talk is cheap

So many women have internalized the idea that being difficult makes people think less of them, when in my experience the opposite is almost always true. Every single time I have spoken up, voiced what I actually need and refused to shrink the moment in order to be more comfortable for everyone else in the room, I have been approached afterward by people who wanted to know me better. There is no reward waiting for you on the other side of making yourself smaller. People do not love you more for taking up less space, they simply get used to you taking up less space and adjust their expectations accordingly. Every time I have been exactly as audacious as the moment required, it has opened doors rather than closed them and I have made real connections directly because of it rather than in spite of it.

mint mobile freakin rocks i get a 10 day international pass for 20 bucks and free roaming in canada it's so stress free

also i pay my phone bill once a year which rocks. but if i don't have enough money when the time rolls around, i just get one or two months at a slightly higher rate and buy a full year when i have the bread again. a full year of unlimited data is 360 bucks. that's 30 bucks a month.

look upon my work, ye mighty, and this pear 🍐

everything beautiful in this world is vagina shaped… orchids and lillies and oysters and strawberries and figs and kiwis and vaginas <3 <3 <3

@pbam2 yippee 🩵