Eclectic Starfish

I’ve been abused and been around a lot of abuse and that video was giving me anxiety because it reminded me of it.

“But he was hitting the cabinets not her” First of all abuse is not only physical. You’re seriously underestimating how terrifying it is to be around a man who’s that angry. I’ve been so scared for my safety that I had to call a friend and stay with them when the anger wasn’t even directed at me.

Second of all we only saw the brief bit that she was able to film before he aggressively took it from her. I can almost guarantee that he started directing his verbal and physical abuse towards her after the video.

“She was baiting him!! All the things she was saying were provoking him!” Anything she would have said would have provoked him. Not saying anything would have provoked him! All she did was ask if something happened and if he was drunk, she most likely was asking so she would know how to deal with him and try to calm him down.

“He was drunk!!” That literally doesn’t excuse him at all??

The Zodiac Wheel is an evolution. Signs still hold some of the energy from the Sign before them and they pass their energy onto the next.

Aries and Taurus: physical, innocent, determined, confident

Taurus and Gemini: logical, self-assured, witty, independent

Gemini and Cancer: responsive, adaptable, observing, volatile

Cancer and Leo: generous, expressive, loyal, passionate

Leo and Virgo: ambitious, enterprising, perfectionist, determined

Virgo and Libra: orderly, considerate, image-oriented, perfectionist

Libra and Scorpio: intuitive, emotionally intelligent, detached, cool

Scorpio and Sagittarius: dynamic, insightful, expansive, intense

Sagittarius and Capricorn: loyal, discerning, far-sighted, industrious

Capricorn and Aquarius: patient, aloof, independent, calm

Aquarius and Pisces: humanitarian, original, broad-minded, accepting

Matthew Hussey

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