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"kids are getting indoctrinated into transgenderism" did you know that left handedness increased from 3% to 12% when they stopped beating left handed children.
And, fun fact, it plateaued! Just in case you were confused and suddenly afraid that the world would be exclusively lefties now that we are no longer enforcing right-handed-ness.
Does that sound similar to any other stupid viewpoints you might have? Hmmm?
I know everyone says itâs best to just stick to âsaidâ as a dialogue tag bc it disappears and thatâs true and I mostly do but I want to take a moment for my all-time favorite dialogue tag, âlied.â Absolutely nothing hits like ââIâm here to help,â he lied.â NOTHING.
I was in a college psych class, and the teacher was doing some kind of exercise about memory, patterns, and retention. He began with, âfor instance, if I asked you what number the first letter of your name is in the alphabet, you wouldnât be able to tell me right awââ
âTen,â I said.
âWhat?â
âJ. J is ten,â I said again.
He stared at me.
âI happened to learn it while looking at the alphabet when I was five or six, and it just stayed in my brain,â I told him.
Then we did an exercise on retention. âIâm going to tell you a story,â he said, âand then Iâm going to send you out of the room for five minutes, and when you come back, you have to repeat as much of the story back to me as possible.â
He told me a long and meandering story with no plot or structure, just a random series of events, place names, actions, etc. Then he sent me out of the room.
I looked at the wall for a while.
He called me back in five minutes later, stood me up in front of the class, and asked me to repeat âjust as much of the story as you remember.â Apparently while Iâd been gone heâd been telling the class about how eyewitness accounts arenât reliable because people donât remember things well after a certain period of time.
So I told his story back to himâ not verbatim, but certain phrases were exactâ and watched the consternation in his face as I accidentally blew up his (valid! and extensively studied!) lesson about how bad peopleâs retention is.
âItâs like a song,â I tried to explain to him, and the class. âOr a poem. Every part of the story has a little tag to remember it. I looked at the chalkboard while you were saying this part. My leg itched while you were saying that part. A chair squeaked during the next part. Then I just have to come back and go over all the sensations that I had while you wereâ
âSit down,â he said.
I sat.
Turns out Iâm Autisms Georg adn should not have been counted
ADHD version: A friend asked, on a field trip, why I knew the scientific name for Caltha palustris, âWell, we did that [one week long] field ID course [three years previously] and we saw it in one of the bogsâ.
This, I was informed, is very much not a normal reason to remember the scientific name of a plant for the rest of your life.
It took me five whole years to learn when my partnerâs birthday is.
I can remember specific details about games I played over two decades ago that I have not played since.
I once forgot it was my birthday. On my birthday. And when my sister (Who lived several hours away) jumped out of hiding and yelled happy birthday, I looked around to see who she was talking to.
oh wow they got me like right on the money. what the hell.
I actually love this so much this is great
no-pressure tags!: @soundwin @ssszlami @judebilation @leofiat-bunny @firstyok @distant-screaming @alan-apologist @tiistirtipii @gennianydots @lamonnaie @ashedddaisy <3 love ya'll and wanna get to know you
also tagging anyone who sees this and wants to do it!!!
can't say this is entirely accurate rn (definitely accurate a couple of years ago though) but the quiz was so fun to do (i kept getting distracted by the graphics :P)
tagging @xinhua-jun @kessthenorthface @neonsbian @iwillkillmyself-iswear @dumb-bitch-brain @allie-elle @aurohha @thattiredthot @told-the-moon-about-you (no pressure!) and anyone else who wants to do it :)
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Unfriendly reminder that while you're busy mourning the loss of your childs old gender, claiming you need to mourn the death of your son/daughter, there's a group of boys/girls/enbies scrambling to take your kid clothes shopping, snatching up the chance to take those "first" experiences from you forever. Your sons first fishing trip is gonna be with his best bros, your daughters first makeover is going to be with her girl friends, your kids first camping trip out as themselves is gonna be with the besties. Good luck getting those bonding experiences back. While you're busy trying to guilt-trip your kid with your weird manufactured parental trauma, there's a whole community ready to take your place as the better family.
the 5 love languages: song recommendations, parallel play, talking about The Character, offering to kill each otherâs parents, gifting little trinkets
One time I was working as a waiter at a burger joint where the fries were tossed in salt and coriander and as I was bringing food over to the table for these two huge beefy guys one of them asks what the green stuff is so I go "it's coriander" and his friend goes very seriously "he can't have coriander" and I'm thinking shit ok maybe he's allergic and guy 1 starts pulling up his sleeve to show me something and I'm thinking shit shit shit he's probably breaking out in hives rn and it's my fault but he just shows me his arm and he has this huge cursive font tattoo that just says "I fucking hate coriander"
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adhd study affirmations + tips to stray from discouragement
by a stem student with adhd.
youâre not always going to be consistent. youâre not always going to be motivated. youâre not always going to be efficient. and that is okay.
edit : thank you so much to whoever blazed this post. It means the world to me.
and the fact that you even got this far is an accomplishment in and of itself. In this line of work, people arenât always the kindest to neurodivergent people especially since our symptoms can often hinder our performance academically.
if youâre good to go after reading the above, Iâve also made a post regarding adhd study tips that I havenât seen anywhere else. But, if youâre burned out like me, feel free to keep reading.
honestly, these might serve a bit more as reminders because theyâre kinda simple but even I needed this, so, here we go.
do not seek advice from anyone neurotypical unless it genuinely helps you. I cannot tell you the amount of time and tears I could have saved if I just considered the fact that just because popular self-improvement tips or study techniques didnât work for me, it doesnât mean Iâm stupid or useless. It simply means our brains isnât motivated by the same things neurotypical ones are, and therefore a lot of popular self-improvement videos or study tips arenât going to work for you because 90% of the time, theyâre not designed to work for neurodivergent people. So if youâd like to seek help in this area, look for tips and videos that ARE for neurodivergent people.
you might experience burnout a lot more than others. again, that is fine. if this doesnât apply to you, great! Feel free to skip to the next tip/affirmation. If this does apply to you, read this carefully; if youâve had any sort of streak in studying right now, chances are you know at least a portion of your studies were led purely on interest, curiosity or even novelty, as these are what keep us engaged in our studies. Knowing this, it is natural for you to experience burnout more frequently than others due to the possible hyperfixations that have been forming around your work. If you get burned out, please remember to take a break for a day and make sure it is efficient. Like your studies, your breaks are the key to having efficient study sessions in the future. So please treat yourself, especially if youâve been working extra hard!
do not admire studious fictional characters unless it genuinely helps you or they too are neurodivergent. I know this technically could have been thrown in with tip number 1 but I felt like this tip alone is so important, because nowadays I see a lot of study tips with the title, âhow to study like (insert studious fictional character here)â and when I look at the post it kinda repeats the same few study tips I see all the time like âstay organizedâ or âtime block your dayâ and I feel like admiring fictional characters who do things that donât work for you can be damaging for your mental health, because weâre already told by neurotypical people all around us that weâre slow or lazy just because we donât do things the way they do, and I think idolizing neurotypical people that make us feel bad at the end of the day just further promotes that kind of toxic thinking.
expect that a routine/schedule/technique that has been working for a while now may not continue to work in the future. things will always have to be new for us to be interested or engaged, that being said, if you expect this in the future you wonât be frustrated with yourself because you already had this in mind. It doesnât mean youâre not smart. It doesnât mean youâre lazy. It doesnât mean youâre useless. It just means that youâve done what you could, and now itâs time to move on to another routine/schedule/technique.
keep doing the things you love alongside work. I find that because our symptoms may cause us to fall behind on our studies, we tend to neglect our other needs as human beings just to make up for the fact that we simply do not learn or pick things up the same way neurotypical people do. Your hobbies and interests need to be part of your day, just as your studies do, even if you may take longer to learn things or remember important concepts in your studies. Neglecting your hobbies or interests can lead to even more frequent burn outs and even a relapse in depression and anxiety, so please take care of yourself and recognize that you need and deserve these things just as much as anyone else.
regularly discover what works for you on your own. hereâs the thing; neurodivergent or not, no two brains work the same. Of course it is good to try out advice or tips you find online because theyâre backed up by experience, but theyâre backed up by that personâs experience with working with their own brain. So naturally, you need to find what works with your brain. Be open to trying everything, even the tips that are discouraged like listening to lyrical music while studying. That was the only way I learnt that this tip actually does help me at times, even when many people have said that it negatively affects your focus.
thatâs all I have right now guys, I think Iâm experiencing burn out or probably falling back into depression again so more than anything this also served as a reminder for me, but I really hope it also helped you guys nonetheless.
As always, tell me if you guys would like more posts like these and Iâll be happy to make more <33 please take care of yourself guys, and remember that your studies is just one aspect of your life. There are other aspects that need your care and attention too.
I really like the word âsmittenâ. because at first glance you just think of sappy lovey-dovey stuff but also you have to remember this is a word thatâs born of the word âsmite.â a devastating word. a word that, summarized, means stricken. smitten means stricken as well â struck with devastating affection.
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my dad is the funniest person in the world to make small talk with. we passed a taco bell and he was like âwhatâs your favorite thing to get thereâ and i said âthe crunchwrap supremeâ and he said âtell me about itâ and i described it to him and he said âthat sounds delicious. whatâs your second favorite thing at taco bellâ
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