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Tonight self-acceptance came across my mind. I think too many of us including myself spend more time trying to impress others rather then accepting ourselves just as we are. Why is it that who we are or the way we look isn’t good enough? 

Sometimes it’s not good enough for a stranger, family, friends or even yourself. Confidence is hard to come by. It has pushed the buttons of perfection because someone told us there is only one version of what pretty looks like vs. ugly. Or dorky vs. cool. fat vs. skinny. Which is just crazy, cause who has the right, right?

{{Two sides to one person}} So with this we then have a version of us we portray to the world; the version we think everyone will accept and then the other side that only us and very few people we know see because that’s the real you. The real you if not meeting these invisible guidelines of society then isn’t allowed so in a way your hiding from the world.  Mental Health is one area where I did hide. I pretended to be happy for other people’s sake and then would break down and cry when I was out of sight. Along with it I also hide things like my sexuality(bi), my weight(overweight), my appearance(face-acne,hair-wrong, self-harm scars-frowned upon), my mental health(bipolar, depression, self-harm), etc. I went through periods of not being able to look in the mirror or I also would be so obsessed I spent hours in the mirror just picking myself apart.

None of this is healthy. I want this post to be a reminder if anything that you should love yourself for who you are and FLAUNT it!!! If someone tells you your ugly, tell them no i’m not your ugly for saying that. You are beautiful! If someone says your dumb cause you don’t know something - no your not your learning.  You are human. You deserve to rest easy and be yourself. Self-accept, that alone makes you strong and better then someone who wants to put you down.  If you are struggling with appearance, self-accepting, allowing yourself to just be human; message me cause this is a no judgement zone ❤

His merch even includes $40…“HANDWRITTEN, SIGNED AND PERSONALIZED LYRIC SHEETS (LIMITED)” that looks a lot like the lyric pages from the rep books.

There’s such a thing as coincidence and common elements, “imitation is the sincerest form of flattery”, and Lover isn’t a unique word, but the thing taken as a whole is a shock. He’s a small artist and I don’t want to see him get hate but dang fella.

It’s darker toned, male Taylor Swift “Lover”. This isn’t pools and bands. This is name, very specific design elements, and dates.

A two year writing process that will now forever be linked to this fiasco, rather than staying an original and interesting artist. He KNEW…“(insert Taylor Swift joke here). It’s about, well, me.”

So here’s a list of thing to inspire you, some are for drawings and other are for writing or both

1. angels/gods/feathers/wings

2. once when I was in a dream someone told me…

3. parallel universes (I’m right here why can’t you see/hear me)

4. cut out shapes from images (”there’s something missing”)

5. winter/summer sky at 5pm/5am/10am… (colors cut out from magazines or painted with watercolors/acrylics/whatever)

6. moments right before the storm, when everything is flying around, grey clouds, unrest

7.too tired to think ( random thoughts/pictures that go through my head right before I fall asleep)

8.illustrate a dream you had

9. what do you believe in ( about life/death, what comes after, meaning of it all…)

10. the butterfly effect

11.draw same thing in different mediums/ with left and right hand

12. favorite movie/series (favorite quote from it, scenes, how it made you feel)

13. what do you think about when you’re laying in dark,empty room

14. abandoned buildings/ playgrounds, empty train stations/parks, old houses

15. places where no one has been in a while and a nature got to it and grew all over the walls and floor, shattered glass, spider webs, sun rays shining through tree branches

these are just ideas and pictures in my mind I haven’t yet managed to put on paper and if anyone decides to use some of them and posts please tag me I’d like to see how you imagined it :)

Theoretical physicist Brian Greene on why the sciences and the humanities are kindred spirits.

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So alcohol induced blackouts- when your memories from the night before are either fragmented or completely gone are caused by a large spike in Blood Alcohol Concentration (BAC). This often happens when we drink large quantities of alcohol very quickly, or if we haven’t eaten much that day- it’s also much more common in females. When our BAC rises quickly, a structure in the brain called the hippocampus is affected.

The hippocampus plays a crucial role in memory. More specifically, it helps the consolidation of information from short-term memory to long term memory. Now when we add alcohol to the mix, our hippocampus can’t do it’s job properly. Information in the short term memory can’t be transferred into your long term memory. So it’s not really a case that alcohol makes you forget, the (long-term) memory is never stored in the first place.