what you do. 

☽ You love to feel good, positive things and want to share your positive emotions with others. 

☽ You want to do good for others and show them how to engage in their childlike joy. 

☽ You tend to hide your sadness from others because you don’t want to bring them down and constantly want others to feel happiness. 

☽ You have a tendency to be emotional when you aren’t feeling positive, making others happy, or sharing your intensity with the world. 

☽ You feel a constant need to put things out there, whether it’s in an emotional sense or a creative sense. 

-often enjoy doing things for people they love; they tend to love expressing themselves and doing things to make the people around them feel happy

-are commonly the type of people to show how they feel and are eager to show/tell others how they are feeling rather than keeping everything private and hidden, sometimes they may come across as overdramatic to others because of this and they are usually very intense people, especially within relationships

-people with this placement tend to get along very well with children and seem to have a natural ability with kids, commonly getting along with their own children or other people’s easily

-moon in the 5th house often manifests as a very imaginative and expressive individual, who are usually very in touch with their inner child 

-sometimes people with this placement may have issues with money and their spending habits, they may come across issues with gambling, overspending and/or impulse buying

-because of their childlike side, they can sometimes be prone to taking unnecessary risks and not acting as responsibly as they perhaps should

-people with this placement may have a tendency to be very competitive and want to be the best in every way, but they will rarely be the type to intentionally want to hurt someones feelings and instead seek the personal accomplishment that comes with feeling like they are the best

-it can be the case that men with moon in the 5th house commonly seek out extremely beautiful women and desire the type of women that all the men are also seeking, likely due to their competitive nature

-people with this placement are usually good leaders but can risk being dominating if the moon is in a fixed sign

-tend to be very authentic and talented at what they work towards

-sometimes people with moon in the 5th house can seem needy and because of their often dramatic nature, people might often find them overbearing or too much

-there is often a need for those with this placement to express themselves creatively or express their feelings/emotions through creating something

-may have a changeable romantic life and go through a lot of changes when it comes to love/partners; sometimes people with moon in the 5th house may struggle with experience frequent/several love affairs that do not seem to fully satisfy them

-often are very creatively talented but may find that they go through a lot of different hobbies/methods of being creative until they find what they love and enjoy most

-because this placement manifests as someone who is likely very imaginative, people with this placement are often prone to daydreaming and fantasising

-although people with this placement are often very childlike, fun to be around, expressive, spontaneous and playful which can be appealing to others, these traits can also get them in trouble at times as it can result in them becoming risk takers and/or very impulsive people

-those with this placement are usually very driven by their heart, feelings and emotions which can cause them to be very expressive and impulsive; they are often pleasure seekers who don’t think twice about going for something if it feels right in the moment

-as well as potentially having a very impulsive personality, people with this placement can also be very impulsive when it comes to love and relationships; they can be prone to falling in and out of love very easily because they may often follow their heart rather than listening to their head/thinking things through

-often being playful pleasure seekers, they seek emotional fulfilment and satisfaction through fun and may be the type to chase instant gratification and lose patience easily

-as they are usually drawn to things that are exciting and enjoyable, they are generally positive, upbeat, optimistic and fun to be around; however, they can quickly become restless and irritable if they are in an environment/phase where they are not able to express themselves or gain pleasure

-people with this placement may struggle to focus on anything that does not interest them or bring them enjoyment/pleasure; they often do not do well with any tasks that are tedious, boring and/or repetitive 

-moon in the 5th house can cause people to enjoy receiving praise, attention and admiration from others; they tend to enjoy getting noticed and acknowledged and this could influence them towards becoming even more impulsive/taking more risks in order to gain recognition from others for this

-their need for constant excitement and to always keep things fun and interesting can cause issues when it comes to love and relationships; they so often need to be stimulated and often struggle to stick to the rules which can cause tension 

-it has been said that people with moon in the 5th house has greater potential to raise children who become famous in the future

~ pluto - ascendant placements attract a lot of obsessive gossipers.

~ chiron in the first house makes you come off as insecure. It may cause scars on the face.

~ sun - pluto placements may attract unwanted hostility because of being misunderstood.

~ venus square ascendant causes insecurity towards the way you present yourself. The way you look may not match your personality.

~ venus - pluto placements cause a lot of intense feelings towards romance but the harsh placements (square, inconjunct, opposition) may cause jealousy and obsessiveness.

~ venus square saturn can cause insecurities about self-worth in relationships. May translate into jealously depending on other aspects like mars or pluto.

~ neptune in the 1st may attract obsessive/nosy people.

~~ unpopular opinion but I like inconjunct/quincux is a major aspect! like HOLY ~~

~ venus in gemini gets a bad rep, i think it's incredibly romantic without the toxicity.

~ pluto in 7th may prefer a power dynamic in a relationship. Like only picking partners they considered more/less powerful than themselves.

~ moon square or opposite saturn may have a hard time dealing with their emotions. repression.

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🎙️ The conjunction is the only aspect possible between Mercury-Sun, so if someone has this aspect, it is likely that their voice is full of confidence, there can be a rich quality to their voice, they may speak with plenty of precision and are not ones to stumble or stammer; they come across as though they know a lot of information.

🎤 Mercury-Moon aspects could indicate that the person has a really soothing voice, full of calmness and serenity, speaking softly and femininely. They may have a type of voice that you feel like you can trust and confide in, because they are so gentle through the way they communicate.

🎙️Mercury-Venus aspects could indicate that the person has a beautiful voice, a voice that is highly appealing and sweet. They may also be talented at singing because of their lovely voice. They sound very melodic and charming.

🎤 Mercury-Mars aspects could indicate that the person has a striking voice, their tone of voice may be brash and probably sounds harsh. They might often sound angry even if they are not actually angry. These natives are also known to speak with tons of passion and intensity, and aggression.

🎙️Mercury-Jupiter aspects could indicate that the person has a pretty loud voice, and they make sure that their words are being heard, so therefore their tone of voice is prominent. People with these aspects are prone to laughing a lot, and often have long, loud laughs, which gives them an endearing quality.

🎤 Mercury-Saturn aspects could indicate that the person has a quiet, reserved, and respectful tone of voice. When they speak, they seem composed and could have a wise way of speaking. Their voice is often monotone and they usually talk dryly, at a relatively slow pace.

🎙️Mercury-Uranus aspects could indicate that the person has a unique voice; maybe their voice is quite different, or stands out among the rest. Think of Morgan Freeman: one of the main things he is recognized for is his renowned voice (he has Mercury conjunct Uranus). These natives attract interest through the way they speak because the voice is typically dissimilar from most.

🎤 Mercury-Neptune aspects could indicate that the person has a dreamy, poetic, sleepy tone of voice. They sound laid back and nonchalant, but also with an enchanting quality to the way they speak. Their voice is chilled out and mellow, and they may sound a little shy.

Note: this isn’t a post about the best aspects - or the worst - a synastry chart can have, there’s no universal good or bad, only energy. This post analyzes the aspects I have personally experienced in different relationships throughout my life and how they manifested in the connection.

A single synastry aspect will never be enough to define a connection, as it’s very important to look at the chart as a whole and find a way to balance things out. If you’re interested in synastry or natal astrology, I’d advise you to get a chart interpretation done by a professional. Find out more here!

The best

Moon conjunct Asc (ascendant/rising sign) (☾ ☌Asc): one of the safest, most harmonious and tranquil relationships I have ever had. With this aspect there’s mutual intuitive understanding, comfort, and a feeling of “coming home” when together. The Moon person trusts the Asc person, which helps make the latter more empathetic and understanding. Both feel at ease with each other and easily open up about memories, thoughts and traumas they were reluctant to share with others, or perhaps never discussed openly before. This aspect usually brings personal healing for both partners with it. Both parties benefit from it and have the potential to better themselves here. The emotional connection is very strong and usually doesn’t take a lot of time to reach a deeper level. Two important downsides of this aspect are the possibility of becoming too dependant on one another and the naturally very emotional nature of the relationship which not everyone could be ready to handle.

A similar energy to the Moon/Asc conjunction is created by a Moon/Moon conjunction.

Jupiter trine Pluto (♃ △ ♇): this aspect manifested in the connection through constant respect, inspiration and support of each other’s ideas. We were able to bring each other up and set realistic goals for what otherwise would’ve just stayed a dream. In this aspect Jupiter can often help both partners further develop their spirituality. It’s also a great aspect when it comes to money, as it can bring abundance to both partners in the relationship, especially through those ideas they were able to come up with together. Even if the relationship doesn’t last, this aspect will ensure both the parties underwent profound change together and are now better versions of themselves. The Pluto person captivayes Jupiter by how deeply emotionally raw they can be, and this helps the Jupiter person get in touch with their emotional side as well. In turn Jupiter helps Pluto open up to different exoer more. Together this duo can travel, be very fortunate, and find natural understanding in one another.

Sun conjunct Mercury (☉ ☌ ☿): this aspect in synastry provides the pair with endless interesting conversations. Natural understanding between the two is favored by the Mercury person reflecting who the Sun person really is. Conversations can go on for hours ranging from deep thoughts to daily mundane topics. Both partners usually learn a lot in this relationship, not only by discussing almost anything, but also from trying nex things together out of curiosity. Conflicts are usually resolved in a logical and light manner rather than soul crushing fights. The sense of humor shared by the partners is amazing, as well as the respect and support for each other’s ideas and projects.

Moon trine Mercury (☾ △ ☿ ): here the Moon person finds a new way of expressing themselves and possibly find it in them to discuss topics they have never shared before with anybody else. The partners usually share common interests and hobbies, and enjoy each other’s company. It’s a relaxed, nurturing, encouraging and positive connection. There’s mutual support and an emphasis on going after their dreams!

I had a similar supportive energy (but more mentally enthralling) with a Mercury/Mercury trine

The worst

These aspects are always challenging in synastry, but never impossible. The way these energies manifested in my life were also influenced by the rest of the synastry charts. For the right people, all of these can be amazing encouragements for betterment and growth.

Saturn opposite Pluto (♄ ☍ ♇): an aspect I unfortunately had to repeat in several relationships before learning my lesson, the energy here is serious, controlling, limiting, explosive, domineering and destructive. It is a hard aspect to balance, and is usually expressed by the Saturn person trying to limit and change Pluto’s nature, blaming them for the feelings of instability in the relationship. The Pluto person projects their deepest wounds and unhealed trauma onto the relationship and their partner. When triggered Pluto can be explosive and destructive, which is uncontrollable no matter how hard Saturn tries to keep things cool. Resentment, pain and feelings of inadequacy are often triggered in both partners.

Mars opposite Saturn (♂☍ ♄): this aspect is very domineering and can make both partners try to impose themselves on the other, resulting in conflict and fights. To work this opposition requires various compromises on both sides. Both partners admire the other, but they feel like they’re always in competition and need to prove their worth. Feelings of resentment aren’t uncommon. The partners aren’t totally ready to accept each other’s difference and although there’s usually a lot of sexual tension, the Saturn person might distance themselves once intimacy is achieved between them. Often this aspects makes the two partners bring out the worst in one another.

The most intense

Venus conjunct Black Moon Lilith (♀ ☌ BML): very intense connection, instant sexual attraction, a lot of desire. This can have an obsessive quality for both, but for the Venus person especially, it may be hard for them to really let go or forget their oartner, even years down the line. There’s something secretive and taboo about this connection. It could be kept a secret for some time, or be a “on again, off again” type of relationship. If that’s the case, the Lilith person is usually the one trying to maintain their independence and being resistant to a long term commitment. This aspect can also indicate knowing that someone’s not good for you but going after them anyway: the desire is so strong it overpowers will. Even if the relationship ends, there will always be mutual attraction between these people.

Mars conjunct Asc (♂☌Asc): pretty self explanatory, a lot of drive, sexual energy, crazy attraction. A good sexual compatibility.

Pluto conjunct Mars (♇ ☌ ♂): this energy is like Mars conj Asc but on steroids. Extreme attraction and magnetism, it’s transformative, raw and intimate. It can at times lead to power struggles. It can also easily become obsessive; it is difficult for both partners to not think or forget about the other, especially for the Mars person. Very much physical, this energy isn’t soft and sensual like Moon/Venus aspects. It’s deep, obsessive, raw, almost impossible to stop. The attraction between the two people is usually immediate and sparks are flying from the moment they meet. A very intense and overwhelming aspect, this energy finds release through sex. This energy however can also trigger both parties to violent or agressive responses, and usually burns out pretty quickly. In my persona experience, ending a relationship fueled by this intensity is difficult and usually changes both people in the end. It can be very hard to let go.