here are some red flags while looking for a caregiver, or little. this is mostly a good community filled with love, but every good community comes with those who abuse it. (THIS IS FOR CGLRE. NOT CGL.)
- they make the rules and punishments on their own, not asking for your limits or opinions.
- they, without you telling them thats what you’d like or just asking for their opinion: control what you eat, wear, and who you talk to.
- they do it because they want a dom/sub dynamic
- they are obsessive over the thought of giving punishments
- they make you cut off your whole grown-up life, or relationships, to stay little for them.
- they force you to be s*xual, especially in little space, or just do things you genuinely really dont want to do and did not consent to, ex. punishments that were never talked about or you said it was a limit
- they hit you or inflict pain, even playfully
- they break your belongings
- they want you to give everything up, to devote all of your time to them
- they only want a relationship for a sub/dom dynamic
- they want you to give everything up and spend their entire time taking care of you
- when regressed, they hit you or break your things, or just insult you, but excuse it by “they were regressed”
- they use behaviors you said you were uncomfortable with, ex. being extremely bratty
- they force you to be s*xual, especially while they’re regressed.
- they do things purposely to be punished
- they make you cut off relationships and control who you talk to, where you go, what you do, etc.
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